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By *oober698 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Hi, new on here, only been on a few weeks. It's difficult making contact as a single guy, most messages go unanswered. Advice on how to get off the stumbling block appreciated. I'm a decent guy looking for some decent friendly fun. We all deserve a little pleasure in life. Thanks for looking.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Have a look around this section and see what advice has been given, most will apply.

I'm afraid the idea that everyone "deserves" fun rankles a bit though. It's an activity involving two or more people. You get it with the agreement of others. No one owes you sex.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Agree with above

I'd also get rid or the bit that bashes other men in your write up,the ones that have six packs...

Add some more pics ,don't have to be your face , the one you have isn't the greatest.

I don't know what messages you ate sending,but always read a profile and try to personalise a message if possible.

Join in on the forums and try a social .

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yeah that too. Sell yourself, don't bash others. Some six pack hunks are who they seem and are wonderfully respectful. And even if they're not... doesn't say why I'd want to meet you.

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK

I’ve met several “hunks” with a 6 pack and I assure you, not only where they exactly who they said but they were lovely people too. Fancy that?!

Don’t bash others to make yourself feel better.

Talk about “deserving” fun gets my back up too. The best advice I’ve ever seen on here is that no one owes you anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It says on your profile that you have been on here for over a year... But I'm guessing that, by saying you're a newbie, you either mean to the forums, or that you only just recently started using the site. Whatever the reason, if I were you, I'd probably start over, set up a new profile with some enticing/teasing pics. They don't have to be of your face or your cock.

And it may come to you as a surprise, OP, but this is not an instashag site but swingers site. If you want to chat and meet someone, stop thinking you're entitled to meet someone and start thinking how you can sell yourself on here, get women interested in you. How can you get a 99 year old woman interested in you, and what have you got to offer them?

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of women on here like chunkier guys, be proud of who you are

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By *oober698 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Thank you for your feedback. I had acted on advice of another female member that answered a message from me when first on here. Messages from me have tried to engage in conversation rather than fancy a shag talk if you know what I mean. I see In profiles i look at that it's not the best approach and to converse is the best way. I will adjust my profile as you suggested. Dont really know what pics would complement me! I'd rather be up front than hiding things. Ty. G.

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By *oober698 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Thank you, its amazing how some others see things differently. Maybe my earliest advice was not as sensible! I will try again!

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By *oober698 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

I initially joined a while back but did not use the site until last month. Thanks for you feedback! I'm gonna try again!!

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By *oober698 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Thanks for the encouragement, appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the encouragement, appreciated."

Press reply and quote bud then we know who you're replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of women on here like chunkier guys, be proud of who you are "

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By *oober698 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Thanks for the encouragement, appreciated.

Press reply and quote bud then we know who you're replying to "

I live and learn! Lol.Ty!

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By *oober698 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Lots of women on here like chunkier guys, be proud of who you are "

That's good to know.

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