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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this site even real? We have verified accounts that hate messaging and unverified who hate meeting. People have names like cum dump whore or cheating wife and get offended when you compliment their looks. When you talk to them like they say they want to be spoke Too they still complain. What the fuck kind of messages do yous want that actually gains a response. Plus all you “I don’t go near unverified accounts” we are invariably the genuine accounts just because we start with hi isnt a bad thing we just aren’t willing to dive right in like a tit

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this site even real? We have verified accounts that hate messaging and unverified who hate meeting. People have names like cum dump whore or cheating wife and get offended when you compliment their looks. When you talk to them like they say they want to be spoke Too they still complain. What the fuck kind of messages do yous want that actually gains a response. Plus all you “I don’t go near unverified accounts” we are invariably the genuine accounts just because we start with hi isnt a bad thing we just aren’t willing to dive right in like a tit "

Messages that are polite go a long way with me. A bland hi is not going to cut it for me, unless we have been chatting for awhile and then the "hi" is acceptable. As a first message it shows lack of interest, it is also text speak which is not a favourite of mine. Still what I love about fab is we are all cut so different and I love the way we all think and all those opinions of ours. No one is wrong but neither right sharing our thoughts is great.

I am real, this site is real, it takes my money to be a member which shows up on my real bank account!

Names here do not bother me, it is the person that is behind the name that is the real thing.

What do you mean get offended when you compliment there looks? Compliments after all like " love your tits " yes they are lovely and thank you for saying so is alright with me!

What do you mean "when you talk to them like they say they want to be spoke" what does this mean please

If you used a bad word in a message to me like " what the fuck " it is not offensive but rude and would be block time. It is not going to make me think wow I want to get to know you at all!

I do not agree with the fact of you saying that unverified accounts are genuine.

IF the messages are not working try going to a social at a club that might help you?

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

This site works fine for people who put some effort in it. You haven't asked for profile advice so I can't give it, but everyone looks on profile first before responding (or not, if not interested).

As someone above suggested, get yourself to an organised social in your area or a club and let your personality shine through in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this site even real? We have verified accounts that hate messaging and unverified who hate meeting. People have names like cum dump whore or cheating wife and get offended when you compliment their looks. When you talk to them like they say they want to be spoke Too they still complain. What the fuck kind of messages do yous want that actually gains a response. Plus all you “I don’t go near unverified accounts” we are invariably the genuine accounts just because we start with hi isnt a bad thing we just aren’t willing to dive right in like a tit "

We find this site excellent for us full of many genuine people.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

You ok Hun?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll get a response when you message someone that is considering fucking you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll get a response when you message someone that is considering fucking you?! "

A decent profile for others to look at may help as well.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Also is it the salt you're refering to that's soft or what? Am I missing a trick here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you it's that bad, why are you still here?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

... Oh dear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this site even real? We have verified accounts that hate messaging and unverified who hate meeting. People have names like cum dump whore or cheating wife and get offended when you compliment their looks. When you talk to them like they say they want to be spoke Too they still complain. What the fuck kind of messages do yous want that actually gains a response. Plus all you “I don’t go near unverified accounts” we are invariably the genuine accounts just because we start with hi isnt a bad thing we just aren’t willing to dive right in like a tit "

Ok

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sure, the site, like the users, are all real.

We all find our own unique way to use it, that works for us. Not everyone here meets all the time, and as single men outnumber others, with thousands and surplus men going spare, it's tougher for you.

Swinging is often a private pursuit amongst friends or alternatively at swinging venues - a website can supplement that and offer something cheaper - but is better Imo, when you are swinging via clubs etc. You feel more involved or a part of it. Perhaps that could be your way to get to know others, become verified etc.

The onus is on each of us to make it work, if it can, for what we want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No the cock and you know it no need to be funny. It’s always easier for women these sites always has been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No the cock and you know it no need to be funny. It’s always easier for women these sites always has been "

Are the photos of someone else? You say that it doesn't look like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, you're quite an angry so n so aren't ya.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm real, the site is real and I'm pretty sure the people I've met are real. No one is forced to stay on here if they don't want to or if it's not working for them. There is a delete account button available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, you're quite an angry so n so aren't ya. "


"Wow, you're quite an angry so n so aren't ya. "

Sadly when people have no success on here they get angry rather than taking a good hard look at themselves.

Maybe people should be meeting him. He says he is rich!!

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"No the cock and you know it no need to be funny. It’s always easier for women these sites always has been "

How many times have you been on here as a woman to come to that assumption?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this site even real? We have verified accounts that hate messaging and unverified who hate meeting. People have names like cum dump whore or cheating wife and get offended when you compliment their looks. When you talk to them like they say they want to be spoke Too they still complain. What the fuck kind of messages do yous want that actually gains a response. Plus all you “I don’t go near unverified accounts” we are invariably the genuine accounts just because we start with hi isnt a bad thing we just aren’t willing to dive right in like a tit "
be patient we all have to start somewhere

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"No the cock and you know it no need to be funny. It’s always easier for women these sites always has been "

...and no it's not 'easier' for women. High supply (men) doesn't necessarily mean high quality!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No the cock and you know it no need to be funny. It’s always easier for women these sites always has been "

Abuse, threats, demands, and other dregs of humanity are so easy to deal with...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No the cock and you know it no need to be funny. It’s always easier for women these sites always has been

Abuse, threats, demands, and other dregs of humanity are so easy to deal with... "
How, you reply and say no thankyou young man you're rather brash?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are master of your own destiny on here.

Top tip.

Keep doing what you are doing and don't change a thing. The women clearly don't realise what a catch you are and what they are missing out on.

Your lack of success is not a failure of the site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this site even real? We have verified accounts that hate messaging and unverified who hate meeting. People have names like cum dump whore or cheating wife and get offended when you compliment their looks. When you talk to them like they say they want to be spoke Too they still complain. What the fuck kind of messages do yous want that actually gains a response. Plus all you “I don’t go near unverified accounts” we are invariably the genuine accounts just because we start with hi isnt a bad thing we just aren’t willing to dive right in like a tit "

You ok babez, need a hug?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"No the cock and you know it no need to be funny. It’s always easier for women these sites always has been "

I'd like to know how it's easier for women on here. It may well be if we are willing to open our legs to all comers 24/7 and have no standards or choices.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"No the cock and you know it no need to be funny. It’s always easier for women these sites always has been "

Could you please explain what the first sentence means, and also what exactly is easy for women? Which are "these" sites?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No the cock and you know it no need to be funny. It’s always easier for women these sites always has been

I'd like to know how it's easier for women on here. It may well be if we are willing to open our legs to all comers 24/7 and have no standards or choices. "

Yeah. Personally I have slightly higher aspirations than running around from pillar to post servicing men.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"No the cock and you know it no need to be funny. It’s always easier for women these sites always has been

I'd like to know how it's easier for women on here. It may well be if we are willing to open our legs to all comers 24/7 and have no standards or choices.

Yeah. Personally I have slightly higher aspirations than running around from pillar to post servicing men. "

Indeed. As do I, surprisingly enough.

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"You'll get a response when you message someone that is considering fucking you?! "
Hahahahahahaha!!!

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