FabSwingers.com forum: Must be doin something wrong but don't know what

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive been on here a while now and hardly getting any replies never mind meets, and the ones that do reply when I try to make conversation just go quiet and don't bother messaging again. Really can't understand where I'm going wrong

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

"Ive been on here a while now and hardly getting any replies never mind meets, and the ones that do reply when I try to make conversation just go quiet and don't bother messaging again. Really can't understand where I'm going wrong

Try saying a bit more about yourself etc on your profile - hard to tell what goes wrong once you start chatting - but sinle women have a lot to choose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're a good looking guy who can accommodate so that goes in your favour. A smiley face pic might help! Lol. The first para of your profile might be off putting to some people but at least you're being honest. The rest of your profile could do with saying more about you. There have been some good threads on this with great advice so have a look. Good luck.

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

Some guys come to the site & seem to jit it off straight away, but that is not the norm. For most it is a matter perseverance & patience.

It takes time to get noticed. Go to socials and contribute on the forums. Don't worry about collecting friends. You can get verifications from those you meet at socials and friends will follow fr there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hand shake would be good lol chin up

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

currently it says u are only looking for ff couples...doesnt help

the rest of the advice is good...basically u are a single man looking for single women on a swinging site...the odds are against u ...if as u say you are interested in the scene as a whole, get more active on the site and get to socials.

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By *exy n up 4 itCouple
over a year ago

western isles

more personal information on profile (sounds too much like you are looking for a girlfriend), use a spelling and grammar tool on what you write, dont appear/ sound desperate or uncaring. Try to add some humour into your profile and chat but most of all get out there and get active, put the effort in and the rewards will come. Single guys are ten a penny on here so you need to make yourself stand above and be noticed. Best of luck...............M&M

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

In my oppinion, having 3 topics in 3 days asking the same thing isn't going to help your cause.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha your in the same boat as every other man on here get used to it! but a little advice dont moan about it on here they will eat you alive! lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Ha ha your in the same boat as every other man on here get used to it! but a little advice dont moan about it on here they will eat you alive! lol "

i know plenty of single men who get meets from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So do I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha your in the same boat as every other man on here get used to it! but a little advice dont moan about it on here they will eat you alive! lol

i know plenty of single men who get meets from here

lol yeah but some of us have standards! I agree it is very easy if your not fussy

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Ha ha your in the same boat as every other man on here get used to it! but a little advice dont moan about it on here they will eat you alive! lol

i know plenty of single men who get meets from here

lol yeah but some of us have standards! I agree it is very easy if your not fussy

Awww bless. Someone is having problems meeting so is blaming it on the women, instead of maybe looking at the only constant factor - himself!

Sorry us lowly ladies don't meet your exacting standards. I'm honoured to have been in the same hemisphere as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a fine line between being polite and saying hi and being perceived as boring with no imagination!!! ( been there) Its pot luck. Imagine you where in a bar and spotted a girl you fancy, what would you say to her?. Hi, how are you, or fancy a fuck!

happy hunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha your in the same boat as every other man on here get used to it! but a little advice dont moan about it on here they will eat you alive! lol

i know plenty of single men who get meets from here

lol yeah but some of us have standards! I agree it is very easy if your not fussy

Awww bless. Someone is having problems meeting so is blaming it on the women, instead of maybe looking at the only constant factor - himself!

Sorry us lowly ladies don't meet your exacting standards. I'm honoured to have been in the same hemisphere as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha your in the same boat as every other man on here get used to it! but a little advice dont moan about it on here they will eat you alive! lol

i know plenty of single men who get meets from here

lol yeah but some of us have standards! I agree it is very easy if your not fussy

Of course its easier if you're not fussy, there's more possibilities. That being said I have standards, ie, I won't sleep with unhygenic people, stupid people or people who I find dull or unnattractive. Yet I don't seem to find meeting a problem at all, apart from the spanner that my usual working hours chucks into the works!

I think Game4it was promoting the idea of a Roman Orgy recently. If anyone prefers the grapes they are being fed to be decidedly sour then it looks like we will have a rather substancial supply...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some guys come to the site & seem to jit it off straight away, but that is not the norm. For most it is a matter perseverance & patience.

It takes time to get noticed. Go to socials and contribute on the forums. Don't worry about collecting friends.

You can get verifications from those you meet at socials and friends will follow fr there"

.. some good advice (above)..

The other thing is, the ratio of guys to girls (any orientation) is about 9:1!!

I'm new to this too.. keep going..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha your in the same boat as every other man on here get used to it! but a little advice dont moan about it on here they will eat you alive! lol

i know plenty of single men who get meets from here

lol yeah but some of us have standards! I agree it is very easy if your not fussy

Awww bless. Someone is having problems meeting so is blaming it on the women, instead of maybe looking at the only constant factor - himself!

Sorry us lowly ladies don't meet your exacting standards. I'm honoured to have been in the same hemisphere as you.

ha ha why is it wrong to have standards? Do you not have any then? Poor girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha your in the same boat as every other man on here get used to it! but a little advice dont moan about it on here they will eat you alive! lol

i know plenty of single men who get meets from here

lol yeah but some of us have standards! I agree it is very easy if your not fussy

Awww bless. Someone is having problems meeting so is blaming it on the women, instead of maybe looking at the only constant factor - himself!

Sorry us lowly ladies don't meet your exacting standards. I'm honoured to have been in the same hemisphere as you.

ha ha why is it wrong to have standards? Do you not have any then? Poor girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha your in the same boat as every other man on here get used to it! but a little advice dont moan about it on here they will eat you alive! lol

i know plenty of single men who get meets from here

lol yeah but some of us have standards! I agree it is very easy if your not fussy

Awww bless. Someone is having problems meeting so is blaming it on the women, instead of maybe looking at the only constant factor - himself!

Sorry us lowly ladies don't meet your exacting standards. I'm honoured to have been in the same hemisphere as you.

ha ha why is it wrong to have standards? Do you not have any then? Poor girl"

I was going to see if the rest of the profile matched the bum in the pic but not sure I'll bother now

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Well if nothing else, at least you have learnt one valuable lesson. Never ask for advice like that in the forums lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some of the advice is spot in so thank you to those who has something constructive to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha your in the same boat as every other man on here get used to it! but a little advice dont moan about it on here they will eat you alive! lol

i know plenty of single men who get meets from here

lol yeah but some of us have standards! I agree it is very easy if your not fussy

Awww bless. Someone is having problems meeting so is blaming it on the women, instead of maybe looking at the only constant factor - himself!

Sorry us lowly ladies don't meet your exacting standards. I'm honoured to have been in the same hemisphere as you.

ha ha why is it wrong to have standards? Do you not have any then? Poor girl

I was going to see if the rest of the profile matched the bum in the pic but not sure I'll bother now

never mind

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"i know plenty of single men who get meets from here

lol yeah but some of us have standards! I agree it is very easy if your not fussy

Awww bless. Someone is having problems meeting so is blaming it on the women, instead of maybe looking at the only constant factor - himself!

Sorry us lowly ladies don't meet your exacting standards. I'm honoured to have been in the same hemisphere as you.

ha ha why is it wrong to have standards? Do you not have any then? Poor girl"

Why are you saying 'poor girl' as if having a full and active sex life is a problem? I might only bed Mensa members with 8" cocks and a six pack like Adonis and would still get more meets than you.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

first time i read the bracketed 'how do you know unless you try' i read it as a little desperate. only when i re read it a couple of times did i realise it meant about trying something new lol.

i dont know, fella, as has been said, your a decent loking lad. maybe thats just not enough. need mmore. makes you seem shallow? not a clue tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think u gotta persevere always be polite and make sure your spelling and grammar are correct.

95% of the women on here are arrogant & ignorant. Several examples on this thread for example.

BUT

So are 75% of the men are too.

Be humble and polite. Be friendly and funny (morecombe and wise NOT chubby brown).

U'll catch someone's eye soon. Patience is a virtue seldom present in humans.

Remember women are the same on here as they are in real life. 99% of the time- bitches.

** NB. Everything stated here about women- applies to me in the same measures. So no need for any of the women to jump down my throat.**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i know plenty of single men who get meets from here

lol yeah but some of us have standards! I agree it is very easy if your not fussy

Awww bless. Someone is having problems meeting so is blaming it on the women, instead of maybe looking at the only constant factor - himself!

Sorry us lowly ladies don't meet your exacting standards. I'm honoured to have been in the same hemisphere as you.

ha ha why is it wrong to have standards? Do you not have any then? Poor girl

Why are you saying 'poor girl' as if having a full and active sex life is a problem? I might only bed Mensa members with 8" cocks and a six pack like Adonis and would still get more meets than you."

Ha ha ha that made me smile, funny my cock is 8 inch and I do have a 6 pack...... good luck with your full and active sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ha ha ha that made me smile, funny my cock is 8 inch and I do have a 6 pack...... good luck with your full and active sex life.

I took the hit and looked at your profile so the ladies wouldn't have to. Were your photos taken before you slimmed down for your six-pack to shine through? :p

I suspect (hope) we'll find that a caustic attitude or arrogance will play against a man far more than a good body could ever redeem.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"i know plenty of single men who get meets from here

lol yeah but some of us have standards! I agree it is very easy if your not fussy

Awww bless. Someone is having problems meeting so is blaming it on the women, instead of maybe looking at the only constant factor - himself!

Sorry us lowly ladies don't meet your exacting standards. I'm honoured to have been in the same hemisphere as you.

ha ha why is it wrong to have standards? Do you not have any then? Poor girl

Why are you saying 'poor girl' as if having a full and active sex life is a problem? I might only bed Mensa members with 8" cocks and a six pack like Adonis and would still get more meets than you.

Ha ha ha that made me smile, funny my cock is 8 inch and I do have a 6 pack...... good luck with your full and active sex life.

word from the wise...slut shaming on a swinging site wins no friends...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Ha ha ha that made me smile, funny my cock is 8 inch and I do have a 6 pack...... good luck with your full and active sex life.

I took the hit and looked at your profile so the ladies wouldn't have to. Were your photos taken before you slimmed down for your six-pack to shine through? :p

I suspect (hope) we'll find that a caustic attitude or arrogance will play against a man far more than a good body could ever redeem."

shhhhh we need men like him to out themselves on the forums then we can block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i know plenty of single men who get meets from here

lol yeah but some of us have standards! I agree it is very easy if your not fussy

Awww bless. Someone is having problems meeting so is blaming it on the women, instead of maybe looking at the only constant factor - himself!

Sorry us lowly ladies don't meet your exacting standards. I'm honoured to have been in the same hemisphere as you.

ha ha why is it wrong to have standards? Do you not have any then? Poor girl

Why are you saying 'poor girl' as if having a full and active sex life is a problem? I might only bed Mensa members with 8" cocks and a six pack like Adonis and would still get more meets than you.

Ha ha ha that made me smile, funny my cock is 8 inch and I do have a 6 pack...... good luck with your full and active sex life.

word from the wise...slut shaming on a swinging site wins no friends...

lol slut shaming??? Think you will find iv not done any name calling if you read this post, or tried to shame anyone. makes me laugh how sensitive people are on fabs that they cant take a little banter...... funny thou as the women can dish out as much as they please???..... I wonder is it cause most the blokes on here are so desperate they feel they might mess up there chances if god forbid they disagree with a woman on the forums

ps im not moaning I find it quite amusing when you men and women get your nickers in a twist

...... will log back in later to read all the insults I get this afternoon ha ha have a good day everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ha ha ha that made me smile, funny my cock is 8 inch and I do have a 6 pack...... good luck with your full and active sex life.

I took the hit and looked at your profile so the ladies wouldn't have to. Were your photos taken before you slimmed down for your six-pack to shine through? :p

I suspect (hope) we'll find that a caustic attitude or arrogance will play against a man far more than a good body could ever redeem."

Ha ha good luck with the arse licking mate..... And your right that pic is crap dont show off my abs at all will put another one later cheers

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

The trip trap trot of hooves over the bridge...im out and suggest others follow my lead...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"The trip trap trot of hooves over the bridge...im out and suggest others follow my lead..."

It does depress me when it turns out people are only posting mean things on here for attention. It must be a lonely life to be THAT desperate for communication.

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