FabSwingers.com forum: Not a lot of attention

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on here a while and have had one meet with a single woman, but I never seem to get any attention off anyone lol

I seem to get more attention off guys... (Not my thing)

I know that im young etc but surely theres got to be some people on here that don't mind younger guys?

I don't text speak, im always polite, I respect people when they say no and never send abusive messages, I've also got a fair bit of information on my profile, don't really know where im going wrong :/

Any help? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to remember that there are hundreds of guys, and about 6 women, so unfortunately you have to keep trying.

I was on here for 2 years previously and although I did meet women, it was at least 6 months before the first one.

Im a single guy, live in the middle of town, have my own and can accomodate, yet people aren't even replying to messages - it drives me insane but its like applying for jobs, you one need one decent one.

Keep the faith.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah i know that the site is overrun by single guys etc but it can be quite soul destroying haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want some action, just get a girlfriend and join as a couple.

You can shag my wife if I can shag your girlfriend.

See, fookin' easy mate

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"If you want some action, just get a girlfriend and join as a couple.

You can shag my wife if I can shag your girlfriend.

See, fookin' easy mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's a good offer, but if it was that easy I would have one by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally..... i have never in the 2 yrs ive been using this site browsed profiles of men.... i dont have time, its far easier to check out those that contact me, so if your expecting women to contact you, you might be waiting awhile, most of us dont need to contact guys (and i dont mean to sound big headed or full of myself in anyway, cos im not!)

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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over a year ago

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I guess a key difference to general dating type sites from Fab is that this is a more enlightened environment, and where couples and groups have fun together. I realise you're open to fun with more than one person, so at least you're onto the right track - probably the biggest issue, is the vast hordes of single guys who are typically just looking for single females, or multiple females only: these probably make it much harder for single guys generally.

Your age may work against you sometimes, but there are many of us who are happy to look beyond a number - where it may hinder you is if you're unable to join clubs, and thus meet socially and potentially have sexual fun this way too.

Staying power - in terms of not giving up, learning from experience and feedback, tailoring what you're doing based on this will all help get results. There's no magic bullet that will solve this, to make the babes queue up at the door etc, but I'd encourage you to optimise your profile, with as much detail that will make you stand out from the rest, some of which isn't of the same quality as yourself.

Good luck! Sophie

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah to be honest i don't expect to get alot of women searching for men, due to the high volume of guys but it's just the ones i do try contact etc never seem interested but i'll take all the advise and try work on it

Thanks

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