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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all i guess im not exactly new to this site anymore but im still trying to get my first meet. Ive had conversations with woman and couples but it hasnt really got anywhere. Any advice? Or better yet anyone want to meet

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Read the other threads in this section. They ask the same question, and honestly the answers really don't differ that much.

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By *tew2009Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Another poor misguided soul who actually thinks that people meet up on here......some do but most don't, you have to find the genuine ones and it ain't easy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course people meet you on here

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Another poor misguided soul who actually thinks that people meet up on here......some do but most don't, you have to find the genuine ones and it ain't easy!"

People have met on here just the majority don’t present themselves well and then moan about not meeting

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Another poor misguided soul who actually thinks that people meet up on here......some do but most don't, you have to find the genuine ones and it ain't easy!

People have met on here just the majority don’t present themselves well and then moan about not meeting "

This!

Just because someone doesn't want to meet you (first in the quote) doesn't mean they don't meet!

I've had well over 100 meets in the bit over a year I've been on here. (not all verify/ reverify)

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Try socials and clubs OP

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

You've been here a month. Where you expecting to be drowning in women throwing themselves at you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been here 4 weeks.

What did you think this was, Instashag?

Most single men on here don't get a meet until they've been here for 6 months to a year.

Men massively outnumber women and couples here.

Swinging isn't just about sex you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Popcorn time*

I feel sorry for him now lol

Run boy run

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By *istress CockneyWoman
over a year ago

LONDON


"Another poor misguided soul who actually thinks that people meet up on here......some do but most don't, you have to find the genuine ones and it ain't easy!"
whoa.You don't sound happy today!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP,

Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.

Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. If their profile says they want you to send them a message, do so, don't be lazy and wink. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.

Don't assume that just because someone looks at you they want to meet.

Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. It's not badly written, aside from a few distracting spelling mistakes. However, the first thing you say is 'Wind and words', which is not a very flattering way to introduce yourself.

Your profile needs to say something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you. Lines like 'getting jiggy with you' are a little immature.

Put on some more pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great.

However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.

Good luck.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I really doubt I'm going to be awed by your finger and tongue talents. Way to young to get the technique right

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