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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ive been online for a while, rarely meet people and dont no why.

i have private pics which i send people but still no replys

any help people thanks

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

ppl dont like blind dates...so adding pics would help.

The site is a tool, how are you using?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a single male

You are 24

You have not 1 picture in public

You are bi-curious

Your profile doesn't say a great deal about you

You don't state what it is you are looking for

Do you read profiles properly before messaging ?

Do you send standard copy and paste type messages to those you contact ?

All of these COULD BE factors in why you are getting as many meets as you would like.

I would say it is perhaps a combination of the above.

Remember that none of us is attractive to everyone.

We all have a limited marketplace.

The profile is your space to sell yourself or at least to get people to stop and take a look at what it is you are selling.

Messages that you send out are your 'hard sell' if you like.

They are an extension of your marketing strategy.

Have you done your market research ?

Are you targetting specific households or do you post a standard flier in the letterbox.

All areas for you to consider

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

wot do u mean how im i using lol

if people want pictures i have them when i send a mail i always attatch pic

thanks 4 reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wot do u mean how im i using lol

if people want pictures i have them when i send a mail i always attatch pic

thanks 4 reply"

but people want to see pictures when they look at your profile in general

doesn't have to be a face pic - a body pic will get interest

you can follow up with a face pic later at the point of contact if you are interested in someone

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"wot do u mean how im i using lol

if people want pictures i have them when i send a mail i always attatch pic

thanks 4 reply"

i delete unread mail from unknown black shadows, life is to short to see if they have attatched a mail...and i am not alone

Its a networking site...how are you networking...simple question really.

Look at bussy's post for ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For single males on here I look first a profile pic if its interesting then I will read profile etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing wrong with ur profile text...but when browsing, people wanna see something regardless if they wanna shag u or not...I get lots of 'hits'-but thats because my profile is 'loud'

if u want to increase ur base coverage, sell urself(not literally),dont sit back and think people are going to jump into mailing u,when theres other ready made profiles open to view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People browsing profiles will want to see pics so my advice is to put some up. Only being able to accomodate occasionally during the day could be a hindrance. Good points in Bussy's reply. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask yourself the question 'what do YOU look for in a profile' - then think about your own.

No pics? Verified (but hidden)? Brief profile content?

There are plenty of more detailed, more imaginative profiles with pics designed to attract interest out there - all 'competing' for the same audience and attention - so you have to try and stand out from the crowd.

If you search previous threads looking for assistance you'll see similar advice on all - the perfect quote often used being "Your profile is your shop window" - you're 'selling' yourself - so be creative and different and reap the rewards!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site isn't ebay.

You don't bid on what you like and expect to get it.

Showing and describing what you are all about will give others a better idea about you and what you want.

Would/have you contacted people with no pics or text about themselves?

What attracts you to peoples profiles?

You only get back what you give out if you do it right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to see pics (not face)before we send any messages.If we come upon a profile with no pics we just move on without even reading the profile.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i am going to stop trying to help with these threads, lots of good answers all saying the same thing ans the Op clearly isnt going to do anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. It's not often that advice is taken on board.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Just because advice is given doesn't mean people have to take it....they might not agree with the advice

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