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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No meets since joining, I'm not that ugly am I? Constructive thoughts only please, I know what you lot are like!

Messages do have a semblance of thought in them, no one liners, and yes I have used punctuation in this post!

Cheers,

Blue

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Your a bloke .

Very difficult to meet women on here

Couples are a bit easier but it's bloody hard to find genuine female company .

All the best dude.

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Possibly you’re messages aren’t good enough?

Your profile is off putting because of this:

“I'm looking for reliable people and whilst I'm a confident guy, a little help if you're interested is always appreciated. Perhaps drop me a wink.“

I don’t even know what that is meant to mean but it says to me you’re not confident which is off putting.

Also you hint at bareback which a large majority of people don’t go for here because we play safely

You’ve been here 3 months. This isn’t Tinder, this is a swinging site so don’t expect women to be throwing themselves at you as you’re in the majority so you’ll be competing with 100+ messages a day for the average decent woman here.

Tips:

Read Fab FAQs

Be active in the forums

Go to a club or party to socialise in the scene

Be patient

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

Could be your bedroom wallpaper?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't like the pic of you in a disabled toilet with a sanitary bin.

Your status says you are turned in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont show to much on your profile either leave something to the imagination if they want to see you cock they will ask pal all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No meets since joining, I'm not that ugly am I? Constructive thoughts only please, I know what you lot are like!

Messages do have a semblance of thought in them, no one liners, and yes I have used punctuation in this post!

Cheers,

Blue"

Like what most have said, trying socialising club if you can it helps alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like the pic of you in a disabled toilet with a sanitary bin.

Your status says you are turned in. "

Oh I dunno

Some sanitary bins are shit hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like the pic of you in a disabled toilet with a sanitary bin.

Your status says you are turned in.

Oh I dunno

Some sanitary bins are shit hot"

See what you did there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bodywise, I'm toned and very fit, but still have some wobbly bits! Better looking in person as well, I can never find the best side for a pic"

This your body is not toned (no offence) its not bad and your not overweight but not toned and people can see that.

Look at other single men's profiles that seem to be meeting people on your area get some idea for pics etc get cam verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Bodywise, I'm toned and very fit, but still have some wobbly bits! Better looking in person as well, I can never find the best side for a pic"

This your body is not toned (no offence) its not bad and your not overweight but not toned and people can see that.

Look at other single men's profiles that seem to be meeting people on your area get some idea for pics etc get cam verified "

Bless him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Bodywise, I'm toned and very fit, but still have some wobbly bits! Better looking in person as well, I can never find the best side for a pic"

This your body is not toned (no offence) its not bad and your not overweight but not toned and people can see that.

Look at other single men's profiles that seem to be meeting people on your area get some idea for pics etc get cam verified

Bless him"

Not saying it to be nasty just think you have to be honest 100s of single men and people want honest and reliable.

80% of profile is okay but as someone said earlier its not tinder it takes time x

Or even easier go to a club lol xx

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By *lackTeJayMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Hi mate, I would perhaps re-write your profile summary. In terms of messaging women, always be polite and introduce yourself.

All the best mate

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By *itty HoneytunnelWoman
over a year ago

Scotland

Yeh take all the constructive criticism on board mate ...... your profile is contradicting and confusing in places

ATB!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP,

Notwithstanding the excellent advice given so far, it took seconds for your profile to start screaming of a man playing away.

That's your business, and not our issue to moralise over. However if that is the case many people will not be interested and you will need to accept that.

Can I also add that your current advert comes across as desperate. You are looking for anything, anywhere in the South West. But consider the size of the area, up to a 400 mile round trip, and that you don't care what your meeting for (apparently the other person has to be creative, whilst you presumably are driving for 4 hours to meet them), and maybe you'll see how it comes across.

Good luck

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By *istress CockneyWoman
over a year ago

LONDON

Hi OP

I also note you mention pain?

Not everyones cuppa.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you to all the responders, some of the comments are really helpful, clearly I need a rethink, or new wallpaper, will have a think about my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are looking for women to play with, whether you are a bloke OR another woman, they are hard to come by... Just so ya know.

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