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By *honnNikki OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolingbrook

Hello! My hubby and I new to the poly/swing world. Would like to get to know others. Seeking a woman to please and allow all of our fantasies to come true....hopefully many of times!

If you are an experienced swinger, whats the best piece of advice you have for others seeking?

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

I would say get yourselves to some social events, best way to meet new people

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Agree with above, club would be the quickest way to meet, also ensure you have your filters on, so you don't attract people you're not interested in.

Engage in the forums, so others get to know you and read profiles of anyone you're interested in.

But most of all, have a great time

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By *ornytoad1362Couple
over a year ago

St. Austell

evening folks i would say "take yr time " before swinging there is no time limit, if you want to have "socials " 1st or more than one do so !! there is no pressure to play on 1st meet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you arrange to meet up for social,fun or both, keep in contact with the people you're meeting and if you can't get to them on time or think you can't get to them at all now. Let them know, either in the messaging before hand or as soon as you know you can't make the meet. It serupticiously does a couple things;-

- you let the people you're meeting know you're actually interested in them, not just the sex with them,

- builds a bit of confidence with them if you can chat about anything and find out interests you both/all like (other than physical characteristics) and can chat about when you meet up. Finding common ground to chat about should help you start to relax when chatting on here and help you relax in person.

- Don't be worried if you don't get many/any replies to start with. This place seems to run in shifts; those online in the morning, meet in the evening or only at weekends (when they get away from the 'family' or get a baby sitter). Those on in the evening, you've got a better chance meeting up with them during the day and possibly occasional evenings or at clubs. This is what I'vefound anyway, thereare always exceptions though.

- You will get Timewasters and fantasists replying to you, don't give up heart, if you need to take a break, only do socials for a while (you never know what might happen when you least expect it (I like social meets like that,a bit of flirting, testing the water, maybe touching), if you really want to have fun with each other, you have the option to adjourn to somewhere you can get more into each other - if you know what I mean

- It sounds like hard work, but patience and honesty should prevail with as much sexy fun as you can handle.

Hope you find who you are looking for

A.

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By *honnNikki OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolingbrook


"I would say get yourselves to some social events, best way to meet new people"

Thank you for replying!

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By *honnNikki OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolingbrook

Thanks Steph!


"Agree with above, club would be the quickest way to meet, also ensure you have your filters on, so you don't attract people you're not interested in.

Engage in the forums, so others get to know you and read profiles of anyone you're interested in.

But most of all, have a great time "

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By *honnNikki OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolingbrook

Great advice sir!

Thanks so much!!!


"If you arrange to meet up for social,fun or both, keep in contact with the people you're meeting and if you can't get to them on time or think you can't get to them at all now. Let them know, either in the messaging before hand or as soon as you know you can't make the meet. It serupticiously does a couple things;-

- you let the people you're meeting know you're actually interested in them, not just the sex with them,

- builds a bit of confidence with them if you can chat about anything and find out interests you both/all like (other than physical characteristics) and can chat about when you meet up. Finding common ground to chat about should help you start to relax when chatting on here and help you relax in person.

- Don't be worried if you don't get many/any replies to start with. This place seems to run in shifts; those online in the morning, meet in the evening or only at weekends (when they get away from the 'family' or get a baby sitter). Those on in the evening, you've got a better chance meeting up with them during the day and possibly occasional evenings or at clubs. This is what I'vefound anyway, thereare always exceptions though.

- You will get Timewasters and fantasists replying to you, don't give up heart, if you need to take a break, only do socials for a while (you never know what might happen when you least expect it (I like social meets like that,a bit of flirting, testing the water, maybe touching), if you really want to have fun with each other, you have the option to adjourn to somewhere you can get more into each other - if you know what I mean

- It sounds like hard work, but patience and honesty should prevail with as much sexy fun as you can handle.

Hope you find who you are looking for

A.

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