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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m really struggling as the dirty in me doesn’t come out until there is what I like to call ‘stimulation’

Anyway up for intellectual conversation or here? Have said Sapiosexuals had good experiences on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the word but the concept absolutely applies. There’s a good sprinkling of intellectual people on here. A fair few lecturers and PhDs for certain. Many of them either contribute to the forums or read them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found some amazingly intelligent, witty men on here. They can create mental images in a few words that 25 cock shots are never, ever going to achieve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one person who told me he was sapiosexual was the most dim-witted person I ever met, I don't even think he knew what the word meant.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I've found some amazingly intelligent, witty men on here. They can create mental images in a few words that 25 cock shots are never, ever going to achieve.

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I completely agree....

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

As long as I don't have to keep explaining what I mean by stuff, it's ok!

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"I hate the word but the concept absolutely applies. There’s a good sprinkling of intellectual people on here. A fair few lecturers and PhDs for certain. Many of them either contribute to the forums or read them."
we love the mind and its ability to arouse and entice .. bodies can get hot and steamy after a thorough work out x

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I avoid people who are pretentious enough to describe themselves as 'sapiosexual' so I guess this would be a good filtering method.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one person who told me he was sapiosexual was the most dim-witted person I ever met, I don't even think he knew what the word meant."

Probably thought it meant he was straight but could get sucked off by guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for this, I am actually into Social Sciences and of course how people have sex/express as an artist is beautiful.

How do I go about finding one do you think? Think that might we might just come from licking each other’s brains haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've found some amazingly intelligent, witty men on here. They can create mental images in a few words that 25 cock shots are never, ever going to achieve.

"

This is very much part of the process I am looking for. Me being that man however and the woman whispering to me haha. Oh damn is it only 6pm ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate the word but the concept absolutely applies. There’s a good sprinkling of intellectual people on here. A fair few lecturers and PhDs for certain. Many of them either contribute to the forums or read them. we love the mind and its ability to arouse and entice .. bodies can get hot and steamy after a thorough work out x "

I think it depends but I’m here for either experience. Steamy sex in the morning before work though... walk the streets like a King/Queen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I avoid people who are pretentious enough to describe themselves as 'sapiosexual' so I guess this would be a good filtering method. "

It’s f***** corny, but groups are necessary to determine what you’re looking for. I assume mental connections are as necessary for you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The one person who told me he was sapiosexual was the most dim-witted person I ever met, I don't even think he knew what the word meant."

Lol some men will do anything for the women they know they can’t get. He wasn’t he was called a liar haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The one person who told me he was sapiosexual was the most dim-witted person I ever met, I don't even think he knew what the word meant.

Probably thought it meant he was straight but could get sucked off by guys "

Loooooool dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one person who told me he was sapiosexual was the most dim-witted person I ever met, I don't even think he knew what the word meant."

Things brings up another issue - a new category for those who are deluded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found some amazingly intelligent, witty men on here. They can create mental images in a few words that 25 cock shots are never, ever going to achieve.

"

Omg who ???

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Last thing to discover water would be fish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found some amazingly intelligent, witty men on here. They can create mental images in a few words that 25 cock shots are never, ever going to achieve.

Omg who ???"

Sappiohhh

Millen5

One sentence from either of those 2 and I'm wet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't spell lol

Sapiohhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thick as fuck, but t I'm an awesome shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frontier psychologist

Ghengis

No sexy talk with either but utterly enthralling to bounce ideas off

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By *exyCouple999Couple
over a year ago

South Bucks


"I'm thick as fuck, but t I'm an awesome shag."

Snap !

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I'm thick as fuck, but t I'm an awesome shag."

How do we know that’s not a cunning double bluff before you produce your PhD in astrophysics on a meet?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I’m just a fucking genius.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm thick as fuck, but t I'm an awesome shag.

How do we know that’s not a cunning double bluff before you produce your PhD in astrophysics on a meet?"

Is that what they call it?

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

Well I can manipulate ur minds if that counts am maniexual

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

A friend described me as such on our website, but we dropped it as most people didn't understand the term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just put Bicurious and leave it at that. Pretty much covers it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just put Bicurious and leave it at that. Pretty much covers it. "

I mean damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you all find a person sexually attractive (enough to have physical encounters with) regardless of looks/physicality just based on their intelligence?

Wow ... fair play!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you all find a person sexually attractive (enough to have physical encounters with) regardless of looks/physicality just based on their intelligence?

Wow ... fair play! "

Nah it’s just a preference, just sex keeps me hoping but connections outside of the bedroom make it better. Definetely times where it’s not needed though haha... For some that might be watching game of thrones or some ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you all find a person sexually attractive (enough to have physical encounters with) regardless of looks/physicality just based on their intelligence?

Wow ... fair play!

Nah it’s just a preference, just sex keeps me hoping but connections outside of the bedroom make it better. Definetely times where it’s not needed though haha... For some that might be watching game of thrones or some ish"

But that's basically what it means! You find intelligence sexual not appearances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you all find a person sexually attractive (enough to have physical encounters with) regardless of looks/physicality just based on their intelligence?

Wow ... fair play!

Nah it’s just a preference, just sex keeps me hoping but connections outside of the bedroom make it better. Definetely times where it’s not needed though haha... For some that might be watching game of thrones or some ish

But that's basically what it means! You find intelligence sexual not appearances "

Marilyn Monroe married Arthur Miller ....

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

It's always amusing when people who define themselves as sapiosexual seem to think it means that they are intelligent.

You don't have to be a great artist to appreciate fine art.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's always amusing when people who define themselves as sapiosexual seem to think it means that they are intelligent.

You don't have to be a great artist to appreciate fine art."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence is a turn on, absolutely, but I’m not going to jump into bed with anything just because they read books for fun. I don’t think people need to highlight if they’re clever/intelligent etc as this would come across in messages surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you all find a person sexually attractive (enough to have physical encounters with) regardless of looks/physicality just based on their intelligence?

Wow ... fair play! "

There has to be looks and intelligence in more or less equal amounts for me (and yes I know it's all subjective) which is why it's so difficult to find suitable people... But I have found a few gems so I continue to live in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you all find a person sexually attractive (enough to have physical encounters with) regardless of looks/physicality just based on their intelligence?

Wow ... fair play!

There has to be looks and intelligence in more or less equal amounts for me (and yes I know it's all subjective) which is why it's so difficult to find suitable people... But I have found a few gems so I continue to live in hope "

Same here tbh but that's not sapiosexual lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you all find a person sexually attractive (enough to have physical encounters with) regardless of looks/physicality just based on their intelligence?

Wow ... fair play!

There has to be looks and intelligence in more or less equal amounts for me (and yes I know it's all subjective) which is why it's so difficult to find suitable people... But I have found a few gems so I continue to live in hope

Same here tbh but that's not sapiosexual lol "

I'm not quite sure what sapiosexual is.... Clever and sexy??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you all find a person sexually attractive (enough to have physical encounters with) regardless of looks/physicality just based on their intelligence?

Wow ... fair play!

There has to be looks and intelligence in more or less equal amounts for me (and yes I know it's all subjective) which is why it's so difficult to find suitable people... But I have found a few gems so I continue to live in hope

Same here tbh but that's not sapiosexual lol

I'm not quite sure what sapiosexual is.... Clever and sexy?? "

Means “sexually attracted to highly intelligent people"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you all find a person sexually attractive (enough to have physical encounters with) regardless of looks/physicality just based on their intelligence?

Wow ... fair play!

There has to be looks and intelligence in more or less equal amounts for me (and yes I know it's all subjective) which is why it's so difficult to find suitable people... But I have found a few gems so I continue to live in hope

Same here tbh but that's not sapiosexual lol

I'm not quite sure what sapiosexual is.... Clever and sexy??

Means “sexually attracted to highly intelligent people" "

Ah yes that's me then... If I can add cultured into the mix too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you all find a person sexually attractive (enough to have physical encounters with) regardless of looks/physicality just based on their intelligence?

Wow ... fair play!

There has to be looks and intelligence in more or less equal amounts for me (and yes I know it's all subjective) which is why it's so difficult to find suitable people... But I have found a few gems so I continue to live in hope

Same here tbh but that's not sapiosexual lol

I'm not quite sure what sapiosexual is.... Clever and sexy??

Means “sexually attracted to highly intelligent people"

Ah yes that's me then... If I can add cultured into the mix too "

Do you just go on intelligence, nothing to do with looks? Find it fascinating tbh ... I love intelligence but on here there has to be a physical attraction too! Therefore I'm not a sapiophile but if I had to find a life partner then I always have been!

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

This term applied in fab has always left me pause for thought, for instance are we describing intelligence in broad terms or a singular point of reference?

A poster above stated she loved bouncing ideas off of a few people but wouldn't that be like seeking like? The joy in finding a kindred spirit who's thought processes mirror our own?

All in all i think it's either a misunderstood term or one open to so many interpretations it looses most of it's meaning in it's conveyance.

Homosexual.

Bisexual.

Poliamorous even are all essentially straight forward terms with limited grey areas but sapiosexual is just bloody ambiguous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This term applied in fab has always left me pause for thought, for instance are we describing intelligence in broad terms or a singular point of reference?

A poster above stated she loved bouncing ideas off of a few people but wouldn't that be like seeking like? The joy in finding a kindred spirit who's thought processes mirror our own?

"

That was me. Given me pause for thought. But their thought processes totally different to mine - so not really kindred spirits.

I know that there are some guys on here who are utterly stunningly beautiful physically - but cannot put two words together in a written conversation and for me it renders any sexual attraction null and void.

And those whose first message to me shows a skill with words I find incredibly stimulating. So yes I do class myself as sapiophile.

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By *wansfeetCouple
over a year ago

Guisborough

I used to consider myself intelligent, but these days I realise I’m as dumb as a shoe. I still find intelligence attractive in others though.

Kiki x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy off here once -described himself as polyamorous - in reality, he was just screwing around but thought it was ok cos his gf knew. Tosser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you all find a person sexually attractive (enough to have physical encounters with) regardless of looks/physicality just based on their intelligence?

Wow ... fair play!

There has to be looks and intelligence in more or less equal amounts for me (and yes I know it's all subjective) which is why it's so difficult to find suitable people... But I have found a few gems so I continue to live in hope

Same here tbh but that's not sapiosexual lol

I'm not quite sure what sapiosexual is.... Clever and sexy??

Means “sexually attracted to highly intelligent people"

Ah yes that's me then... If I can add cultured into the mix too

Do you just go on intelligence, nothing to do with looks? Find it fascinating tbh ... I love intelligence but on here there has to be a physical attraction too! Therefore I'm not a sapiophile but if I had to find a life partner then I always have been! "

Absolutely not - looks come first but intelligence is a very close second. If intelligence only then we're talking very good platonic friends. Have found both occasionally but it's rare!

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"This term applied in fab has always left me pause for thought, for instance are we describing intelligence in broad terms or a singular point of reference?

A poster above stated she loved bouncing ideas off of a few people but wouldn't that be like seeking like? The joy in finding a kindred spirit who's thought processes mirror our own?

That was me. Given me pause for thought. But their thought processes totally different to mine - so not really kindred spirits.

I know that there are some guys on here who are utterly stunningly beautiful physically - but cannot put two words together in a written conversation and for me it renders any sexual attraction null and void.

And those whose first message to me shows a skill with words I find incredibly stimulating. So yes I do class myself as sapiophile.

"

I completely agree with you as i am the same with women, the most beautiful physical being can be rendered ugly in a single sentence, but on the other hand a naive or dittzy personality can intrigue me as much. And there in lies my point, i think the term is so black and white very few people would actually fit into that box. I'm sure there are those that do but it is often used willy nilly

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Lex Luthor:

Some people can read War and Peace and come away thinking it's a simple adventure story. Others can read the ingredients on a chewing gum wrapper and unlock the secrets of the universe.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Question. Is Sapisexual a liking of intelligence or is it a liking of enjoying good company?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Category*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question. Is Sapisexual a liking of intelligence or is it a liking of enjoying good company?"

Means “sexually attracted to highly intelligent people" looks/physical attraction doesn't come into it!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Would you have sex with a tramp if he had a PHD?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Question. Is Sapisexual a liking of intelligence or is it a liking of enjoying good company?

Means “sexually attracted to highly intelligent people" looks/physical attraction doesn't come into it! "

And if you have an I.Q 60 you can be attracted to an I.Q of 73??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you all find a person sexually attractive (enough to have physical encounters with) regardless of looks/physicality just based on their intelligence?

Wow ... fair play!

Nah it’s just a preference, just sex keeps me hoping but connections outside of the bedroom make it better. Definetely times where it’s not needed though haha... For some that might be watching game of thrones or some ish

But that's basically what it means! You find intelligence sexual not appearances "

Yesssss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's always amusing when people who define themselves as sapiosexual seem to think it means that they are intelligent.

You don't have to be a great artist to appreciate fine art."

Very true there are different things and levels to intelligence. Emotional, Mental and spiritual intelligence. As well as just spending quality time ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Intelligence is a turn on, absolutely, but I’m not going to jump into bed with anything just because they read books for fun. I don’t think people need to highlight if they’re clever/intelligent etc as this would come across in messages surely?"

I hear you, I particularly don’t like know it alls. I do know however that the more connected/know about a person the more likely I am to comeback or cum harder. This is my experience however

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you have sex with a tramp if he had a PHD? "

I have.

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By *ED00Woman
over a year ago

South Devon... Torbaydos

I find the mind a huge turn on. It's not about talking dirty to me, it's about being descriptive. Being connected mentally with out ever having met is amazing. I'm my opinion lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you all find a person sexually attractive (enough to have physical encounters with) regardless of looks/physicality just based on their intelligence?

Wow ... fair play!

There has to be looks and intelligence in more or less equal amounts for me (and yes I know it's all subjective) which is why it's so difficult to find suitable people... But I have found a few gems so I continue to live in hope

Same here tbh but that's not sapiosexual lol

I'm not quite sure what sapiosexual is.... Clever and sexy??

Means “sexually attracted to highly intelligent people"

Ah yes that's me then... If I can add cultured into the mix too

Do you just go on intelligence, nothing to do with looks? Find it fascinating tbh ... I love intelligence but on here there has to be a physical attraction too! Therefore I'm not a sapiophile but if I had to find a life partner then I always have been! "

Physical attraction is first, but I need to know the engine is capable haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find the mind a huge turn on. It's not about talking dirty to me, it's about being descriptive. Being connected mentally with out ever having met is amazing. I'm my opinion lol "

Reading this was enough, someone understands

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Question. Is Sapisexual a liking of intelligence or is it a liking of enjoying good company?"

Good company is a factor yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This term applied in fab has always left me pause for thought, for instance are we describing intelligence in broad terms or a singular point of reference?

A poster above stated she loved bouncing ideas off of a few people but wouldn't that be like seeking like? The joy in finding a kindred spirit who's thought processes mirror our own?

That was me. Given me pause for thought. But their thought processes totally different to mine - so not really kindred spirits.

I know that there are some guys on here who are utterly stunningly beautiful physically - but cannot put two words together in a written conversation and for me it renders any sexual attraction null and void.

And those whose first message to me shows a skill with words I find incredibly stimulating. So yes I do class myself as sapiophile.

I completely agree with you as i am the same with women, the most beautiful physical being can be rendered ugly in a single sentence, but on the other hand a naive or dittzy personality can intrigue me as much. And there in lies my point, i think the term is so black and white very few people would actually fit into that box. I'm sure there are those that do but it is often used willy nilly "

All of this

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"It's always amusing when people who define themselves as sapiosexual seem to think it means that they are intelligent.

You don't have to be a great artist to appreciate fine art."

As the title of the post clearly shows !

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By *ngelfireWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I wouldn’t say I’m wholly sapiosexual as I needs intelligence, a sharp mind, and to have a sexual spark between us. The mind is definitely the most important erogenous zone for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So this really is an interesting thread for me, it's a term I've only come across since joining here and in a traditional sense I'm thick as two short planks... but I get the feeling the whole point of sapiosexual is open to interpretation, an unlimited number of sub categories if you will, for example someone a visually orientated sapiosexual would have their knees trembling at the way a man whispered in her ears exactly how hes going to remove that tight, sexy, leather corset and kiss his way up statting from her legs, covering every muscle slowly and passionately before undoing her laced panties with his teeth while staring into her eyes with an untameable lust. Am I on the right lines or completely barking mad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this really is an interesting thread for me, it's a term I've only come across since joining here and in a traditional sense I'm thick as two short planks... but I get the feeling the whole point of sapiosexual is open to interpretation, an unlimited number of sub categories if you will, for example someone a visually orientated sapiosexual would have their knees trembling at the way a man whispered in her ears exactly how hes going to remove that tight, sexy, leather corset and kiss his way up statting from her legs, covering every muscle slowly and passionately before undoing her laced panties with his teeth while staring into her eyes with an untameable lust. Am I on the right lines or completely barking mad?"

It's pretty simple ... it means that you find highly intelligent people sexually attractive regardless of their looks!

All the other stuff ie I like attractive intelligent guys are just preferences!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right, gotcha, okay yeah that's me trying to over complicate it lol

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