FabSwingers.com forum: Hi Fab - New Guy not much luck so far.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey Fab

so Just wanted to poke my head up and say hi to everyone and introduce myself.

I'm not really a social butterfly so I don't do clubbing or nights out on the town, so I tend to. meet anyone new online,

any feedback on my profile is appreciated

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hi OP and welcome to fab.

I think your thread title is a bit of a misnomer. You've been here a week and have had a meet already - most other single men would be thrilled to bits with that.

I suggest the only thing that needs to change is your expectations of fab. Just because you are on a swinging site doesn't mean you will get a different woman bouncing on your cock every day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was extremely lucky with first meet I must admit.

but since then evey message I have sent out has been either deleted or ignored aswell as a lot of profile views with no messages.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Hey Fab

so Just wanted to poke my head up and say hi to everyone and introduce myself.

I'm not really a social butterfly so I don't do clubbing or nights out on the town, so I tend to. meet anyone new online,

any feedback on my profile is appreciated

Week 1, 1 meet. That's pretty impressive.

Whatever you did, do it some more.

Lower your expectations.

Sell whatever recipe for success you have. You'll make a fortune.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

to be honest the lady messaged me first

since her 0 replies

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"to be honest the lady messaged me first

since her 0 replies "

It's been a week.

Some men take months to get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sell whatever recipe for success you have. You'll make a fortune.

if I knew what I did I wouldn't ask ha...

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Sell whatever recipe for success you have. You'll make a fortune.

if I knew what I did I wouldn't ask ha... "

Bugger. I was going to ask you for tips.

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By *tew2009Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Don't expect too much and you won't be disappointed. When Fab was in it's infancy it was fantastic, loads of single women and couples genuinely looking to meet up, you could log on and get a meet arranged within the hour, sometimes locally, sometimes with a bit of travelling. Unfortunately word got out and the site is now saturated with men, a bit like the gold rush!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So does anyone have feedback on my profile?

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"So does anyone have feedback on my profile? "

Three almost identical pics of your cock are a bit off putting. Other than that, you have had more success in one week than many guys get in a year so manage your expectations better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

fixed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have come to the conclusion that women don't really care for cock picks... unless it's a monster,I would probably delete it, otherwise it maybe a turn off.

Congratulations on the face pic, you are more brave than me, and most women will appreciate that.

Other than that, regular interaction, status updates, forum posts may get you interest.

I have deleted my previous profile, so this one doesn't really reflect much of what I say. (Being discreet at the min. )

Best of luck

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

My issue with your profile is spelling, but that's my problem.

Be more positive.

You may have had a bad day but you don't need to share that in your status here, go on Facebook and blow off steam there instead. People are generally looking for fun here, so will avoid men who aren't in a happy place.

My sympathy for your bad day, by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see a guy regularly putting on attention seeking updates and meet requests (most appear do do both) I find it off putting.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Regarding the photos...get rid of the one with the fuzzy stuff around your cock and trousers around your ankles....it's not inviting !,

Couple of spelling mistakes, but on the whole not bad. However what is there to attract a female. You are shy, anxious, smoker and looking for new experiences.

If ladies are looking at 10 profiles would they chose you out of the profiles they are looking for? Try to sound a bit more interesting, fun, worth meeting.

Maybe smile in your photos and try to add a bit more of your personality to your profile. I know you have discussed the smoking and nerves. But you need to sell yourself a bit better. What are your strengths? What do you really enjoy or are good at ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I see a guy regularly putting on attention seeking updates and meet requests (most appear do do both) I find it off putting. "

noted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Regarding the photos...get rid of the one with the fuzzy stuff around your cock and trousers around your ankles....it's not inviting !,

Couple of spelling mistakes, but on the whole not bad. However what is there to attract a female. You are shy, anxious, smoker and looking for new experiences.

If ladies are looking at 10 profiles would they chose you out of the profiles they are looking for? Try to sound a bit more interesting, fun, worth meeting.

ah I have tried to correct spelling mistakes on the profile,

I didn't want to just have a profile where I mainly talk about sex / my likes / kinks

in general life its a bit of a tough one... I don't exactly lead an exciting life :p

but I am genuine and stick to things that are organised I just need a little time compared to others maybe to blossom my personality to them

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By *umKinkwithUsCouple
over a year ago

Camberley

"Hey Fab

so Just wanted to poke my head up and say hi to everyone and introduce myself.

I'm not really a social butterfly so I don't do clubbing or nights out on the town, so I tend to. meet anyone new online,

any feedback on my profile is appreciated

1) more written verifications will help either from cam, going to a swinging social (not a night out), meet people for a social over a cup of coffee/tea and if you can brave it go to a swinging club.

2) more pictures that show off what type of character you are and hint at the types of sex you enjoy.

3)state what types of sex you enjoy and what types of sex you wish to explore rather than "open to try anything really". (Doubt you want to receive anal fisting, needle play or sounding).However if you do want to try more extreme sex then hint at it on your profile.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

1) more written verifications will help either from cam, going to a swinging social (not a night out), meet people for a social over a cup of coffee/tea and if you can brave it go to a swinging club.

2) more pictures that show off what type of character you are and hint at the types of sex you enjoy.

Good luck

Thanks

1) Defiantly looking at the idea of trying socials and looking into the idea of a joining a club, just haven't took the leap yet

2) Unfortunately I Don't have any pictures that show this side, I need to do some meets with people and get pictures that way

3) I have amended profile text again

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

It looks better now.

Always nice to see someone listen to advice.

Good luck

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By *hil_u_upMan
over a year ago

swansea

It's very difficult for any of us to sell ourselves effectively through a written profile. There really has to be personal contact. Group social events are a great way to do this. (Don't know about where you are, but there are plenty of these in South Wales where I am). We're all very nervous walking into one of these, but I think you'll find most prople friendly.

If you really can't bring yourself to go to a social event, try other personal contact means such as cams,chat rooms,clubs.

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By *trangeleftyMan
over a year ago

London

"So does anyone have feedback on my profile? "

Someone told me not to identify weaknesses... what's your opinion on that?

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