FabSwingers.com forum: Profile suggestions welcomed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Always looking to improve

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"Always looking to improve

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The first line is mute as your age and what you’re looking for are already on your profile, no need to repeat. Don’t judge you, on what op? If you’re married put it in your profile it helps people make an informed choice. Your write is ok nothing special, there’s loads of advice on the forums take a look and apply. You’ve only been on two weeks and there’s thousands of other single men so make your profile stand out it’s what people read before answering a message.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Two pictures both the same, try one in a suit or smart casual. Angle the camera just make them more appealing. For a single guy at least 5 pictures with different poses, outfits or parts of the body.

Good pictures means...

The ladies you're trying to attract will actually read your profile. And they will judge, so asking them 'not to' is a wasted comment and can put someone off or actually wind them up. Imagine you've been cheated on by your partner, divorced them, come on here get a message off a married guy do you think that lady 'isn't' going to judge you ?

However it's good you're being honest, some on here won't care, some will.

Already stated, don't repeat information that's already on, age, being a non smoker etc..

But your main issue, is you just don't stand out, it's a boring generic profile with nothing that isn't written down on hundreds of other profiles on here.

Look at successful guys profiles, they're funny, intelligent and in some cases self deprecating. Those guys really sell themselves, with original content, do a bit of research.

Good luck Op

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Sapiosexual - I get turned on by intelligent women" then you say GSOH is better than being intelligent. Confusing. Unless I'm too thick to understand.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

""Sapiosexual - I get turned on by intelligent women" then you say GSOH is better than being intelligent. Confusing. Unless I'm too thick to understand. "

I did find that confusing as well

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

The line about not mixing love and sex is weird - don't you have sex with who you love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The line about not mixing love and sex is weird - don't you have sex with who you love? "

What we think the OP is saying is that he still loves his wife but he can have sex with others. Separate love and sex.

We take it that you love your wife so much that she knows??

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