FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting mf couples.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd love to meet a nice couple to get to know and hopefully have soemthing semi regular.

The problem is I know that they are nearly always flooded with messages from other single guys..

How does a genuine non time waster stand out?

Thoughts..

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Get yourself to a club, dressed and smelling nice. Plenty of couples in clubs, don’t go with any assumptions though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socialise yourself,go to socials,and clubs ,

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

For us. Face pics on the first message. Be nice and friendly and speak to both of us with the same attitude. I hate when people are bleh with beast then flirty with me.

Let them lead the conversation.

We prefer to talk like we're building a friendship before anything else. It makes me (brat) more comfortable.

If we want to know what you're looking for from a couple etc. we will ask you when we feel comfortable.

We get that not every couple is like us but its what we look for.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"For us. Face pics on the first message. Be nice and friendly and speak to both of us with the same attitude. I hate when people are bleh with beast then flirty with me.

Let them lead the conversation.

We prefer to talk like we're building a friendship before anything else. It makes me (brat) more comfortable.

If we want to know what you're looking for from a couple etc. we will ask you when we feel comfortable.

We get that not every couple is like us but its what we look for. "

Couldn't agree more. We had a lovely guy chat to us but it soon turned to smut, which is fine if it's that sort of situation but straight away got on my nerves and the OH was not happy.

Respect. It's all about respect.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Would love to have a couple as friends....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For us. Face pics on the first message. Be nice and friendly and speak to both of us with the same attitude. I hate when people are bleh with beast then flirty with me.

Let them lead the conversation.

We prefer to talk like we're building a friendship before anything else. It makes me (brat) more comfortable.

If we want to know what you're looking for from a couple etc. we will ask you when we feel comfortable.

We get that not every couple is like us but its what we look for. "

Sums it up perfectly. Naturally the couple are sharing something special with a third party so it's expected that you'd make the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us. Face pics on the first message. Be nice and friendly and speak to both of us with the same attitude. I hate when people are bleh with beast then flirty with me.

Let them lead the conversation.

We prefer to talk like we're building a friendship before anything else. It makes me (brat) more comfortable.

If we want to know what you're looking for from a couple etc. we will ask you when we feel comfortable.

We get that not every couple is like us but its what we look for. "

We can relate to this!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Persoanlly in my experience you'd be far better in a club. As a couple me and my partner have never looked to meet single males on FAB but in the Club we've found guys that have floated her boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a few where they seem really nice and good suiters but very unenthusiastic,like as if it's our duty to do all the conversation work,it's annoying sometimes. Guys that we approach and speak to us both equally are what we look for and the main thing is not to be pushy,we are hard working people that sometimes don't have time to answer messages within 30 seconds.

Politeness goes a long way.

That's our two pence worth.

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

"For us. Face pics on the first message. Be nice and friendly and speak to both of us with the same attitude. I hate when people are bleh with beast then flirty with me.

Let them lead the conversation.

We prefer to talk like we're building a friendship before anything else. It makes me (brat) more comfortable.

If we want to know what you're looking for from a couple etc. we will ask you when we feel comfortable.

We get that not every couple is like us but its what we look for. "

Totally agree

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