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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys and girls

I must be doing something wrong, I've been on this site for 5 months and nothing???

Help!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not unusual I'm afraid.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Try and spice your profile up a bit say what you’re looking for and what you can offer also add some variety to your pictures 3 pictures of your cock would be a turn off to most people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you realise this is a web for swingers... well show yourself go to the club or attend organised socials. If not for you then delete your profile and join something like POF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s people who’ve been on here longer than that & still haven’t obtained a meet!

You have to understand that there are far more men than women on here, so it might take a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Car fun is unlikely to attract anyone in all honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my first meet on the site after 6 months. Some people take 1 year, some people take 1 week.

The time shouldn't be the definition of your experience with the site.

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By *robinsonMan
over a year ago

Alton

Hey OP don't stress about it. The best thing you can do is to take a step back, evaluate your profile and the messages your sending and see what can be improved. It's a bit of trial and error involved so try a few different things and see what works. Honestly though don't panic as it won't help you to see the situation clearly

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Your porfile is dreadful good luck.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I must be doing something wrong, I've been on this site for 5 months and nothing??? "

Hello OP.

You will have to spill the beans about what you are doing if you expect people to advise you where you might be going wrong.

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By *iger PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Cloud 9

Get out and go and meet people at clubs and parties, you will get to meet people and get verifications which will help your profile x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must be doing something wrong, I've been on this site for 5 months and nothing???

Hello OP.

You will have to spill the beans about what you are doing if you expect people to advise you where you might be going wrong.7"

What is OP?

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By *inkyko89Woman
over a year ago

Dundalk

Original Poster ie. You

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Here's something a lady posted... https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/879358

And another useful one from a single male...

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538.

You'd do well to read these, there's also advice on my profile for newbies and people who aren't getting meets should you wish to use it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here's something a lady posted... https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/879358

And another useful one from a single male...

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538.

You'd do well to read these, there's also advice on my profile for newbies and people who aren't getting meets should you wish to use it. "

Thank you for this, I'll have to sit there and sort it all out....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I have the same issue I’ve had two separate meets and got good veris but get ignored for the most part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most single men don't get a meet until they've been here at least six months. There are, of course, some exceptions. Some fair better, others less so.

Is your profile the absolute best that it can be?

You currently have six pics, of which half are of your cock.

Many men fall into the trap of believing that the ladies want to see such images and while there are a few that do, tha majority don't

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By *r JungleMan
over a year ago

West Bromich

Guys, this is a swinging site not a sex site. Go to a couple of clubs but don't go expecting sex. Just have a laugh and a social with like minded people and things will go from there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I will meet smokers I don't smoke so wouldn't want to meet you to smoke with u

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Whilst I will meet smokers I don't smoke so wouldn't want to meet you to smoke with u"

I don't its that kind of legal smoke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's easy to meet on here. You just have to look like a model, be able to travel and have an above average size pecker. In addition it helps if you can discuss Brexit with an air of 'you've listened to radio 4' at least twice in your life. Also shave the Bush as it's kryptonite on here.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

.

Lots of men who don't look anything like a model get meets everyday, they have learnt the fab secret.

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By *inkysubmissive84Woman
over a year ago

Telford

Your profile reads like you are trying to find a girlfriend. This is definitely the wrong place for that, I’m not sure many women on here are looking for a boyfriend

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Op,

This line 'I've got a heart of gold but once the trust is broken there's no going back' comes across as too negative. You make it sound like your struggling to get over a break up, and nobody wants to meet with your baggage before you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good things come to those who wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys and girls

I must be doing something wrong, I've been on this site for 5 months and nothing???

Help!!

"

What did you expect to happen, OP?

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