FabSwingers.com forum: What do I need to do!!!

By *lwaysWilling OP Man
over a year ago

Nr Reading

This site seems to have been ruined by cock showing men!! No matter what I try and cant seem to get a sensible conversation as most woman are sifting through wasters. Help!!!

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

It's a numbers game. Make sure your profile is on point and focus on the people who do want to meet you. And if in doubt. Go to a club.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Most women look at a profile before deciding whether to reply or not. I think you're giving off negative vibes and perhaps need to sell yourself a little better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensible or boring?

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Think about it,;the ones who you say, are ruining it, are in fact making it easier for the good guys to shine.

And moaning and being negative isn't an attractive quality in anyone.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"This site seems to have been ruined by cock showing men!! No matter what I try and cant seem to get a sensible conversation as most woman are sifting through wasters. Help!!!"

Your profile is negative, your location is more weird than funny, there's nothing in your profile that would attract most people.

Also, blamibg other people for your lack of success is abit lame to be honest.

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By *lwaysWilling OP Man
over a year ago

Nr Reading

Appreciated comments. Taken onboard.

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By *lwaysWilling OP Man
over a year ago

Nr Reading

"This site seems to have been ruined by cock showing men!! No matter what I try and cant seem to get a sensible conversation as most woman are sifting through wasters. Help!!!

Your profile is negative, your location is more weird than funny, there's nothing in your profile that would attract most

Also, blamibg other people for your lack of success is abit lame to be honest."

Appreciated.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"This site seems to have been ruined by cock showing men!! No matter what I try and cant seem to get a sensible conversation as most woman are sifting through wasters. Help!!!

Your profile is negative, your location is more weird than funny, there's nothing in your profile that would attract most

Also, blamibg other people for your lack of success is abit lame to be honest.

Appreciated.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make yourself stand out from the 'cock showing men'

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By *lwaysWilling OP Man
over a year ago

Nr Reading

"Make yourself stand out from the 'cock showing men'"

I'm trying lol

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

You’ve been verified mate so you must have done something right if you’re still not having luck try socials or a club

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"This site seems to have been ruined by cock showing men!! No matter what I try and cant seem to get a sensible conversation as most woman are sifting through wasters. Help!!!"

You're only assuming that's the reason

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By *lwaysWilling OP Man
over a year ago

Nr Reading

"This site seems to have been ruined by cock showing men!! No matter what I try and cant seem to get a sensible conversation as most woman are sifting through wasters. Help!!!

You're only assuming that's the reason"

cheers

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

OP, "up for anything" sounds vague and desperate.

On the plus side, excellent photos.

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By *lwaysWilling OP Man
over a year ago

Nr Reading

"OP, "up for anything" sounds vague and desperate.

On the plus side, excellent photos."

Thanks for the advice, profile changed

Appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your photos are good, no dick photos is always a plus.

Maybe expand more on what you're looking for, or just a bit more about you in general.

And definitely go to a club, it's a great place to meet new people, even if it's just in a social capacity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your photos are good, no dick photos is always a plus.

Maybe expand more on what you're looking for, or just a bit more about you in general.

And definitely go to a club, it's a great place to meet new people, even if it's just in a social capacity."

Agree definitely expand more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for older one because they've gotten used. Which means they're ready for you. No hard feelings just banter add fun, in stress full of fab life (size, length, color, accent, distance & accommodation etc. they need fun

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

Cannot accommodate is a turn off.Generally means you are married.

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By *lwaysWilling OP Man
over a year ago

Nr Reading

"Your photos are good, no dick photos is always a plus.

Maybe expand more on what you're looking for, or just a bit more about you in general.

And definitely go to a club, it's a great place to meet new people, even if it's just in a social capacity."

Thank You. Will take your advice. Just need someone to educate me on the club scene.

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By *ensual_duoCouple
over a year ago

bath

and don't take pictures of yourself in the loo

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By *lwaysWilling OP Man
over a year ago

Nr Reading

"and don't take pictures of yourself in the loo"

Thanks for the advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cannot accommodate is a turn off.Generally means you are married."

Doesn’t mean this at all. People have many different reasons they cannot accommodate.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Cannot accommodate is a turn off.Generally means you are married.

Doesn’t mean this at all. People have many different reasons they cannot accommodate. "

That may be true, but a sure way to filter out 99% of the marrieds is to filter out those that can't accommodate. Harsh but it's not like there aren't plenty of singles who can accommodate is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cannot accommodate is a turn off.Generally means you are married.

Doesn’t mean this at all. People have many different reasons they cannot accommodate.

That may be true, but a sure way to filter out 99% of the marrieds is to filter out those that can't accommodate. Harsh but it's not like there aren't plenty of singles who can accommodate is it?"

I don’t care if people can accom or not. As I said people have different reasons. Not everyone feels comfortable inviting people to their homes. So you are just filtering out on an assumption. You can use a hotel, club etc to meet people.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Cannot accommodate is a turn off.Generally means you are married.

Doesn’t mean this at all. People have many different reasons they cannot accommodate.

That may be true, but a sure way to filter out 99% of the marrieds is to filter out those that can't accommodate. Harsh but it's not like there aren't plenty of singles who can accommodate is it?

But if people don't put in a line to explain, it's one way of reducing the number of messages ladies receive, if unable to accommodate is seen on the profile. If the gent explains why and are not cheating, it can alter that decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cannot accommodate is a turn off.Generally means you are married.

Doesn’t mean this at all. People have many different reasons they cannot accommodate.

That may be true, but a sure way to filter out 99% of the marrieds is to filter out those that can't accommodate. Harsh but it's not like there aren't plenty of singles who can accommodate is it?

I wouldn't accommodate even if I could, I'd like my fab life private from my real life...

And a guy could say "I can't accommodate because of blah blah blah" and still be lying, same for both sexes .. Some People will judge either way, so damned if you do or don't surely?

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By *lwaysWilling OP Man
over a year ago

Nr Reading

"Cannot accommodate is a turn off.Generally means you are married.

Doesn’t mean this at all. People have many different reasons they cannot accommodate.

That may be true, but a sure way to filter out 99% of the marrieds is to filter out those that can't accommodate. Harsh but it's not like there aren't plenty of singles who can accommodate is it?

I wouldn't accommodate even if I could, I'd like my fab life private from my real life...

And a guy could say "I can't accommodate because of blah blah blah" and still be lying, same for both sexes .. Some People will judge either way, so damned if you do or don't surely? "

How very true. My personal life and work life are my business, my social side is what I share. If this was a dating site totally agree with the argument, but let's remember this isnt, it's more about adult fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cannot accommodate is a turn off.Generally means you are married.

Doesn’t mean this at all. People have many different reasons they cannot accommodate.

That may be true, but a sure way to filter out 99% of the marrieds is to filter out those that can't accommodate. Harsh but it's not like there aren't plenty of singles who can accommodate is it?

I wouldn't accommodate even if I could, I'd like my fab life private from my real life...

And a guy could say "I can't accommodate because of blah blah blah" and still be lying, same for both sexes .. Some People will judge either way, so damned if you do or don't surely? "

This is called equality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cannot accommodate is a turn off.Generally means you are married.

Doesn’t mean this at all. People have many different reasons they cannot accommodate.

That may be true, but a sure way to filter out 99% of the marrieds is to filter out those that can't accommodate. Harsh but it's not like there aren't plenty of singles who can accommodate is it?

I wouldn't accommodate even if I could, I'd like my fab life private from my real life...

And a guy could say "I can't accommodate because of blah blah blah" and still be lying, same for both sexes .. Some People will judge either way, so damned if you do or don't surely? "

This is why people shouldn’t just filter out don’t accommodate. Give the people a chance, get to know them. Then decide.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Cannot accommodate is a turn off.Generally means you are married."

Of course it does

Or that you've got children and want to do anything in your power to keep them safe and away from the adult private side of your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cannot accommodate is a turn off.Generally means you are married.

Of course it does

Or that you've got children and want to do anything in your power to keep them safe and away from the adult private side of your life."

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You can't force change on others but you will stand out, where you are different

New single men here are best advised to expect it to take substantial amounts of time and effort to get results and also to adjust their expectations so they are reasonable

Read all the threads giving advice and take what you think is right for you

Use the site in conjunction with meeting people face to face at swingers events, including socials

Expect it to take many months to settle in. It's tough because you are against enormous levels of competition and will meet just a tiny percentage of peoples interest, even without competition. Be realistic. Invest energy to sell yourself well

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

Oh gosh OP! You seem like a lovely guy but the fact you used the word infectious TWICE in your profile out some very horrible images in my head. Despite that it was a joke (and a funny one in general just not here) i couldn’t help but think nasty things, and not in a good way lol.

S x

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

8 weeks in and the o p is fed up .lol try 5 years and only 4 meets ! Better off in clubs mate .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site seems to have been ruined by cock showing men!! No matter what I try and cant seem to get a sensible conversation as most woman are sifting through wasters. Help!!!

Your profile is negative, your location is more weird than funny, there's nothing in your profile that would attract most people.

Also, blamibg other people for your lack of success is abit lame to be honest."

You seem firm and fair, fancy giving me a heads up on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there's your first mistake. Trying to make yourself sound better by putting down others. It's a very unappealing trait and will put a lot of people off.

Rather than slagging off others, perhaps you should concentrate on your own positive attributes

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

Like how you sorted your profile out a bit but you kept that horrible word! Infectious is not sexy whether it’s a smile or an STD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't bring anyone back home I got three kids even tho my wife brought a guy back I went out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site seems to have been ruined by cock showing men!! No matter what I try and cant seem to get a sensible conversation as most woman are sifting through wasters. Help!!!

Your profile is negative, your location is more weird than funny, there's nothing in your profile that would attract most people.

Also, blamibg other people for your lack of success is abit lame to be honest."

This Op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site seems to have been ruined by cock showing men!! No matter what I try and cant seem to get a sensible conversation as most woman are sifting through wasters. Help!!!"

Get some decent cock pics on there!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Your profile is much better now, it's positive and friendly!

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By *ummer breeze300Woman
over a year ago

Caerphilly

You just need patience and take things as if it happens it's a bonus not a must .Good luck

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