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"And what is in it for her?" just a fun day sharing my first club experience together | |||
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"Can’t you go on your own "never been so someone who's been before and can show me ropes and generally have fun together | |||
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"Hi everyone I'm mike I'm seeking a female playmate to attend eurekas with me one day soon must be daytime only during work hours as I'm not single. I've never been to a club and have heard nothing but good things about eurekas so cmon ladies drop me a message and let's exchange pics " Good luck  | |||
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"You usually get a tour and a talk when your a newbie ... and an explanation of what’s acceptable behavior etc .... well you do at the club I go to so you don’t need anyone to hold your hand.... "well if I'm unsuccessful I'll have to just grow a pair and be a big boy and go alone lol | |||
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"Hi everyone I'm mike I'm seeking a female playmate to attend eurekas with me one day soon must be daytime only during work hours as I'm not single. I've never been to a club and have heard nothing but good things about eurekas so cmon ladies drop me a message and let's exchange pics Good luck "cheers mate | |||
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"You usually get a tour and a talk when your a newbie ... and an explanation of what’s acceptable behavior etc .... well you do at the club I go to so you don’t need anyone to hold your hand.... well if I'm unsuccessful I'll have to just grow a pair and be a big boy and go alone lol"You won’t find a woman to help you. Too clicky with their club friends to help out any strangers lol | |||
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"You usually get a tour and a talk when your a newbie ... and an explanation of what’s acceptable behavior etc .... well you do at the club I go to so you don’t need anyone to hold your hand.... well if I'm unsuccessful I'll have to just grow a pair and be a big boy and go alone lol
You won’t find a woman to help you. Too clicky with their club friends to help out any strangers lol "Really?!? OP, Eurekas is a lovely club, the owners & staff are brilliant, you'll be made to feel welcome, given a tour, etiquette explained. It's predominantly naturist during the day, with areas play is allowed. I regularly go alone, I made a great bunch of friends there last year, we will happily talk to anyone and everyone, as long as they respect boundaries & aren't there with expectations. I'm there to relax, sunbathe, swim. Just be nice, you'll be ok | |||
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"You usually get a tour and a talk when your a newbie ... and an explanation of what’s acceptable behavior etc .... well you do at the club I go to so you don’t need anyone to hold your hand.... "Eureka is the same | |||
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"You usually get a tour and a talk when your a newbie ... and an explanation of what’s acceptable behavior etc .... well you do at the club I go to so you don’t need anyone to hold your hand.... well if I'm unsuccessful I'll have to just grow a pair and be a big boy and go alone lol
You won’t find a woman to help you. Too clicky with their club friends to help out any strangers lol
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OP, Eurekas is a lovely club, the owners & staff are brilliant, you'll be made to feel welcome, given a tour, etiquette explained.
It's predominantly naturist during the day, with areas play is allowed.
I regularly go alone, I made a great bunch of friends there last year, we will happily talk to anyone and everyone, as long as they respect boundaries & aren't there with expectations.
I'm there to relax, sunbathe, swim.
Just be nice, you'll be ok
"thanks I'm thinking it may be easier to go alone they are doing day time parties once a month so thinking of going to one of them . | |||
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"And what is in it for her? just a fun day sharing my first club experience together" It is men's fantasy - they like everything "first". Good luck though. Just don't get your hopes high. | |||
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"Still it would be nice to have an attractive female that knows her way around " It's incredibly unlikely to happen, I'm afraid. I'm asked a lot and it's hard not to see it as "I want cheaper entry and a shag, and you're going to do that for me, complete stranger, without any benefit to you." | |||
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"Still it would be nice to have an attractive female that knows her way around It's incredibly unlikely to happen, I'm afraid. I'm asked a lot and it's hard not to see it as "I want cheaper entry and a shag, and you're going to do that for me, complete stranger, without any benefit to you." " never thought of it like that just thought if I go with someone if it's quiet or nobody I like I'd already be with a hot little minx | |||
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"Still it would be nice to have an attractive female that knows her way around It's incredibly unlikely to happen, I'm afraid. I'm asked a lot and it's hard not to see it as "I want cheaper entry and a shag, and you're going to do that for me, complete stranger, without any benefit to you." never thought of it like that just thought if I go with someone if it's quiet or nobody I like I'd already be with a hot little minx " You can always take your wife with you  | |||
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"Still it would be nice to have an attractive female that knows her way around It's incredibly unlikely to happen, I'm afraid. I'm asked a lot and it's hard not to see it as "I want cheaper entry and a shag, and you're going to do that for me, complete stranger, without any benefit to you." never thought of it like that just thought if I go with someone if it's quiet or nobody I like I'd already be with a hot little minx You can always take your wife with you " been pushing at that for years ain't gonna happen | |||
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"It's cheaper to get in as a couple than a single bloke. Oh, still not a bennifit for the lady. " well it is if I pay for both our entry as a couple | |||
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"Hi everyone I'm mike I'm seeking a female playmate to attend eurekas with me one day soon must be daytime only during work hours as I'm not single. I've never been to a club and have heard nothing but good things about eurekas so cmon ladies drop me a message and let's exchange pics " Maybe if you had a pic or 2 on display might help | |||
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"You probably need to look at the two things (going to a club and meeting someone) separately OP - for the reasons given a lot of ladies will be wary that you're just using them to gain entry to the club, and without knowing you may be concerned about how you'll behave when you get there - after all if you wanted to meet them just for them, you could go to a hotel, so asking to meet someone to go to a club with can sound a little duplicitous." Exactly this ....... I go on my own and as long as you mingle and talk to people you will be fine ..... | |||
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"Hi everyone I'm mike I'm seeking a female playmate to attend eurekas with me one day soon must be daytime only during work hours as I'm not single. I've never been to a club and have heard nothing but good things about eurekas so cmon ladies drop me a message and let's exchange pics Maybe if you had a pic or 2 on display might help" not single as stated so can't have public pics | |||
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"You probably need to look at the two things (going to a club and meeting someone) separately OP - for the reasons given a lot of ladies will be wary that you're just using them to gain entry to the club, and without knowing you may be concerned about how you'll behave when you get there - after all if you wanted to meet them just for them, you could go to a hotel, so asking to meet someone to go to a club with can sound a little duplicitous. Exactly this ....... I go on my own and as long as you mingle and talk to people you will be fine ..... " so it's looking like best to go on my own then thanks for your advice | |||
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"I'll have to just grow a pair and be a big boy and go alone " The penny drops! | |||
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"Still it would be nice to have an attractive female that knows her way around It's incredibly unlikely to happen, I'm afraid. I'm asked a lot and it's hard not to see it as "I want cheaper entry and a shag, and you're going to do that for me, complete stranger, without any benefit to you." never thought of it like that just thought if I go with someone if it's quiet or nobody I like I'd already be with a hot little minx " ... Who'd feel pressured and used. | |||
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"Hi everyone I'm mike I'm seeking a female playmate to attend eurekas with me one day soon must be daytime only during work hours as I'm not single. I've never been to a club and have heard nothing but good things about eurekas so cmon ladies drop me a message and let's exchange pics Maybe if you had a pic or 2 on display might help not single as stated so can't have public pics " If you don't have public pictures you almost certainly won't get anywhere, much less a thing that most guys can't (a woman to accompany them to a club). | |||
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"Why not a bloke as a eingman? You can have a couple of beers and discuss tactics.lol" Yeah, it's never about a guaranteed shag and yet somehow guys will never go with each other. Hmm. | |||
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"Wingman." never entered my mind to go with another fella might consider it | |||
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"Hi everyone I'm mike I'm seeking a female playmate to attend eurekas with me one day soon must be daytime only during work hours as I'm not single. I've never been to a club and have heard nothing but good things about eurekas so cmon ladies drop me a message and let's exchange pics Maybe if you had a pic or 2 on display might help not single as stated so can't have public pics If you don't have public pictures you almost certainly won't get anywhere, much less a thing that most guys can't (a woman to accompany them to a club). " happy to send pics just not have em on show for the whole world to see | |||
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"Hi everyone I'm mike I'm seeking a female playmate to attend eurekas with me one day soon must be daytime only during work hours as I'm not single. I've never been to a club and have heard nothing but good things about eurekas so cmon ladies drop me a message and let's exchange pics Maybe if you had a pic or 2 on display might help not single as stated so can't have public pics If you don't have public pictures you almost certainly won't get anywhere, much less a thing that most guys can't (a woman to accompany them to a club). happy to send pics just not have em on show for the whole world to see " If I have 50 messages, the 5 without public pictures are usually the first to go. | |||
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"Why not a bloke as a eingman? You can have a couple of beers and discuss tactics.lol Yeah, it's never about a guaranteed shag and yet somehow guys will never go with each other. Hmm. " I went to abfabs with a mate of mine once we had a great time. Like said above, relaxed had a few drinks. Made things more relaxed than going on your own and feeling like a 3rd wheel so to speak. | |||
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"Why not a bloke as a eingman? You can have a couple of beers and discuss tactics.lol Yeah, it's never about a guaranteed shag and yet somehow guys will never go with each other. Hmm. I went to abfabs with a mate of mine once we had a great time. Like said above, relaxed had a few drinks. Made things more relaxed than going on your own and feeling like a 3rd wheel so to speak. " Good man.See..with a bit of initiative don't need a lady.lol | |||
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"Still it would be nice to have an attractive female that knows her way around It's incredibly unlikely to happen, I'm afraid. I'm asked a lot and it's hard not to see it as "I want cheaper entry and a shag, and you're going to do that for me, complete stranger, without any benefit to you." " Exactly First time I were to a club it was on my own- generally I go alone . So if ladies can do it .... | |||
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"Wingman. never entered my mind to go with another fella might consider it" What forums all about. Different perspective? Might be a guy reading this post feeling same as you. | |||
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"Hi everyone I'm mike I'm seeking a female playmate to attend eurekas with me one day soon must be daytime only during work hours as I'm not single. I've never been to a club and have heard nothing but good things about eurekas so cmon ladies drop me a message and let's exchange pics Maybe if you had a pic or 2 on display might help not single as stated so can't have public pics " But you realise you might bump into whoever else at the club? Your wife's boss/wife's hairdresser etc? I bunped into my mums colleagues once. Luckily ny mum knows what I get upto. | |||
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"Still it would be nice to have an attractive female that knows her way around It's incredibly unlikely to happen, I'm afraid. I'm asked a lot and it's hard not to see it as "I want cheaper entry and a shag, and you're going to do that for me, complete stranger, without any benefit to you." Exactly First time I were to a club it was on my own- generally I go alone . So if ladies can do it ...." I often go with people, but not just anyone. | |||
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"Still it would be nice to have an attractive female that knows her way around It's incredibly unlikely to happen, I'm afraid. I'm asked a lot and it's hard not to see it as "I want cheaper entry and a shag, and you're going to do that for me, complete stranger, without any benefit to you." Exactly First time I were to a club it was on my own- generally I go alone . So if ladies can do it .... I often go with people, but not just anyone. " I'd ideally like to meet whoever I'd be going with first wether that be a play meet or just a social but after reading what everyone has to say might just go alone as seem many do | |||
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"You usually get a tour and a talk when your a newbie ... and an explanation of what’s acceptable behavior etc .... well you do at the club I go to so you don’t need anyone to hold your hand.... well if I'm unsuccessful I'll have to just grow a pair and be a big boy and go alone lol
You won’t find a woman to help you. Too clicky with their club friends to help out any strangers lol "Lol really? You need help to go to a venue? As usual it's womens fault that men getting what they want. | |||
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"You usually get a tour and a talk when your a newbie ... and an explanation of what’s acceptable behavior etc .... well you do at the club I go to so you don’t need anyone to hold your hand.... well if I'm unsuccessful I'll have to just grow a pair and be a big boy and go alone lol
You won’t find a woman to help you. Too clicky with their club friends to help out any strangers lol "Oh also, I used to take single men to clubs but they often acted like dickheads so I stopped. | |||
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"You usually get a tour and a talk when your a newbie ... and an explanation of what’s acceptable behavior etc .... well you do at the club I go to so you don’t need anyone to hold your hand.... well if I'm unsuccessful I'll have to just grow a pair and be a big boy and go alone lol
You won’t find a woman to help you. Too clicky with their club friends to help out any strangers lol
Oh also, I used to take single men to clubs but they often acted like dickheads so I stopped. "well acting like a dickhead certainly ain't my thing but see where your coming from gives you a bad name if your bringing the arsehole to the party | |||
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"You usually get a tour and a talk when your a newbie ... and an explanation of what’s acceptable behavior etc .... well you do at the club I go to so you don’t need anyone to hold your hand.... well if I'm unsuccessful I'll have to just grow a pair and be a big boy and go alone lol
You won’t find a woman to help you. Too clicky with their club friends to help out any strangers lol "Ooooh dear. Tut tut. There are some nice people go their not all are couples | |||
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