FabSwingers.com forum: Still trying to get first meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can’t seem to get anywhere with meeting anybody not even for a social, any advice

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Try social groups in your area OP or visit a club its the best way

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

Here's a tip. Have a look at other guys profiles on fab and find someone who has a lot of verifications. Then examine how his profile differs from yours. I don't think there's a right way or a wrong way but having a good narrative seems to work better than loads of cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Rarely get the chance to go to a club but perhaps I need to try harder lol

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Too many cock pictures.

You state under 15 miles to meet.

The line 'lots of fun needed' are you providing that, if you are how ?

Honestly would you meet a 99 year old ?

Needs a complete overhaul, or else you won't meet anyone.

Go to a club that's your best option

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

"Rarely get the chance to go to a club but perhaps I need to try harder lol"

Well the 23 photos of your dick from different angles certainly won't be helping you.

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By *alladegaMan
over a year ago

Huntingdon

"Go to a club that's your best option"

what she said!

this site is pretty useless for meeting new people in my opinion

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Your profile is damn near empty. What do you believe it says about you? What impression do you think it leaves women with? Remember that this is a swingers site not a sex site, so what clubs and socials have you attended? Worth mentioning them.

Cock pics are rarely popular so you may do better having just one or none at all. They can be asked for if someone is interested.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Here's something a lady posted... https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/879358

And another useful one from a single male...

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538.

You'd do well to read these, there's also advice on my profile for newbies and people who aren't getting meets should you wish to use it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys think profile needs a complete overhaul lol

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

audentes Fortuna iuvat

I spent time on my profile, say's abit about me, and what I am like in person.

Think about how you message people.

Some of mine must be weird, but that's because I want to actually get to know someone not just have sex with random's.

If that's what you want, state it but might be a long wait.

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

And I would send a message about something, but since I can't I won't

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

You have literally just missed a big social in liverpool. Look out for other local ones in the NW under the meets or uk section of the forum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You say you would like to meet a woman in the same situation as yourself. We don't know what your situation is.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP you still have your cock in every visible photo and it is your avatar.

Lots of women ignore any message that is effectively sent by a cock. It suggests that is all you have to offer.

Your actual profile text is OK, short and to the point. Your honesty will help, as you will only get responses from ladies willing to meet men on here without the knowledge of their wife.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

You need to move away from what you want and look at it from what people you want to meet want.

There aren't thousands of women on this sight lining up to shag a married man who won't go more than 15 miles and have only seen photos of your member. You are simply not offering them anything of any value and you disappear in the thousands of profiles like yours.

Show us how nicely you dress and present yourself. Show a sense of humour. Show you respect people. All you have on there is what YOU want. Show people what you have to OFFER.

You need to understand that single women hold all the cards here. All the men want them and loads of couples too. Couples hold a lot of cards because a lot of men want them. Single men hold no cards. That's not being nasty, it's just life. It's supply and demand. There are millions of people like you wanting a comparatively tiny number of women. They want and can have the pick of the crop. When you created your profile, what did you include that made you think you were in that select few that might get chosen?

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP,

Remove this line, it adds absolutely nothing: Sorry but really no good at this profile thing But here goes.

You should also consider that if someone wants to have an affair with you, they will want to see more of you than just 7 pictures of your cock.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t seem to get anywhere with meeting anybody not even for a social, any advice"
it takes time it will.happen keep at ot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it me or do the vast amount of single male "why aren't I getting meets" posts get showered with excellent advice only for 99% of the OPs to never take any of the advice on board??

Still I suppose it means they still stick out for the wrong reasons and can be easily avoided.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Is it me or do the vast amount of single male "why aren't I getting meets" posts get showered with excellent advice only for 99% of the OPs to never take any of the advice on board??

Still I suppose it means they still stick out for the wrong reasons and can be easily avoided."

Precisely why I now use a copy and paste post for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rarely get the chance to go to a club but perhaps I need to try harder lol"

Yup try harder.. its not instashag.. you only get what you put in.. 7 pics of your cock isnt appealing to most women

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Is it me or do the vast amount of single male "why aren't I getting meets" posts get showered with excellent advice only for 99% of the OPs to never take any of the advice on board??

Still I suppose it means they still stick out for the wrong reasons and can be easily avoided."

Yup. I bother a lot less than I did. Particularly since some think I'll take them on as a charity case.

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By *oAngelsCouple
over a year ago

Sutton

Is it me or do the vast amount of single male "why aren't I getting meets" posts get showered with excellent advice only for 99% of the OPs to never take any of the advice on board??

Still I suppose it means they still stick out for the wrong reasons and can be easily avoided."

#askholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people managed to

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

The amount of dic picks and the fact he is married says it all!

Swinging isn’t cheating.. its cheating simple as!

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