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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How to make my profile more attractive, also what is everyone’s favourite part about my profile

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Erm...

Well do you like your profile?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I can tell you what I don't like or how I think you could improve it, but as you're looking for positives ....it's great you can drive

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

My favourite part was when you described yourself as curvy

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

i like the text.

The pics don't make me go "wow".

What are your best features? Think about how you can capture them in the best light.

Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your main profile picture is how a woman poses, it looks effeminate. Also the spread arse picture is a bit gross, instant put off for some people. Others pictures ok otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How to make my profile more attractive, also what is everyone’s favourite part about my profile "
dot some sexy women about it here there and everywhere that would work for me

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"How to make my profile more attractive, also what is everyone’s favourite part about my profile "

More cock pics and forget about women you will be ass full of cock by lunch

If you want to appear more attractive to women I'd give up if I were you you may end up disappointed and start a how can I attract thread , it only goes down hill from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How to make my profile more attractive, also what is everyone’s favourite part about my profile

More cock pics and forget about women you will be ass full of cock by lunch

If you want to appear more attractive to women I'd give up if I were you you may end up disappointed and start a how can I attract thread , it only goes down hill from there "

Lol you sound a ray of sunshine

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"How to make my profile more attractive, also what is everyone’s favourite part about my profile

More cock pics and forget about women you will be ass full of cock by lunch

If you want to appear more attractive to women I'd give up if I were you you may end up disappointed and start a how can I attract thread , it only goes down hill from there

Lol you sound a ray of sunshine"

I think it cruel to give false unrealistic hope xxx positive plausible proactive would be my motto .

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

first line says it all, you're not fussy who you fuck. instant turn off for me

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By *evineDelivery1111Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

How do i post a subject / create a forum please. Il look at your page now x

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By *evineDelivery1111Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I agree the bumhole pic put me off, feminine pose too and lind about sharing yourself around doesnt sound too great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tip.

Rid photos

Rid your descriptions ..

Start again.

Never easy being new.. but asking for advice then something needs to change and from others opinions take heed.

Most women hate cock pics.

Hide them.

Think outside the box. Be seductive or sensual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is not an advert. But, I find success seems to come from finding people who seem nice to you and building a rapport with them. Then having the guts to follow through.

If your profile is in line with what you are after, so much the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for everyone's advice.

I'm fairly new to fab. And have just rewritten my profile.

I'd love some feedback on it from everyone.

Be honest. I'm ok with criticism.

Thanks in advance

X

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Thanks for everyone's advice.

I'm fairly new to fab. And have just rewritten my profile.

I'd love some feedback on it from everyone.

Be honest. I'm ok with criticism.

Thanks in advance

X"

Looks fine to me. I think all the ones are aren't obviously a bit fucked up get what they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for everyone's advice.

I'm fairly new to fab. And have just rewritten my profile.

I'd love some feedback on it from everyone.

Be honest. I'm ok with criticism.

Thanks in advance

X

Looks fine to me. I think all the ones are aren't obviously a bit fucked up get what they are looking for."

Thank you

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Christ, I've been playing with mine all night, trying to make it smaller. (yes, yes my profile that is). Can anyone sunday morning honestlytell me if it's still too long? I actually don't care too much (though I probably should), I just want to get it to the point where less people tell me that. When I take too much out I just end up adding it back in, as I hate repeating so many things in messages. (I'm sure a sizable but unknowable amount of people do actually read profiles here and then decide not to contact, but in a positive way if you see what I mean). I can't even decide which main picture ot use at the moment, but that's prob me being a slightly airy bi I think.

So just in scrolling down (you don;t have to read it), does it still seem too long? I think most people probably head down to the pics first - so does the text seem too much before you get to them basically?

I use a laptop too, I'm guessing it could look even longer on the phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi everyone

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Christ, I've been playing with mine all night, trying to make it smaller. (yes, yes my profile that is). Can anyone sunday morning honestlytell me if it's still too long? I actually don't care too much (though I probably should), I just want to get it to the point where less people tell me that. When I take too much out I just end up adding it back in, as I hate repeating so many things in messages. (I'm sure a sizable but unknowable amount of people do actually read profiles here and then decide not to contact, but in a positive way if you see what I mean). I can't even decide which main picture ot use at the moment, but that's prob me being a slightly airy bi I think.

So just in scrolling down (you don;t have to read it), does it still seem too long? I think most people probably head down to the pics first - so does the text seem too much before you get to them basically?

I use a laptop too, I'm guessing it could look even longer on the phone."
it’s far too long, I didn’t bother reading it, but as you say you don’t care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tip.

Rid photos

Rid your descriptions ..

Start again.

Never easy being new.. but asking for advice then something needs to change and from others opinions take heed.

Most women hate cock pics.

Hide them.

Think outside the box. Be seductive or sensual "
seductive or sensual in a profile write up wow can't say I've seen that yet lol

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Doesn't matter what you write on the profile. Nobody will bother to read it so you can put any old shit on there.

As others have said, sort your pics out. They really don't do you any favours.

Above all, don't fall into the trap of believing that a profile on here is the golden key to a shed load of meets. It isn't. From your Veri's you seem to have had at least 2 meets which in 9 weeks is a pretty good start.

Your profile is nothing more than a homepage and you have to put effort into other areas to get the best out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of your pics would put me off tbh.

Have a look at some other profiles to get ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed the pictures are terrible. Don’t do. Muscle pose if you don’t have muscles. No one wants to look at your anus. They don’t provide an element of fun or sexiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your main photo I first thought was a lady , the open ass photo needs to go ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can tell you what I don't like or how I think you could improve it, but as you're looking for positives ....it's great you can drive "

tell me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The spread ass pic sorry not attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I'm new to this website could i have some feedback on my profile because i my success rate on here is zero

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


" it’s far too long, I didn’t bother reading it, but as you say you don’t care. "

- Well, I did say you didn't need to read it, but maybe my comment here was too long?

This is partly why I don't care as much as I probably should (as think I actually said) - because most people here only read to a point anyway. But they DO read imo, so I've been trying to get the best balance I can. If people were inclined to read a bit more here I would certainly care a bit more, I've put a lot into the thing obviously!! It's sex though, and they just don't. There's actually no text formatting on fabswingers, so it's not easy to do anything longer at all.

(also, I just meant it would always be slightly on the longer side with me anyway!.. it's not such an issue)

Anyway, this is someone's specific thread, I shouldn't really have posted here.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


" it’s far too long, I didn’t bother reading it, but as you say you don’t care.

- Well, I did say you didn't need to read it, but maybe my comment here was too long?

This is partly why I don't care as much as I probably should (as think I actually said) - because most people here only read to a point anyway. But they DO read imo, so I've been trying to get the best balance I can. If people were inclined to read a bit more here I would certainly care a bit more, I've put a lot into the thing obviously!! It's sex though, and they just don't. There's actually no text formatting on fabswingers, so it's not easy to do anything longer at all.

(also, I just meant it would always be slightly on the longer side with me anyway!.. it's not such an issue)

Anyway, this is someone's specific thread, I shouldn't really have posted here."

Generally speaking if I get a long decent message in my inbox, where it's obvious that guy has read my profile and due to that he thinks we're compatible, I like to see a decent profile. Actually in those cases the more the merrier when it comes to information about that person and what they're looking for.

However if I was browsing through profiles, I wouldn't want to read yours, but I do appreciate that you have broken it down into sections so you should be commended for that

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


" it’s far too long, I didn’t bother reading it, but as you say you don’t care.

- Well, I did say you didn't need to read it, but maybe my comment here was too long?

This is partly why I don't care as much as I probably should (as think I actually said) - because most people here only read to a point anyway. But they DO read imo, so I've been trying to get the best balance I can. If people were inclined to read a bit more here I would certainly care a bit more, I've put a lot into the thing obviously!! It's sex though, and they just don't. There's actually no text formatting on fabswingers, so it's not easy to do anything longer at all.

(also, I just meant it would always be slightly on the longer side with me anyway!.. it's not such an issue)

Anyway, this is someone's specific thread, I shouldn't really have posted here.

Generally speaking if I get a long decent message in my inbox, where it's obvious that guy has read my profile and due to that he thinks we're compatible, I like to see a decent profile. Actually in those cases the more the merrier when it comes to information about that person and what they're looking for.

However if I was browsing through profiles, I wouldn't want to read yours, but I do appreciate that you have broken it down into sections so you should be commended for that "

- Hey, thanks for that. I would prefer to use standard prose/parags but I found just gets too long for the information I wanted to get out. My worry I suppose is that though the sections will make it easier, they could also be a turnoff too. I used to do layout for a living and does look like a leaflet of something. It had all CAPPED headings at one point - it looked horrible, but as I say no formatting/styling here.

A lot of profiles here end up looking like point-by-point shopping/warning lists to me. It's a cheap and cheerful website tho, it's just the way it is.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Hi I'm new to this website could i have some feedback on my profile because i my success rate on here is zero "

Just looking at the text mate, it seems alright to me. Good first line, as it says you are straight and will limit mail you probably don;t want. You are S looking for S, but everyone is a niche of sorts in this site and connections do take time.

Maybe the shaving line needs attention, as the phrase 'expect the same' though common enough, always sounds a bit over formal to me. 'Appreciate' is the usual alternative I think. That's just my opinion though. As people say, all profiles will in some way attract similar, but most can still be worked on I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I'm new to this website could i have some feedback on my profile because i my success rate on here is zero "

Try posting in your own thread and new

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Hi I'm new to this website could i have some feedback on my profile because i my success rate on here is zero

Try posting in your own thread and new "

It would get more attention and this was the OP's thread, but some people might not want to start a new one with them at the centre of it - it's an awkward one looking for advice. It's prob ok just to ask where you see people giving it, but it depends how much you want

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