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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I litreraly have no idea how to start here.

Any key rules to not come across rude?

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

The best advice I can give is forget the screen in front of you and pretend every interaction is actually face to face...If you wouldn't say it to a stranger in a bar, then don't say it on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great advice!

Any ideas for a good first message?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Great advice!

Any ideas for a good first message?"

Do you think that everybody will be receptive to the same message?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair point

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Great advice!

Any ideas for a good first message?"

One that shows you've read their profile, nothing generic that you could copy and paste to anyone.

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

Any message you receive should start-dear gamesmaster......but if they keep asking for hidden cheats on apex legends just ignore the fools.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Hello newbie and welcome!

Be yourself, be polite.

Don't take yourself or the site too seriously and you'll be fine.

Happy fabbing

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"The best advice I can give is forget the screen in front of you and pretend every interaction is actually face to face...If you wouldn't say it to a stranger in a bar, then don't say it on here. "
you are more likely to get a conversation at a bar.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

The most important one is to have realistic expectations of the site.

And maintain a sense of humour !!

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"So I litreraly have no idea how to start here.

Any key rules to not come across rude?"

To be honest, things don't really kick off till you start to meet people. Catch 22? Kinda.

Personally, I use the site to find out where the good parties and socials are. Your reputation is your currency. Find a social or club near you and literally aim to go with the intention of learning from the environment.

Once you get known as a reasonable fellow locally things will grow naturally and you can start to travel and meet with friends of friends etc.

I could give lots more info but that should help to begin with.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

Also, if you do decide to go clubbing, this page gives some excellent advice on how to conduct yourself in a club situation.

https://blackmansfanclub.co.uk/dir/tips-hints/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your status says "message if bored" so only boring people message lol

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"The best advice I can give is forget the screen in front of you and pretend every interaction is actually face to face...If you wouldn't say it to a stranger in a bar, then don't say it on here.

you are more likely to get a conversation at a bar. "

You're probably correct as most folks wouldn't open a conversation in a bar with the crass messages that they send on here.

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