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By *owdoyoufancy OP   Man
over a year ago

spennymoor

Hi just a general question here I only every cum by penatration sex . I was married 20 plus years and she never made it happen new girl friend is trying and still nothing . yes profile is single I don’t play before I get condemned a little about myself I am cut which I know makes it harder . girlfriend says I won’t let it go I’ve tried for god knows how many years she does get me close by wanking me you men will understand any help

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Try fucking right to the point of almost cumming, then have her finish you by mouth, do it enough times to let your mind relax about happy ending blow jobs, good luck.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I had a meet with a couple where the husband couldn't cum from a BJ, and apparently always had to wank himself off to finish...

....his wife loved it when I unleashed a week's worth of cum into her mouth solely from her eagerly devouring me...

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By *reyyaMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I used to "struggle" to cum in my lady friends mouths...i put it down to me thinking it's wrong...anyhow I learned to relax more and allowed myself to come to the point of cumming...warning the first lady of the coming eruption...her mmmm and clamping her mouth over my cock...just allowed me to let go...and never had an issue since...although I don't put too much emphasis to have to cum during oral...its a great pleasure not to miss

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By *uriouscouple38Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

I cant cum from either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one gf has been able to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's down to how your subconscious mind deals with it. Sometimes it's best to discuss it with the partner you're with. I have cum after a bj a few times, but only after knowing the partner is perfectly fine with it. Same with being wanked off.

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By *un pair 2Couple
over a year ago

poole

One of my favs is reading sexy Taboo stories while getting a BJ always makes me cum hard x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi just a general question here I only every cum by penatration sex . I was married 20 plus years and she never made it happen new girl friend is trying and still nothing . yes profile is single I don’t play before I get condemned a little about myself I am cut which I know makes it harder . girlfriend says I won’t let it go I’ve tried for god knows how many years she does get me close by wanking me you men will understand any help "

Sounds like you ( and possibly your GF ) have a lot of stress and worry added to this situation. It definitely sounds like a lot of psychological pressure. I think you ( both ) need to learn to relax and not be so up in your head about it. Enjoy and get lost in the journey....and you might be surprised how it might just happen when it's not the plan.

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By *TkitkatWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I had a partner like this - truth his his initial experiences with sex and oral sex were with someone who clearly wasn't "ready" for it, hurt him when they gave him oral sex and put him off it. It did have a plus in that he was always happy to pleasure me with his mouth !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extreme teasing so naughty which takes you to the edge again and again. I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always struggled too. 2 deepthroat girls have changed that only in my late 30's. You gotta find the right mouth and a pussy to lick always helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't struggle to shoot, if someone has hold of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You obviously havent met me

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’ve only known one woman who could consistently bring me to orgasm by oral stimulation too. I love having my cock sucked, but rarely cum this way. Don’t know whether it is technique, or some kind of mental blockage for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lie on ur back. Tense ur legs then stretch ur arms out and place them under ur butt, palms downwards . Then tense ur arms and chest. Always works for me

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By *owdoyoufancy OP   Man
over a year ago

spennymoor


"You obviously havent met me "
like the invitation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also find it extremely hard to cum from oral or by hand. Only happened a couple of times ever. But normal penetration is fine but does take longer with anyone except the Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also find it extremely hard to cum from oral or by hand. Only happened a couple of times ever. But normal penetration is fine but does take longer with anyone except the Mrs. "

Show off! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just picked on this thread ….

Its not uncommon this , I am Bisexual and I can honestly say no man has made me cum with a BJ , yet a women will

Equally it is fairly common for a man to be able make female partner climax with his tounge more often than with penetration

JP

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By *eejayoMan
over a year ago

Redcar

You've yet to meet the right cocksucker that's all

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Hi just a general question here I only every cum by penatration sex . I was married 20 plus years and she never made it happen new girl friend is trying and still nothing . yes profile is single I don’t play before I get condemned a little about myself I am cut which I know makes it harder . girlfriend says I won’t let it go I’ve tried for god knows how many years she does get me close by wanking me you men will understand any help "

Maybe ask your girlfriend to suck you while you watch porn?

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By *owdoyoufancy OP   Man
over a year ago

spennymoor


"Hi just a general question here I only every cum by penatration sex . I was married 20 plus years and she never made it happen new girl friend is trying and still nothing . yes profile is single I don’t play before I get condemned a little about myself I am cut which I know makes it harder . girlfriend says I won’t let it go I’ve tried for god knows how many years she does get me close by wanking me you men will understand any help she hates porn and also did ex

Maybe ask your girlfriend to suck you while you watch porn?"

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By *owdoyoufancy OP   Man
over a year ago

spennymoor


"You've yet to meet the right cocksucker that's all "
another invitation and not to far away really but I’m not bi sorry

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By *owdoyoufancy OP   Man
over a year ago

spennymoor


"Just picked on this thread ….

Its not uncommon this , I am Bisexual and I can honestly say no man has made me cum with a BJ , yet a women will

Equally it is fairly common for a man to be able make female partner climax with his tounge more often than with penetrationdorsnt help me really

JP "

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By *owdoyoufancy OP   Man
over a year ago

spennymoor


"I also find it extremely hard to cum from oral or by hand. Only happened a couple of times ever. But normal penetration is fine but does take longer with anyone except the Mrs. "

See that is me but has to be penetration only I can shoot in or on her when I get to that point with my own help

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By *owdoyoufancy OP   Man
over a year ago

spennymoor


"Extreme teasing so naughty which takes you to the edge again and again. I love it "

If I was ever lucky enough to get to meet but really doubt that would happen but I can dream

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

all in ya head pardon the pun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never cum from having a blowjob either. I think it's common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never cum from having a blowjob either. I think it's common. "

I did for the first time the other day. The girl has skillz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not try building it up during the day.

Send each other some naughty messages, get her to send you some naughty pics maybe even a short phone call where she can tell you all the naughty things she is going to do you.

By the time you are together you'll be feeling so horny you'll explode (so will she probably)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had never come from a blowjob ,one gf said she would do it and spent 2 hours down there once .a girl off here finally managed it in the front of my car..still the only time !

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By *anderer4youMan
over a year ago

knutsford

I struggle to finish from a blow job but can do it,I think it is because the first time she went ugh when she tasted it

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By *icegentglosMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Similar to many. But I think it’s to do with ladies not stimulating a man as a man would. This can only be changed by telling the giver what’s good, what’s not and what you really like done.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I have never cum from having a blowjob either. I think it's common.

I did for the first time the other day. The girl has skillz "

It’s interesting to note that the self-professed ‘blowjob queens’ rarely comment on this type of thread

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I have never cum from having a blowjob either. I think it's common.

I did for the first time the other day. The girl has skillz

It’s interesting to note that the self-professed ‘blowjob queens’ rarely comment on this type of thread "

Maybe it's because they see them for what they are?

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By *parxyndpetalCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I have never cum from a blow job either, RIP oral cum

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By *owdoyoufancy OP   Man
over a year ago

spennymoor


"I have never cum from a blow job either, RIP oral cum "

So does your other half still try or has she given up so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi just a general question here I only every cum by penatration sex . I was married 20 plus years and she never made it happen new girl friend is trying and still nothing . yes profile is single I don’t play before I get condemned a little about myself I am cut which I know makes it harder . girlfriend says I won’t let it go I’ve tried for god knows how many years she does get me close by wanking me you men will understand any help

Sounds like you ( and possibly your GF ) have a lot of stress and worry added to this situation. It definitely sounds like a lot of psychological pressure. I think you ( both ) need to learn to relax and not be so up in your head about it. Enjoy and get lost in the journey....and you might be surprised how it might just happen when it's not the plan."

Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never cum from having a blowjob either. I think it's common.

I did for the first time the other day. The girl has skillz

It’s interesting to note that the self-professed ‘blowjob queens’ rarely comment on this type of thread "

Not a blow job queen but I do love a challenge!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go and try a tantric massage.

Once your mind let’s go of it’s control, your cock will respond of its own accord.

It’s an amazing way to reboot your sexual feelings and reactions.

Just do your research and find someone trustworthy.

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By *owdoyoufancy OP   Man
over a year ago

spennymoor


"I have never cum from having a blowjob either. I think it's common.

I did for the first time the other day. The girl has skillz

It’s interesting to note that the self-professed ‘blowjob queens’ rarely comment on this type of thread

Thanks for the invite but a good few miles between us

Not a blow job queen but I do love a challenge!!

"

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Er, yeah, me neither.... anyone care to try their luck..?!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I have never cum from having a blowjob either. I think it's common.

I did for the first time the other day. The girl has skillz

It’s interesting to note that the self-professed ‘blowjob queens’ rarely comment on this type of thread

Not a blow job queen but I do love a challenge!!

"

Next time I'm in South London.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never cum from having a blowjob either. I think it's common.

I did for the first time the other day. The girl has skillz

It’s interesting to note that the self-professed ‘blowjob queens’ rarely comment on this type of thread

Not a blow job queen but I do love a challenge!!

Next time I'm in South London......."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never cum from having a blowjob either. I think it's common.

I did for the first time the other day. The girl has skillz

It’s interesting to note that the self-professed ‘blowjob queens’ rarely comment on this type of thread

Thanks for the invite but a good few miles between us

Not a blow job queen but I do love a challenge!!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to have this issue but what I find helps me is to give the girl a lick out when in 69 position as it turns me on to lick pussy and found this makes me cum easier.

Or once out the blue this girl put her thumb where it shouldn't go when in the 69 position and she had me comeing in no time. Try something different, or cock suck out side makes me cum dew to the fought of being cought, try something that stimulates you little more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something that has worked in the past was to have myself stand up and the gf on her knees, she used to suck hard as she was able as I would hold or pull her hair and face fuck her calling her all sorts which turned me on to the point where I would cum,, I do struggle to cum from a bg but when I do I love it as find it's such a strong orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the girls technique too ... i cannot cum from a BJ unless the lady is particularly good at it.

She needs more practice I feel ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggled with it also then my ex changed her method. Instead of a pornstar blow job she started sucking and sucking and sucking without releasing the pressure the resulting explosion in her mouth had my legs shacking and her wanting more and more... exquisite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never cum from having a blowjob either. I think it's common.

I did for the first time the other day. The girl has skillz

It’s interesting to note that the self-professed ‘blowjob queens’ rarely comment on this type of thread "
she doesn't need to blow her own trumpet. Just mine

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull

I'm seeing 2 married women purely for sex. One of them has never had a problem making me cum from a bj. The other, it's only happened recently after we've been meeting for over 10 years. We were both so surprised she nearly drowned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this problem too in my 10+ years of being sexually after....I've had a long term partner, short term relationship, couple of casual FWB type situations but none have been able to!

The girl I was last with who tried was amazing, and I was convinced with more time together she probably would have cracked it!

Good too see so many others talk openly about it though...loving all the advice too! Have to try some out next opportunity I get!

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By *ants Horse Hung CockMan
over a year ago

co durham

Ive never cum from a bj either but really want to

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Used to have this issue but what I find helps me is to give the girl a lick out when in 69 position as it turns me on to lick pussy and found this makes me cum easier.

Or once out the blue this girl put her thumb where it shouldn't go when in the 69 position and she had me comeing in no time. Try something different, or cock suck out side makes me cum dew to the fought of being cought, try something that stimulates you little more"
I must know where her thumb wasnt supposed to go???? Hitch hiking? Lol

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By *uan KnightMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Thank you OP. I thought I was alone with this, until reading your post. In all my years on this earth I have NEVER known this subject to come up.

Rarely have I come when receiving a blowjob. Maybe two partners ever have made it happen for me, and even then it took a while.

I found being open with partners helps, though I still find it embarrassing to talk about, so haven’t admitted it to many.

It’s very easy, I think, to believe that everyone else is “good at sex” (and yes, I do get how crass that statement is) whilst harbouring one’s own insecurities.

It’s made me feel very awkward at times, and I worry the giver may feel offended if they don’t bring me off.

I can see how it could be a psychological issue, but I’m not necessarily convinced by that, for me anyway. The sensations from a mouth are quite different that from a pussy, teeth being an obvious factor!

If any ladies do want to admit me to their clinical trials however, I guess I could be persuaded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d not ever cum from a bj until

I met my FB she was first to

Deep throat me and boy did I cum yet kept on pumping best orgasm ever including penetration!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to have this issue but what I find helps me is to give the girl a lick out when in 69 position as it turns me on to lick pussy and found this makes me cum easier.

Or once out the blue this girl put her thumb where it shouldn't go when in the 69 position and she had me comeing in no time. Try something different, or cock suck out side makes me cum dew to the fought of being cought, try something that stimulates you little more I must know where her thumb wasnt supposed to go???? Hitch hiking? Lol "
. Lol end of the earth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi just a general question here I only every cum by penatration sex . I was married 20 plus years and she never made it happen new girl friend is trying and still nothing . yes profile is single I don’t play before I get condemned a little about myself I am cut which I know makes it harder . girlfriend says I won’t let it go I’ve tried for god knows how many years she does get me close by wanking me you men will understand any help "

I have the same problem can more or less cum on demand when is penetration but oral apart from 14yrs ago never happens it's like the worst case of edging ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try fucking right to the point of almost cumming, then have her finish you by mouth, do it enough times to let your mind relax about happy ending blow jobs, good luck. "

That's sounds like a plan

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By *owdoyoufancy OP   Man
over a year ago

spennymoor

It good to know that I’m not the only one thanks for the replies

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By *ent MadamWoman
over a year ago

Kent

The majority of woman that I’ve spoken to ,say they do it to please their partner but don’t really enjoy the actual deed.I was taught many years ago on the art of pleasuring a man ,it’s something that I get a lot of pleasure from.in turn the man is turned on and can allow himself the pleasure of climaxing .This has nothing to do with ,trying to wank a cock hard .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet I could change that for anyone that’s ever struggled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm cut and it's always taken me ages to cum, hours at time's, the gf has been trying to get me to cum from oral and it just doesn't happen

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By *owdoyoufancy OP   Man
over a year ago

spennymoor


"The majority of woman that I’ve spoken to ,say they do it to please their partner but don’t really enjoy the actual deed.I was taught many years ago on the art of pleasuring a man ,it’s something that I get a lot of pleasure from.in turn the man is turned on and can allow himself the pleasure of climaxing .This has nothing to do with ,trying to wank a cock hard . "

I would like for you to try your skill not a lot of miles between us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 55 ..the only problem I have from cumimg from a blow job is..if I have been having regular sex or wanking a lot..then it's very difficult to cum from being sucked off.. if I have left my cock alone by no sex or wanking for 3 or 4 days then I have no problem cuming being sucked off..I put it down purely to my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of woman that I’ve spoken to ,say they do it to please their partner but don’t really enjoy the actual deed.I was taught many years ago on the art of pleasuring a man ,it’s something that I get a lot of pleasure from.in turn the man is turned on and can allow himself the pleasure of climaxing .This has nothing to do with ,trying to wank a cock hard . "

Whilst I definatley enjoy giving pleasure I also genuinely love sucking cock and will do so just for my own benefit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of woman that I’ve spoken to ,say they do it to please their partner but don’t really enjoy the actual deed.I was taught many years ago on the art of pleasuring a man ,it’s something that I get a lot of pleasure from.in turn the man is turned on and can allow himself the pleasure of climaxing .This has nothing to do with ,trying to wank a cock hard .

Whilst I definatley enjoy giving pleasure I also genuinely love sucking cock and will do so just for my own benefit.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I'm 55 ..the only problem I have from cumimg from a blow job is..if I have been having regular sex or wanking a lot..then it's very difficult to cum from being sucked off.. if I have left my cock alone by no sex or wanking for 3 or 4 days then I have no problem cuming being sucked off..I put it down purely to my age."

The trouble with doing a lot of wanking is; your hand knows what you like

I don't think your age has that much effect; either you can get hard, or you can't.

The majority of women just think a cock will spring to attention with the click of the fingers, and a guy will cum in no time at all, with the barest of effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 55 ..the only problem I have from cumimg from a blow job is..if I have been having regular sex or wanking a lot..then it's very difficult to cum from being sucked off.. if I have left my cock alone by no sex or wanking for 3 or 4 days then I have no problem cuming being sucked off..I put it down purely to my age.

The trouble with doing a lot of wanking is; your hand knows what you like

I don't think your age has that much effect; either you can get hard, or you can't.

The majority of women just think a cock will spring to attention with the click of the fingers, and a guy will cum in no time at all, with the barest of effort "

No problem getting hard..it's just my bellend is more sensitive if left a loan for a few days..meaning I can cum from a blow job...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Extreme teasing so naughty which takes you to the edge again and again. I love it "

A method that surely no man can truly handle

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By *ithardscotMan
over a year ago

Kelty

I've never managed either, however I can easily wank myself off. Like you I have been close (once) from a bj (thanks "Maggie").

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

C is circumcised and it makes it more difficult for him to cum from a blow job or hand job. Lube is most definitely required with a hand job... As for blow jobs it's hit and miss whether I can make him cum or not!! A 69 tends to help or if it's forceful and he's dominating me. And if all else fails a finger in the bum tend to help hehe

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By *-and-mCouple
over a year ago

Carlisle

Never had any problem cumming from either oral or hand job, and I cum alot with some force! Once my ex-gf was wanking and sucking me off on bed and my cum hit the ceiling, she was pretty amazed hehe! Last guy (cute french lad on holiday) that wanked and sucked me had a similar experience he couldn’t believe the amount of cum from my little cock! Pit a smile on his face!!

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By *rush.on.uMan
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Im the same too, bj and hand job is amazing but i cant seem to shoot unless i help by stroking myself to near completion and then letting them finish me off. Would love to take up the multiple offers i have from guys wanting to suck me off, but for this very reason i always decline sadly ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi just a general question here I only every cum by penatration sex . I was married 20 plus years and she never made it happen new girl friend is trying and still nothing . yes profile is single I don’t play before I get condemned a little about myself I am cut which I know makes it harder . girlfriend says I won’t let it go I’ve tried for god knows how many years she does get me close by wanking me you men will understand any help "

Completely understand and its the exact same for me. Ive had lots of girlfriends, but nobody has ever managed to make me cum via blowjobs or their hands yet I cum very easily myself and in penetration, and able to control when very easily, but just not met any women that can do it for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 55 ..the only problem I have from cumimg from a blow job is..if I have been having regular sex or wanking a lot..then it's very difficult to cum from being sucked off.. if I have left my cock alone by no sex or wanking for 3 or 4 days then I have no problem cuming being sucked off..I put it down purely to my age.

The trouble with doing a lot of wanking is; your hand knows what you like

I don't think your age has that much effect; either you can get hard, or you can't.

The majority of women just think a cock will spring to attention with the click of the fingers, and a guy will cum in no time at all, with the barest of effort "

Agree.. So many women just think its a simple case of sucking and wanking away.. its so much more delicate than that yet for years is us guys that get labelled as neanderthals because we can find a womans clit.. Pmsl.

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By *upidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

A very special lady on here did an amazing job last time we met.... Wife knows that it's never happened with her before & knows what this lady did. I hope it happens again soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do just have to find the right person xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I'm 55 ..the only problem I have from cumimg from a blow job is..if I have been having regular sex or wanking a lot..then it's very difficult to cum from being sucked off.. if I have left my cock alone by no sex or wanking for 3 or 4 days then I have no problem cuming being sucked off..I put it down purely to my age.

The trouble with doing a lot of wanking is; your hand knows what you like

I don't think your age has that much effect; either you can get hard, or you can't.

The majority of women just think a cock will spring to attention with the click of the fingers, and a guy will cum in no time at all, with the barest of effort

Agree.. So many women just think its a simple case of sucking and wanking away.. its so much more delicate than that yet for years is us guys that get labelled as neanderthals because we can find a womans clit.. Pmsl. "

In my experience, most of them give up because they’ve got tired, or bored, or, in many cases, they’ve tasted precum and that’s as far as they’re prepared to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 55 ..the only problem I have from cumimg from a blow job is..if I have been having regular sex or wanking a lot..then it's very difficult to cum from being sucked off.. if I have left my cock alone by no sex or wanking for 3 or 4 days then I have no problem cuming being sucked off..I put it down purely to my age.

The trouble with doing a lot of wanking is; your hand knows what you like

I don't think your age has that much effect; either you can get hard, or you can't.

The majority of women just think a cock will spring to attention with the click of the fingers, and a guy will cum in no time at all, with the barest of effort

Agree.. So many women just think its a simple case of sucking and wanking away.. its so much more delicate than that yet for years is us guys that get labelled as neanderthals because we can find a womans clit.. Pmsl.

In my experience, most of them give up because they’ve got tired, or bored, or, in many cases, they’ve tasted precum and that’s as far as they’re prepared to go "

Perhaps a little more gratitude and a little less entitlement would make it a more fulfilling experience for them?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I'm 55 ..the only problem I have from cumimg from a blow job is..if I have been having regular sex or wanking a lot..then it's very difficult to cum from being sucked off.. if I have left my cock alone by no sex or wanking for 3 or 4 days then I have no problem cuming being sucked off..I put it down purely to my age.

The trouble with doing a lot of wanking is; your hand knows what you like

I don't think your age has that much effect; either you can get hard, or you can't.

The majority of women just think a cock will spring to attention with the click of the fingers, and a guy will cum in no time at all, with the barest of effort

Agree.. So many women just think its a simple case of sucking and wanking away.. its so much more delicate than that yet for years is us guys that get labelled as neanderthals because we can find a womans clit.. Pmsl.

In my experience, most of them give up because they’ve got tired, or bored, or, in many cases, they’ve tasted precum and that’s as far as they’re prepared to go

Perhaps a little more gratitude and a little less entitlement would make it a more fulfilling experience for them?"

Who knows?

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"Never had any problem cumming from either oral or hand job, and I cum alot with some force! Once my ex-gf was wanking and sucking me off on bed and my cum hit the ceiling, she was pretty amazed hehe!"

During a late night/early hours meet many years ago, the woman I was visiting was giving me a great BJ, and on sensing I was about to cum, pulled away at the very last moment...

....I came hard and fast, and the first spurt landed square between her eyes - not her actual face, but on her photo halfway up the wall directly above the headboard...

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By *ownhamguyMan
over a year ago

Battle

Personally I don't find it easy to cum from a bj

I think it's because I prefer I wet pussy ot tight arsehole

Just saying...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it is a mind over matter thing, but my fella is the same i get him close but not close enough and he has only been able to once with one woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of women like to think its all in the guys head and if he doesn't cum is somehow due to him thinking about another woman or something but if he just has a 20 second wank he'll cum.. A lot of it is psychological but ultimately it's the correct physical stimulation that gets you over the edge.. Like most guys I've never met a woman with that degree of delicate knowledge. Seems is quite rare. Hoped maybe on here that would be different..

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By *riage12Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I struggle to orgasm from a blowjob. Only ever done it once and that was when I was first sexually active.

I think it’s a psychological issue with me as I enjoy the BJ and at times get very close but then my mind will wander and I’ll think about the stupidest things which annoys me then I’m no longer turned on until I can snap back to what’s going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is partly down to having the right person suck you... someone that enjoys sucking cock and has good technique. Yes, psychological issues may hinder cumming from oral too.

Personally I love sucking cock! Much prefer it to giving a hand job. Love deep throating (even gagging) and have never had any complaints.

And yes, I always swallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot to say... I also love a challenge!!! ( any local guys??!)

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By *elshbicouple2015Couple
over a year ago

Welshpool

My wife, previous partners and most of the ladies (couples or singles) on here have never made me cum from a hand job or a blow job, god knows I have enjoyed them trying - but never ever have I cum from them trying there best.

A close experience (fondest memory of swinging) was a couple where the chap was fucking my wife doggy while my wife was sucking my cock, I came lose that day, but it never happened.

Until....

However - we meet a bbw lady on here from Telford (forget her name) and she made me cum within five minutes, it was that quick and a heavy load that she did not get much warning and swallowed the lot - boy she was good!!!

She was also the only lady to make my wife orgasm and squirt.

But, we can't find her, if she per chance reads this thread, please get in touch - we both miss you.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I think it is partly down to having the right person suck you... someone that enjoys sucking cock and has good technique. Yes, psychological issues may hinder cumming from oral too.

Personally I love sucking cock! Much prefer it to giving a hand job. Love deep throating (even gagging) and have never had any complaints.

And yes, I always swallow "

Sighs.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me neither now that I think about it. That's quite sad

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Me neither now that I think about it. That's quite sad "

Don't worry mate; you're among friends

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By *hatsaboutMan
over a year ago

hemelhempstead


"Hi just a general question here I only every cum by penatration sex . I was married 20 plus years and she never made it happen new girl friend is trying and still nothing . yes profile is single I don’t play before I get condemned a little about myself I am cut which I know makes it harder . girlfriend says I won’t let it go I’ve tried for god knows how many years she does get me close by wanking me you men will understand any help "

I suffer from this too and am also circumcised but I put it down to subconsciously feeling it’s bad to cum in a woman’s mouth after seeing a female comedian joke about how bad it was.

I can cum from a bj if I get close enough through penetration first.

However I have only found one woman who could wank me to orgasm and I think that’s a technique this as a lot can’t get to grips (no pun intended) with a circumcised cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you to every one for being so honest I thought it was just me. It seams its more common than people let in.

Thank you for the tips will try them

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By *dx69Man
over a year ago

London


"One of my favs is reading sexy Taboo stories while getting a BJ always makes me cum hard x"

Mmm taboo

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By *ave 42Man
over a year ago

pontefract

Never found a woman yet who can make me cum by having just oral sex

even though they have all said they give the best oral ever or suck like a dyson

But still it’s never happened

Maybe one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never found a woman yet who can make me cum by having just oral sex

even though they have all said they give the best oral ever or suck like a dyson

But still it’s never happened

Maybe one day "

Maybe even you least expect it x I'm the same with orgasm from oral. I have to be really relaxed and not over think everything lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never cum from having a blowjob either. I think it's common. "

Me either but any lady willing to prove me wrong.....step forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once met someone for a suck and go. Afterwards he told me that was the first time he'd ever cum from being sucked. I think its about your mental state x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once met someone for a suck and go. Afterwards he told me that was the first time he'd ever cum from being sucked. I think its about your mental state x"

I agree, self consciousness, not being able to let go and prehaps anxiety about the expectations.

I'm the same with someone going down on me, even if it's really good I often just can't let go.

It's really frustrating.

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By *ave 42Man
over a year ago

pontefract


"Never found a woman yet who can make me cum by having just oral sex

even though they have all said they give the best oral ever or suck like a dyson

But still it’s never happened

Maybe one day

Maybe even you least expect it x I'm the same with orgasm from oral. I have to be really relaxed and not over think everything lol"

Even when I’m totally relaxed and enjoying the oral I don’t even get to the point of wanting to cum no matter how good the oral is

Suppose it will happen at some point but I’m not holding out much hope x

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By *pandjMan
over a year ago

Sparkford

For me blowjobs are mostly “meh” and I don’t really feel anything or enjoy it.

There’s been three women in my life that have the right technique where I struggle to hold back! All of them from fab!

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By *owdoyoufancy OP   Man
over a year ago

spennymoor

Thanks everyone it nice to know that I’m not the only one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are pretty much in the majority buddy. If a partner wants to such my cock im all for it but it's not really for my pleasure, happy to go without because nothing really happens. In fact I scroll through all the cock sucking if im watching.. :-/ lol. On the other hand giving oral is a delight!!

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By *ice n NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Hi,

The wife can make me cum by mouth and a wank, but it’s hard she really has to work at it. Lol. When we play I rarely cum, and we can play for literally hours and hours, when me and the wife play sometimes I can’t hold myself. It’s different when your with your partner and when you play with stranger. I’m don’t have to cum to have fun, I love giving and making sure who I’m with is enjoying herself.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Thank you OP. I thought I was alone with this, until reading your post. In all my years on this earth I have NEVER known this subject to come up.

"

You don't read the forums then. This old chestnut gets tried about once a month

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"

Perhaps a little more gratitude and a little less entitlement would make it a more fulfilling experience for them?"

Less entitlement yes, but gratitude, really?

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By *n_thy_kneesMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

I HAD this issue for years. Their were 2 reasons why I couldn't: Psychological and physical. Firstly, if a woman isn't massively into BJs and is doing it to 'please' me I don't get into it. If I see she really enjoys it as if I'm almost not there and it's 'her cock' for her pleasure, then it's game on. Secondly, going at it like harder/faster = make him cum...it doesn't. Even holding my hard, throbbing cock by the base and admiring it with a smile, or gently rubbing it against her cheek will get my pre-cummy juicy flowing, rather than 'bobbing for apples' or - even worse- wanking it like someone trying to sand a stalactite with 180 grit sandpaper. OUCH!

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By *ambsLad2Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

I've never orgasmed through oral sex, from either sex. I can count the number of times I've been successfully wanked off on the fingers of one hand. Plenty of people have tried, but for some reason it rarely happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add me to the list , I've never been able to cum from a blow job , I'm so happy I'm not the only one , when I suck someone off and they cum in seconds I get a little bit jealous of what it must feel like to be able to do it , it's in our minds something is blocking it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I HAD this issue for years. Their were 2 reasons why I couldn't: Psychological and physical. Firstly, if a woman isn't massively into BJs and is doing it to 'please' me I don't get into it. If I see she really enjoys it as if I'm almost not there and it's 'her cock' for her pleasure, then it's game on. Secondly, going at it like harder/faster = make him cum...it doesn't. Even holding my hard, throbbing cock by the base and admiring it with a smile, or gently rubbing it against her cheek will get my pre-cummy juicy flowing, rather than 'bobbing for apples' or - even worse- wanking it like someone trying to sand a stalactite with 180 grit sandpaper. OUCH! "

Agree completely.

Hope the ladies are reading this! Lol

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

I studied this topic as part of my Tantra training. It's "all in your head", but I say that in a very constructive way. There is often a fairly common reason for this, but I won't invade your privacy by discussing it here. Try googling all the various writers on the subject, starting at Freud, and Wilhelm Reich. Once you work out why your brain prevents you from coming, it might free your body to feel the pleasure.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Love someone to try on me.......!!! Doubt I would "cum"....!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good slow soapy hand job.

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By *arkhorse66Man
over a year ago

bristol


"Forgot to say... I also love a challenge!!! ( any local guys??!) "

Can always travel!

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By *owdoyoufancy OP   Man
over a year ago

spennymoor


"Hi,

The wife can make me cum by mouth and a wank, but it’s hard she really has to work at it. Lol. When we play I rarely cum, and we can play for literally hours and hours, when me and the wife play sometimes I can’t hold myself. It’s different when your with your partner and when you play with stranger. I’m don’t have to cum to have fun, I love giving and making sure who I’m with is enjoying herself. "

I totally understand but played around before marriage then that ended a played about a lot I did tell them they all thought I was just saying it definitely never happened I got close but obviously not close enough my g/f now has tried numerous times (I’m losing out cause she says what the point I can’t make you ) she’s definitely not selfish in the bedroom department I’m 50 next week couple of weeks and lived with this since a very long time

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By *owdoyoufancy OP   Man
over a year ago

spennymoor

MUST ALSO SAY DIDNT DO THIS THREAD FOR INVITES TO TRY I do appreciate the offers but all declined

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By *owdoyoufancy OP   Man
over a year ago

spennymoor


"Thank you OP. I thought I was alone with this, until reading your post. In all my years on this earth I have NEVER known this subject to come up.

You don't read the forums then. This old chestnut gets tried about once a month "

Sorry but I’ve never seen it before hope I wasn’t jumping in on anybody else thread if i have I really do apologise

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By *owdoyoufancy OP   Man
over a year ago

spennymoor


"I studied this topic as part of my Tantra training. It's "all in your head", but I say that in a very constructive way. There is often a fairly common reason for this, but I won't invade your privacy by discussing it here. Try googling all the various writers on the subject, starting at Freud, and Wilhelm Reich. Once you work out why your brain prevents you from coming, it might free your body to feel the pleasure. "

Invade my privacy by pm I’m very interested thank you

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