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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people only like to chat about meeting on here or do they really happen. Been chattin to a few people who say they want to meet but seem to get cold feet and just talk about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah its a big trick no one meets , just one big inside joke lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people do meet, and you can check via thier pics, verifications etc but many on here have a "real life" too, work, kids etc and it is not always possible to make plans. I'm sure that you will have great meets if you are patient......will be worth the wait, we certainly have.............saying that there are lots of "wanabees" and time wasters too - watch out for profiles with no pics and no veris xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"people do meet, and you can check via thier pics, verifications etc but many on here have a "real life" too, work, kids etc and it is not always possible to make plans. I'm sure that you will have great meets if you are patient......will be worth the wait, we certainly have.............saying that there are lots of "wanabees" and time wasters too - watch out for profiles with no pics and no veris xx"

Have arranged one meet for nxt wk and that one is going ahead, but its just the people who mess you about thats annoying. Even ones with verifications and pictures seem to mess me about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one owes you anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one likes a winger, if someone wants to meet you they will, if someone wants to delete your messages and stand you up then they can

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree with the two comments above whole heartedly. But if the tables were turned and you were stood up or messed around would you feel the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many times have you spent all night talking to someone arranging a meet, for them to say "Ive had to much to drink" or "there is no petrol in my car"? Or how many times have you driven somewhere to meet someone and them not turn up? How many times have you arranged a whole evening around having someone over and them not turning up?? I bet NONE!!!!! Most couples and single women have experienced this!

Just because someone doesn't reply to your messages you think your being messed around!

What really pisses me off is when single men log on to here as a couple!!! Remind you of anyone?

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By *BW4toyboyzWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Well I certainly meet with guys but I don't meet couples...I know someone who does though...There are a lot of people on here who just like to chat but it would be nice if they would identify themselves straight away so the rest of us who do like real meets, don't waste our time...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How many times have you spent all night talking to someone arranging a meet, for them to say "Ive had to much to drink" or "there is no petrol in my car"? Or how many times have you driven somewhere to meet someone and them not turn up? How many times have you arranged a whole evening around having someone over and them not turning up?? I bet NONE!!!!! Most couples and single women have experienced this!

Just because someone doesn't reply to your messages you think your being messed around!

What really pisses me off is when single men log on to here as a couple!!! Remind you of anyone?"

Sorry if my posts made you mad i am soory for that it was not meant to?

I have spoke to 2 couples on here seperate nights for 1-2 hours each?

Then you get blanked? whats all that about if all was fine?

Yes there are alot of single men on here but my account is genuine look at verification?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Nope, never meet, all our verifs are faked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I certainly meet with guys but I don't meet couples...I know someone who does though...There are a lot of people on here who just like to chat but it would be nice if they would identify themselves straight away so the rest of us who do like real meets, don't waste our time..."

Well i would certainly meet with you? And yes there are people out there who would just like to chat thats fine for them but what is this site about?

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Well considering the length of time you have been onsite its not surprising that so far u havent met people , hang on in there and with patience and lots of chat i am sure meets will happen.

Personally i have never had a meet that wasnt real lol .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well considering the length of time you have been onsite its not surprising that so far u havent met people , hang on in there and with patience and lots of chat i am sure meets will happen.

Personally i have never had a meet that wasnt real lol ."

Thanks for that we do have a meet planned for nxt wk so hopefully will go ok?

Yeha it does take time i understand that to build up trust?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi OP....

really dont wanna give profile advice, but really....there really needs more to entice a female (especially one thats meeting the male half), sometimes the one verify isnt even enough to give peace of mind u are a real couple.

As a single male whos met a few couples I would be cautious to arrange a meet, and I imagine this would be 10fold for a female

hope that was slightly constructive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hi OP....

really dont wanna give profile advice, but really....there really needs more to entice a female (especially one thats meeting the male half), sometimes the one verify isnt even enough to give peace of mind u are a real couple.

As a single male whos met a few couples I would be cautious to arrange a meet, and I imagine this would be 10fold for a female

hope that was slightly constructive"

Yeah thanx for that but even trying to meet a single female either for just me or for both of us is a task in itself.

Hoping to get some more verifications on here soon as been here before!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we have had a few lovely meets with some really nice guys. However we havent been able to fix anything up since december due to work and family commitments. We are still wanting to meet with single guys but trying to sort a time can be very difficult. All the guys we have met were very patient and understanding.It works with a bit of time and effort and we hope to have a meet soon with one of our lovely guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like UNREAL meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi OP....

really dont wanna give profile advice, but really....there really needs more to entice a female (especially one thats meeting the male half), sometimes the one verify isnt even enough to give peace of mind u are a real couple.

As a single male whos met a few couples I would be cautious to arrange a meet, and I imagine this would be 10fold for a female

hope that was slightly constructive

Yeah thanx for that but even trying to meet a single female either for just me or for both of us is a task in itself.

Hoping to get some more verifications on here soon as been here before!"

well yeah it is, most single females are going to want to see more than your cock before they meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

General advice/tip... Try club meets. Apart from getting to know more people and vice versa, you also get to look around and enjoy general banter. In my opinion, us single guys try too hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times have you spent all night talking to someone arranging a meet, for them to say "Ive had to much to drink" or "there is no petrol in my car"? Or how many times have you driven somewhere to meet someone and them not turn up? How many times have you arranged a whole evening around having someone over and them not turning up?? I bet NONE!!!!! Most couples and single women have experienced this!

Just because someone doesn't reply to your messages you think your being messed around!

What really pisses me off is when single men log on to here as a couple!!! Remind you of anyone?

Sorry if my posts made you mad i am soory for that it was not meant to?

I have spoke to 2 couples on here seperate nights for 1-2 hours each?

Then you get blanked? whats all that about if all was fine?

Yes there are alot of single men on here but my account is genuine look at verification?

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maybe they got someone they liked better

maybe you said something that put them off or were too pushy

maybe they had doubts about doing it with you, all things that could happen i guess

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Do people only like to chat about meeting on here or do they really happen. Been chattin to a few people who say they want to meet but seem to get cold feet and just talk about it? "

you have been on a week...perhaps they dont want to jump into bed with someone just because they are on a swinging site

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