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By *i couple mf OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Myself and my partner have been on this site for a while.

Have sent a lot of messages, been on chatrooms trying to get some meets.

But we are dicovering that even "SWINGERS" are fussy about who they will meet?

I know myself and my partner are not super models, but some people are so rude we've had some messages that where well lets say crushing and some people haven't got the decency to say:-

"sorry no thank you, but thanks for showing a interest?"

People have messaged us i've always taken a moment to say yes or no in a polite way.

Where just wondering if any one feels the same? or is this just the norm.

Nire/Rob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi! Trust me your not alone in this! I have come to find that 98% of people on here are either ignorant or rude! We are all human. I have sent todate about 200 emails with only 4 replys. Unless your a single girl or a half fit couple then you have got no chance. Some people say I should have all manner of photos on my profile but to methat should come after you chat to someone, I like to know if the person im going to meet has half a brain and not some nutter!

I am coming to find that this site is not really for me, 1-im a single bloke 2-i do not have loads of photos up 3-i like to chat with someone before being personal.

All I can say is good luck but I really think this really is not enough!

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By *bitMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

To be honest i find that men respond and woman may respond once and then for some reason just stop. Anyway I had a bit of fun so far with a good variety of people. Keep trying you look like a real nice couple.

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By *i couple mf OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

thank you for your comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But we are dicovering that even "SWINGERS" are fussy about who they will meet? "

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Myself and my partner have been on this site for a while.

Have sent a lot of messages, been on chatrooms trying to get some meets.

But we are dicovering that even "SWINGERS" are fussy about who they will meet?

I know myself and my partner are not super models, but some people are so rude we've had some messages that where well lets say crushing and some people haven't got the decency to say:-

"sorry no thank you, but thanks for showing a interest?"

People have messaged us i've always taken a moment to say yes or no in a polite way.

Where just wondering if any one feels the same? or is this just the norm.

Nire/Rob

"

Why on earth did u think swingers wouldnt be fussy about who they meet...i think you might be better finding an escort, you clearly have no respect for swinging or swingers

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Hi! Trust me your not alone in this! I have come to find that 98% of people on here are either ignorant or rude! We are all human. I have sent todate about 200 emails with only 4 replys. Unless your a single girl or a half fit couple then you have got no chance. Some people say I should have all manner of photos on my profile but to methat should come after you chat to someone, I like to know if the person im going to meet has half a brain and not some nutter!

I am coming to find that this site is not really for me, 1-im a single bloke 2-i do not have loads of photos up 3-i like to chat with someone before being personal.

All I can say is good luck but I really think this really is not enough!"

Firstly a no reply is not rude,do you reply to the pizza shop when they send a leaflet through your door?

Secondly. you want to get to know ppl, great what are u doing to get to know them , you dont have an avatar, do you use the forums, socials or chat, or do u expect women just to fall at your feet?

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


"Myself and my partner have been on this site for a while.

Have sent a lot of messages, been on chatrooms trying to get some meets.

But we are dicovering that even "SWINGERS" are fussy about who they will meet?

I know myself and my partner are not super models, but some people are so rude we've had some messages that where well lets say crushing and some people haven't got the decency to say:-

"sorry no thank you, but thanks for showing a interest?"

People have messaged us i've always taken a moment to say yes or no in a polite way.

Where just wondering if any one feels the same? or is this just the norm.

Nire/Rob

"

It's a bit ironic that you say even swingers are fussy when you have quite narrow prefernces yourself - Preference being the operative word

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Myself and my partner have been on this site for a while.

Have sent a lot of messages, been on chatrooms trying to get some meets.

But we are dicovering that even "SWINGERS" are fussy about who they will meet?

I know myself and my partner are not super models, but some people are so rude we've had some messages that where well lets say crushing and some people haven't got the decency to say:-

"sorry no thank you, but thanks for showing a interest?"

People have messaged us i've always taken a moment to say yes or no in a polite way.

Where just wondering if any one feels the same? or is this just the norm.

Nire/Rob

It's a bit ironic that you say even swingers are fussy when you have quite narrow prefernces yourself - Preference being the operative word "

dont u realise we are sex crazed maniacs who shag anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even swingers are fussy? Really? I think I can see where you are going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Myself and my partner have been on this site for a while.

Have sent a lot of messages, been on chatrooms trying to get some meets.

But we are dicovering that even "SWINGERS" are fussy about who they will meet?

I know myself and my partner are not super models, but some people are so rude we've had some messages that where well lets say crushing and some people haven't got the decency to say:-

"sorry no thank you, but thanks for showing a interest?"

People have messaged us i've always taken a moment to say yes or no in a polite way.

Where just wondering if any one feels the same? or is this just the norm.

Nire/Rob

"

Firstly can I say that yes we are fussy in who we communicate/meet with, this is why we are given profiles to fill in instead of just pics n phone numbers, everyone fills in there likes and dislikes, it is up to the others to be guided by these.

although we state on our profile that we will not reply to certain mails that dont match theses or we dont match them, we do reply to anyone else that has taken the effort to write to us, sometimes not as quickly as we would like as we dont run our life by fab's alone lol,things like day to day living gets in the way.

you will always get a few on sites that are out n out rude but they are few and far between.

read the profiles fully and stick to the guide lines,only contact the ads that match your profile and you theirs and always expect the knock backs, works for us

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By *i couple mf OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Swingers are fussy? the guys has to have 10" not all guys have one that big and a good body, the ladies have to be page 3 lookalikes or pornstars.

some people we,ve talked to have called us both "fat b@st@rds" or we don't do "fatties"

thats really nice way of talking to each other, is it?

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