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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I find a girl interesting and attractive I message them, not with the standard hey or a dick pic. I go out of my way to compliment them and want to find out more about them. I'm finding it hard to find someone that's actually interested in me. Anyone out there?!

Francesco x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I find a girl interesting and attractive I message them, not with the standard hey or a dick pic. I go out of my way to compliment them and want to find out more about them. I'm finding it hard to find someone that's actually interested in me. Anyone out there?!

Francesco x"

The first thing anyone will do when receiving a message on here will be to take a look at the sender's profile.

You haven't asked for any advice, but maybe you need to look there?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Women are individuals. Their profiles will give you a clue as to what kind of message to send.

Common interests, thoughts on what they say, that sort of thing.

Compliments from strangers often fall flat here.

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK

You’ve only been on here 3 weeks. While I appreciate that probably feels a long time, in the world of a single guy on Fab, it’s not!

Unfortunately single males significantly out number couples and single females on this site. It takes time and effort to get a meet. Keep looking for profiles that take your interest, message those where you match what they are looking for, and keeping sending those nice messages.

Otherwise take a look at what’s on and get yourself out there to a social or a club night to chat face to face with people!

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Unfortunately as women on here we receive loads of compliments, so as the guys to try and get in our knickers, and as soon as we turn them down, they rant at us.

So complimenting is going to get you limited attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They like huge enormous cocks and being asked if they'll help drain your balls or suck your cock as it isn't going to suck itself

Haha just approach them as you would in the real world and reference something in their profile that shows you've bothered to read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately, you may think you are the original white knight good guy. But at this point us girls have seen every attempt possible to get us into bed and nothing you say will be any different from the hundreds of other half baked compliments and dicks we get here all day. The best thing a single boy can do here is, make themselves known, then sit and wait. Like a good little dog.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Being young doesn't help here either.

Can't really add too much, the women who have posted know what they're talking about from experience

So keep going persistence is key ..and manners... reading profiles etc..

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Understanding that all women are completely different would be a good start.

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By *ryptoMan
over a year ago

neath

Do t listen to her advice.... Up her own arse !!

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By *arkasSmoothMan
over a year ago

Luton


"If I find a girl interesting and attractive I message them, not with the standard hey or a dick pic. I go out of my way to compliment them and want to find out more about them. I'm finding it hard to find someone that's actually interested in me. Anyone out there?!

Francesco x"

Cliché - be patient. Failing that get yourself to an event like Cubs and Cougars. Chat and get to know those with experience, verifications do help. Add more to your profile, if you ain't funny don't try to be. Candidness gets you a long way. Compliments are not bad thing, however personalise them. Don't be creepy though. Happy fabbing.

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