FabSwingers.com forum: Huntingdon Area & Playing Away & Being Honest

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi Everybody ~ I am married and used to swing with my ex-wife and miss the fun and excitement very much still. I am now remarried but current wife not interested in playing in this way, so simply looking for some non-problematic sexy fun with other local naughty people. I have been honest about this on my profile, rather than deceive. So how about it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are honest with a bunch of strangers, but not your wife?

There will be some that don't mind, but others that will avoid getting involved in deceit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deja vue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgive me for making the assumption that your current wife is not aware of your desire to meet other woman, but if this is true using the word honest is a bit lame, honesty should be between you and your wife not some strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or more interestingly you meeting men and your Bi side.

As Frock said some will meet and some won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

School Boy Error using the word honest whilst admitting to cheating - I have had to be very careful with that one and managed it so far but its like blood in the water The Swing Sharks will circle!

Up front about your infidelity is a safer way of putting it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"School Boy Error using the word honest whilst admitting to cheating - I have had to be very careful with that one and managed it so far but its like blood in the water The Swing Sharks will circle!

Up front about your infidelity is a safer way of putting it!"

Why are some of us "The Swing Sharks"?

Labelling people who don't want to get involved in people (meaning men and women) that can't be truely honest with their partners, holds nothing wrong. Some of us don't like deceit .....it's quite normal when you think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why is everyone so judgemental. if everyone is so antsi what a guy does then they ignore him but the way some people go on is like they are whiter than white and clean living. Hate to point it out but this is a website with the purpose of meeting people for sex not a dating site. Surely shouldn't it be a case of take it or leave it and not pass judgement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"School Boy Error using the word honest whilst admitting to cheating - I have had to be very careful with that one and managed it so far but its like blood in the water The Swing Sharks will circle!

Up front about your infidelity is a safer way of putting it!

Why are some of us "The Swing Sharks"?

I totally agree with everything you say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who are you to lay down the law about what other people do?

If you don't want to play with a certain section of this community then just don't play with them.

No need for you to get so worked up about it.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"why is everyone so judgemental. if everyone is so antsi what a guy does then they ignore him but the way some people go on is like they are whiter than white and clean living. Hate to point it out but this is a website with the purpose of meeting people for sex not a dating site. Surely shouldn't it be a case of take it or leave it and not pass judgement

you may leave your morals at the door, i am the same person swinging as i am not swinging...

Swinging for most is about sexual openness and honesty, their are specialist sites looking for people who want to cheat.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Who are you to lay down the law about what other people do?

If you don't want to play with a certain section of this community then just don't play with them.

No need for you to get so worked up about it."

You are not part of this community, you are yet another man cheating on his wife rather than leaving or sorting his marriage out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How dare you judge me.

You don't know me or my situation.

I don't judge you and would ask for the same courtesy in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are websites for people who cheat, so why don't all of you cheaters clear off and join one."

As I've said before,

Swinging is about honesty.

Wife stuck at home clueless as to what their man is up to is a victim of a cheat, not the partner a man involved in "open-minded swinging".

Husband stuck at home clueless as to what their woman is up to is a victim of a cheat, not the partner a woman involved in "open-minded swinging".

A man or a woman enjoying sex with others with the full knowledge of their partners are swingers.

A man or a woman enjoying sex with many (with no life partner) are swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not presume to tell me what to do. You have no knowledge of my situation but feel able to offer "advice and guidance".

I say again, you do not have the right to judge me or anyone else on this site.

As it says in the Bible, judge not lest you be judged also!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can say what i want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

empty vessel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have seen the hurt that cheating does people who cheat make me sick. lets hope karma bites you in the arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do not presume to tell me what to do. You have no knowledge of my situation but feel able to offer "advice and guidance".

I say again, you do not have the right to judge me or anyone else on this site.

As it says in the Bible, judge not lest you be judged also!"

I'm sure the bible guides its followers away from infidelity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have seen the hurt that cheating does people who cheat make me sick. lets hope karma bites you in the arse."

OMG: What's up have you been bitten on the arse by the cheating man?

Some people on this site make us sick with their judgemental views, it's a bloody swing site & therefore people can have fun with whom they want whether their partners know or not!

As long as the person is being honest to themselves who has the right to judge anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have seen the hurt that cheating does people who cheat make me sick. lets hope karma bites you in the arse.

OMG: What's up have you been bitten on the arse by the cheating man?

Some people on this site make us sick with their judgemental views, it's a bloody swing site & therefore people can have fun with whom they want whether their partners know or not!

As long as the person is being honest to themselves who has the right to judge anyone.

Karma is finding out your old man is fucking behind your back....................or vice versa. Think about it & digest. It's not about judging, but about people being shit on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have seen the hurt that cheating does people who cheat make me sick. lets hope karma bites you in the arse.

OMG: What's up have you been bitten on the arse by the cheating man?

Some people on this site make us sick with their judgemental views, it's a bloody swing site & therefore people can have fun with whom they want whether their partners know or not!

As long as the person is being honest to themselves who has the right to judge anyone.

The basics of 'swinging' involves honesty.

The basics of 'cheating' involves dishonesty.

Is that so hard to grasp?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"How dare you judge me.

You don't know me or my situation.

I don't judge you and would ask for the same courtesy in return."

courtesy from a man who does not do his wife the courtesy of being honest from her...theres a new one

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"i have seen the hurt that cheating does people who cheat make me sick. lets hope karma bites you in the arse.

OMG: What's up have you been bitten on the arse by the cheating man?

Some people on this site make us sick with their judgemental views, it's a bloody swing site & therefore people can have fun with whom they want whether their partners know or not!

As long as the person is being honest to themselves who has the right to judge anyone.

The basics of 'swinging' involves honesty.

The basics of 'cheating' involves dishonesty.

Is that so hard to grasp?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we are gonna need a bigger boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet married men. When visible it's on my profile.

It would never cross my mind to take up the mantle of Relate counselor as some seem so eager to do at every opportunity. That said, I've been known to rip married men a new one who contact me. What they do is their business just don't involve me in it.

Married men that start threads like this though on a site full of so many paragons of virtue seriously need their bumps felt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we are gonna need a bigger boat"

I set that joke up 2hrs ago and I have been sitting on it but I just got too impatient plus this thread needs a little lightening up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have seen the hurt that cheating does people who cheat make me sick. lets hope karma bites you in the arse.

OMG: What's up have you been bitten on the arse by the cheating man?

Some people on this site make us sick with their judgemental views, it's a bloody swing site & therefore people can have fun with whom they want whether their partners know or not!

As long as the person is being honest to themselves who has the right to judge anyone.

I have morals and i don't think its ok to be dishonest to your partner and play on here. But hey good for you, i have my views and you have yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have seen the hurt that cheating does people who cheat make me sick. lets hope karma bites you in the arse.

OMG: What's up have you been bitten on the arse by the cheating man?

Some people on this site make us sick with their judgemental views, it's a bloody swing site & therefore people can have fun with whom they want whether their partners know or not!

As long as the person is being honest to themselves who has the right to judge anyone.

The basics of 'swinging' involves honesty.

The basics of 'cheating' involves dishonesty.

Is that so hard to grasp?

Totally agree with that statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do not presume to tell me what to do. You have no knowledge of my situation but feel able to offer "advice and guidance".

I say again, you do not have the right to judge me or anyone else on this site.

As it says in the Bible, judge not lest you be judged also!"

Does your wife know that you are using this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Everybody ~ I am married and used to swing with my ex-wife and miss the fun and excitement very much still. I am now remarried but current wife not interested in playing in this way, so simply looking for some non-problematic sexy fun with other local naughty people. I have been honest about this on my profile, rather than deceive. So how about it ?"

Have you told your wife you use this site?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"School Boy Error using the word honest whilst admitting to cheating - I have had to be very careful with that one and managed it so far but its like blood in the water The Swing Sharks will circle!

Up front about your infidelity is a safer way of putting it!

Why are some of us "The Swing Sharks"?

Thats your choice and you don't have to meet marrieds...but the man isn't asking anyone for a lecture, he is introducing himself in the right section for anyone who DOES want to play with marrieds.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"can say what i want"

Actually you will find you can't, as abusing people is against site rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just to add to the mix, there are men and women on this site that don´t advertise the fact they are attached and going behind their partners backs. And you may well of met them without realising it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very heated this one, isnt it?

I dont think it's right to cheat on a partner, ive done it , ended badly, ive had it done to me, ended badly too.

equaly, i dont think it's right to make judgements about people.

behave like a cunt if you like, if your wife is in her thirties sen me her number when you break up, (cos there is no way you will get away with it in the long term, most people arent stupid, you know).

Equaly, no matter how much of a cunt you think a cheater is, there is no point in shouting about it, they wont listen and you won't get any satisfaction from it.....

personaly, i think cheats are fooling themselves as much as their partners, but its their life and their soul, let em do what they want with it.....

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP...maybe it is best to introduce yourself again on another thread and hopefully people will leave you alone to do what you want to do in your life and they can get on with theirs.

Good luck.

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