FabSwingers.com forum: Advice on my profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok I'm getting frustrated with this place. I be respectful when I message people, I don't send random pics to anyone so what am I doing wrong. Any advice

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

No decent pictures, profile is very poor, can’t accommodate, and no need for the legal disclaimer it’s a waste of space. People will always look at the profile before deciding if to respond to a message op.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"No decent pictures, profile is very poor, can’t accommodate, and no need for the legal disclaimer it’s a waste of space. People will always look at the profile before deciding if to respond to a message op. "

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

"Ok I'm getting frustrated with this place. I be respectful when I message people, I don't send random pics to anyone so what am I doing wrong. Any advice"

First up the positives.

Your picture is actually quite good and while not original it is different from 90% of the single guys out there.

Areas to improve

You need to sell yourself, try and take some good quality pics of your body both clothed and semi nude. Make sure you don’t put up close up dick pics!

Write a decent description of what you are like as a person before outlining who you want to meet. Spell check it in word before loading it on. Explain why you can’t accommodate, be truthful.

Things to bin.

Both disclaimers, your personal one is just s drive by on women as a whole!

The legal nonsense is just meaningless!

Take longer than 5mins to do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Head wreckers need not apply"..? This is not gonna attract anyone and make them interested. It's a put off to be honest.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Ok I'm getting frustrated with this place. I be respectful when I message people, I don't send random pics to anyone so what am I doing wrong. Any advice"

You're frustrated after 2 weeks?

What were your expectations when you joined?

Compare Fab to going out to a bar. A woman will be attracted by what you look like and what you say.

Your profile gives no clues as to what you look like and it says nothing. Ergo, there's nothing there to attract anyone.

Your legal disclaimer (worthless) is about 6 times longer than your biog.

Lower your expectations, increase your patience threshold, add some pictures that give an idea of whst you look like, no public cock pics, keep a face pic private and actually write a profile.

*more work needed. 2/10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I'm getting frustrated with this place. I be respectful when I message people, I don't send random pics to anyone so what am I doing wrong. Any advice"

I thought the description was good made me laugh in places but all good!

Not so keen on the photos

It would put me off messaging you

A silhoutte

and not sure what the other is meant to be off more of your cover than anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What others have said is valid. In my opinion your pics suck.

I think you need to write your profile as a job application, and expect a similar responce or less.

What do I know. I've been on here 6 or 7 weeks not been on a single date after contacting at least 30 profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just a tough place for us men mate don’t get frustrated just bide your time and improve your profile as best you can

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll find a lot of pots calling kettles that need to take their own advice on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are you writing to women. Have you read their profiles? Are you tayloring your replies to that? Are you sure you meet their profile? I get so many guys who haven't even looked at it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You'll find a lot of pots calling kettles that need to take their own advice on here"

Yeh I've noticed this, alot of people that are full of there own self importance with is a shame.

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