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Your text doesn't sell you! You need to stand out from the crowd. Show us a bit of personality. Maybe a bit of humour.
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"I think your age does count against you on here and you defo need to say more on your profile, but i am sure you will get there. "Generally disagree with the profile bio part..you can out detail in your message... In my opinion pictures and convenience are the two major factors on here. | |||
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"I think your age does count against you on here and you defo need to say more on your profile, but i am sure you will get there.
Generally disagree with the profile bio part..you can out detail in your message...
In my opinion pictures and convenience are the two major factors on here. "I think the opinion of the OPs target audience are more relevant.  | |||
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"I think your age does count against you on here and you defo need to say more on your profile, but i am sure you will get there.
Generally disagree with the profile bio part..you can out detail in your message...
In my opinion pictures and convenience are the two major factors on here. "Disagree. | |||
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"I think your age does count against you on here and you defo need to say more on your profile, but i am sure you will get there.
Generally disagree with the profile bio part..you can out detail in your message...
In my opinion pictures and convenience are the two major factors on here. "Yeah I disagree with this. So much so that I didn't message you after browsing as I was expecting something amazing. | |||
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"I think your age does count against you on here and you defo need to say more on your profile, but i am sure you will get there.
Generally disagree with the profile bio part..you can out detail in your message...
In my opinion pictures and convenience are the two major factors on here.
Yeah I disagree with this. So much so that I didn't message you after browsing as I was expecting something amazing. "That's fine, you're welcome to your view. I'm just talking from my own personal experience. However what is more important to you, if someone has a great bio but they're really not your type and far away, would you meet them... highly unlikely | |||
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"Generally disagree with the profile bio part..you can out detail in your message... In my opinion pictures and convenience are the two major factors on here. " Disagree. Hello OP. It doesn't take too much effort to make the right first impression, and in direct contrast showing no effort will never make the right first impression. You've been here eight months and your profile still shows the automated text that the computer generates for you. Don't you think that maybe you should put in just a little effort? | |||
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"I think your age does count against you on here and you defo need to say more on your profile, but i am sure you will get there.
Generally disagree with the profile bio part..you can out detail in your message...
In my opinion pictures and convenience are the two major factors on here.
Yeah I disagree with this. So much so that I didn't message you after browsing as I was expecting something amazing.
That's fine, you're welcome to your view. I'm just talking from my own personal experience.
However what is more important to you, if someone has a great bio but they're really not your type and far away, would you meet them... highly unlikely"I'm more likely to interact with people who have a good biog, interesting pictures AND a decent first message, almost regardless of where they are. The holy trinity. | |||
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"Generally disagree with the profile bio part..you can out detail in your message... In my opinion pictures and convenience are the two major factors on here. Disagree. Hello OP. It doesn't take too much effort to make the right first impression, and in direct contrast showing no effort will never make the right first impression. You've been here eight months and your profile still shows the automated text that the computer generates for you. Don't you think that maybe you should put in just a little effort?" As long as he writes a polite opening message why should that matter ?? Most women have pretty generic bio's, it's really not the key factor. Same goes for other "dating apps" these days. Take Tinder for example, it's all visual based | |||
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"Generally disagree with the profile bio part..you can out detail in your message... In my opinion pictures and convenience are the two major factors on here. Disagree. Hello OP. It doesn't take too much effort to make the right first impression, and in direct contrast showing no effort will never make the right first impression. You've been here eight months and your profile still shows the automated text that the computer generates for you. Don't you think that maybe you should put in just a little effort? As long as he writes a polite opening message why should that matter ?? Most women have pretty generic bio's, it's really not the key factor. Same goes for other "dating apps" these days. Take Tinder for example, it's all visual based " He's looking for women. I, as a woman, am telling him and you that the profile text matters. To me (not all women), good profile text matters more than pictures. | |||
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"My tip is don’t waste your time you’ve no chance " Why do you say that? | |||
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"Because nobody even talks unless there fake too up there own arses" I'm talking to you right now. I've sent dozens of messages today. Just because people aren't talking to you, doesn't mean they aren't talking. | |||
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"Because nobody even talks unless there fake too up there own arses" When you say talk, do you mean in the forums or private messages? | |||
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"I’ve sent hundreds none reply" Have you asked what you might do to change that? | |||
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"Private messages" You have to send a message and have a presence that's enticing. | |||
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"I’ve sent hundreds none reply" As a rule I look at the profile when I get a message to see what the sender looks like, offers and is looking for. Do you think the people you send messages to might do the same? | |||
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"I’ve sent hundreds none reply Have you asked what you might do to change that? " I did ages ago when I paid subscription and got abuse | |||
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"I’ve sent hundreds none reply Have you asked what you might do to change that? I did ages ago when I paid subscription and got abuse " i have put pictures decided to take off been nice | |||
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"I’ve sent hundreds none reply Have you asked what you might do to change that? I did ages ago when I paid subscription and got abuse " Subscription gives you additional features on the site, not more attention. You have to sell yourself. | |||
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"I’ve sent hundreds none reply Have you asked what you might do to change that? I did ages ago when I paid subscription and got abuse Subscription gives you additional features on the site, not more attention. You have to sell yourself. " im not a piece of meat | |||
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"I can tell you what I do. You can disbelieve me if you want to, but asking for advice and disregarding it seems futile. " me | |||
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" Maybe, just maybe, bland profile or not, they met in a club, not via a message on site. Maybe between that meet and you reading their profile they completely re-write their biog...." Maybe even where exceptions are made on Fab (not something I've done), the easier route is still to write a decent profile, because exceptions are by definition exceptional. | |||
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"I can tell you what I do. You can disbelieve me if you want to, but asking for advice and disregarding it seems futile. " I didn't ask for advice, I offered my opinion to the OP and everyone decided to tell me how wrong I was. So as someone who enjoys a healthy debate/ argument from time to time, I got involved. | |||
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"I can tell you what I do. You can disbelieve me if you want to, but asking for advice and disregarding it seems futile. I didn't ask for advice, I offered my opinion to the OP and everyone decided to tell me how wrong I was. So as someone who enjoys a healthy debate/ argument from time to time, I got involved." I don't see how you possibly have more insight into how women choose to meet than a woman who meets. | |||
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"I can tell you what I do. You can disbelieve me if you want to, but asking for advice and disregarding it seems futile. " He didn't ask for advice, the OP did | |||
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"Generally disagree with the profile bio part..you can out detail in your message... In my opinion pictures and convenience are the two major factors on here. Disagree. Hello OP. It doesn't take too much effort to make the right first impression, and in direct contrast showing no effort will never make the right first impression. You've been here eight months and your profile still shows the automated text that the computer generates for you. Don't you think that maybe you should put in just a little effort? As long as he writes a polite opening message why should that matter ??" Because if I was browsing profiles I would skip straight on by the one the OP has at present. I would think that if he cant be bothered to put in any effort then why should I. | |||
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"My tip is don’t waste your time you’ve no chance " That's hardly helpful. | |||
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"Well this got a little out of hand at some point but thanks everyone for the comments! Tried making some changes on the profile, will keep updating! " Your age can go against you. Ignore the nasty comments take proactive comments . Change profile every few weeks till you find what works . Add extra photo again every few weeks keeps you noticed. Meet aim the socials or confidence to visit a club.. Tbh at 22 i was out with my mates most nights having a laff and a few beers. Good luck | |||
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"Hey I’m having the same problem could someone help me ? X" The same comments apply. | |||
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"Because nobody even talks unless there fake too up there own arses" Or they just don’t talk to you? Sounds like you’re up your own arse in my opinion | |||
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"Hi all, I've been a member here for a while but never have actually met any women or couples in person. Just wondering if anyone has any tips on my profile or how to arrange something in reality. Thanks in advance always enjoying browsing! "At the risk of asking a daft question and looking like a plum, what does "slide into my DMs" mean? I thought DMs were Doc Martins.  | |||
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"Hi all, I've been a member here for a while but never have actually met any women or couples in person. Just wondering if anyone has any tips on my profile or how to arrange something in reality. Thanks in advance always enjoying browsing!
At the risk of asking a daft question and looking like a plum, what does "slide into my DMs" mean?
I thought DMs were Doc Martins. "Direct messages. PMs as referred to on Twitter. | |||
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"Hi all, I've been a member here for a while but never have actually met any women or couples in person. Just wondering if anyone has any tips on my profile or how to arrange something in reality. Thanks in advance always enjoying browsing!
At the risk of asking a daft question and looking like a plum, what does "slide into my DMs" mean?
I thought DMs were Doc Martins.
Direct messages. PMs as referred to on Twitter. "So, "slide into my private messages?" Sounds odd. I must be getting old..... | |||
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"Pictures are ok. Text needs a lot of work. You are competing with thousands of men on here. Sell yourself. " How so you sell yourself on here, I recently updated my profile and just waiting to see what happens | |||
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