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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wasn’t quite sure where to post this so I gave up looking and thought fuck it.

So me an H love the sex we have, but would like to try and make it less repetitive. We’ve not tried massive of things really.

We’d love some advice on things we can do to excite each other a little more.

Thanks x

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Well start off by talking about things you’d both like to try. Explore each others fantasies and don’t worry how kinky/different/boring you think they might be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

UPDATE:

We’ve vaguely spoken about things together but need inspiration hahah x

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

How about writing a load of different things on bits of paper - all sorts, some vanilla, some kinky, some downright filthy. Put them in a hat, then pick one and do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Give us some examples?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Buy some books and get ideas from them. There are loads that detail couples fantasies. Or Google mojo upgrade and each do the quiz.

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Make each other cum by just using your mouths; both blindfolded; anal; go somewhere public and play; have sex on cam; tell each other your dirtiest fantasy; mutual masturbation... to name a few lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So they’re ideas of general sex scenarios?

Would small sexual acts work?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"So they’re ideas of general sex scenarios?

Would small sexual acts work? "

What have you tried?

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford


"So they’re ideas of general sex scenarios?

Would small sexual acts work? "

Of course! Could be anything.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's difficult to advise someone else on the detail of good sex because what works for one person won't for another. Find out which parts of the body each of you enjoy being touched/licked/stroked etc and experiment with different ways of doing it. Do you like all over massage or oral sex or lots of kissing, the list is endless?

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford


"It's difficult to advise someone else on the detail of good sex because what works for one person won't for another. Find out which parts of the body each of you enjoy being touched/licked/stroked etc and experiment with different ways of doing it. Do you like all over massage or oral sex or lots of kissing, the list is endless? "

+1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well like blow jobs and stuff like that??

Just would like ideas to put into the hat. Like blow job slow/fast. Make sense?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I get that. Just wondering if there was any general like things people really enjoy. Like some people like bondage. Which were up for trying but need advice on things to try.

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford


"Well like blow jobs and stuff like that??

Just would like ideas to put into the hat. Like blow job slow/fast. Make sense?"

Yeah, could give each other challenges too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Shame you’re not looking for guys, I’d love to join in on this game!

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford


"Well like blow jobs and stuff like that??

Just would like ideas to put into the hat. Like blow job slow/fast. Make sense?

Yeah, could give each other challenges too?

Yhhh! Just don’t want simple blow job or eat out. Need some interesting ideas. Do you have Kik? Maybe we could get some ideas across that way. Save the forum lol "

Yep, on my profile x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yeah I get that. Just wondering if there was any general like things people really enjoy. Like some people like bondage. Which were up for trying but need advice on things to try. "

Ok if you want to try a bit of bondage start small with scarves or ties. Never tie tight and if the person being restrained feels any numbness or tingling don't wait untie them immediately. Always agree beforehand on a word the tied up person can use to bring things to a halt and ALWAYS stop if they use it. You can add a blindfold to make things a bit more interesting. Sometimes tracing an ice cube over someone's body can be fun or stroking them with a fur glove.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I get that. Just wondering if there was any general like things people really enjoy. Like some people like bondage. Which were up for trying but need advice on things to try.

Ok if you want to try a bit of bondage start small with scarves or ties. Never tie tight and if the person being restrained feels any numbness or tingling don't wait untie them immediately. Always agree beforehand on a word the tied up person can use to bring things to a halt and ALWAYS stop if they use it. You can add a blindfold to make things a bit more interesting. Sometimes tracing an ice cube over someone's body can be fun or stroking them with a fur glove."

Sounds amazing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yeah I get that. Just wondering if there was any general like things people really enjoy. Like some people like bondage. Which were up for trying but need advice on things to try.

Ok if you want to try a bit of bondage start small with scarves or ties. Never tie tight and if the person being restrained feels any numbness or tingling don't wait untie them immediately. Always agree beforehand on a word the tied up person can use to bring things to a halt and ALWAYS stop if they use it. You can add a blindfold to make things a bit more interesting. Sometimes tracing an ice cube over someone's body can be fun or stroking them with a fur glove.

Sounds amazing "

There you go then. That's tomorrow night taken care of

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I get that. Just wondering if there was any general like things people really enjoy. Like some people like bondage. Which were up for trying but need advice on things to try.

Ok if you want to try a bit of bondage start small with scarves or ties. Never tie tight and if the person being restrained feels any numbness or tingling don't wait untie them immediately. Always agree beforehand on a word the tied up person can use to bring things to a halt and ALWAYS stop if they use it. You can add a blindfold to make things a bit more interesting. Sometimes tracing an ice cube over someone's body can be fun or stroking them with a fur glove.

Sounds amazing

There you go then. That's tomorrow night taken care of "

Would love some more advice hehe

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yeah I get that. Just wondering if there was any general like things people really enjoy. Like some people like bondage. Which were up for trying but need advice on things to try.

Ok if you want to try a bit of bondage start small with scarves or ties. Never tie tight and if the person being restrained feels any numbness or tingling don't wait untie them immediately. Always agree beforehand on a word the tied up person can use to bring things to a halt and ALWAYS stop if they use it. You can add a blindfold to make things a bit more interesting. Sometimes tracing an ice cube over someone's body can be fun or stroking them with a fur glove.

Sounds amazing

There you go then. That's tomorrow night taken care of

Would love some more advice hehe "

In what way?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I get that. Just wondering if there was any general like things people really enjoy. Like some people like bondage. Which were up for trying but need advice on things to try.

Ok if you want to try a bit of bondage start small with scarves or ties. Never tie tight and if the person being restrained feels any numbness or tingling don't wait untie them immediately. Always agree beforehand on a word the tied up person can use to bring things to a halt and ALWAYS stop if they use it. You can add a blindfold to make things a bit more interesting. Sometimes tracing an ice cube over someone's body can be fun or stroking them with a fur glove.

Sounds amazing

There you go then. That's tomorrow night taken care of

Would love some more advice hehe

In what way? "

Anything that’s worth a try

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yeah I get that. Just wondering if there was any general like things people really enjoy. Like some people like bondage. Which were up for trying but need advice on things to try.

Ok if you want to try a bit of bondage start small with scarves or ties. Never tie tight and if the person being restrained feels any numbness or tingling don't wait untie them immediately. Always agree beforehand on a word the tied up person can use to bring things to a halt and ALWAYS stop if they use it. You can add a blindfold to make things a bit more interesting. Sometimes tracing an ice cube over someone's body can be fun or stroking them with a fur glove.

Sounds amazing

There you go then. That's tomorrow night taken care of

Would love some more advice hehe

In what way?

Anything that’s worth a try

"

Ah now, there's a line to be drawn. Anything I might think is worth a try might not be for you. I'm all for giving people the tools and letting them find out for themselves.

How about you take it in turns to discuss your fantasies and agree on which of them you'd both be willing to try?

Some people love to use toys others hate it, some love oral etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you’ve been given some really great tips but it’s also something you need to be discussing together to see what works best you both.

It’s similar to when people ask for profile advice. You can help but you can’t write it for them.

Explore together and have fun!

V

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