FabSwingers.com forum: I am I that bad???

By *tokeguy1990 OP Man
over a year ago

stoke

Hey guys just wondering what’s the problem with me really struggling to organise meets with a woman I’m a professional guy have my own place and can travel just don’t seem to be getting anywhere????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the first thing I noticed is your age. You say you're 31 and 28. Simple mistakes like that give me the impression that no care or attention has been given when creating your profile, and if you can't be arsed to do that properly, then what else will you be flaky about?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Profiles also a bit bland. Smile a little. Also you're status says you had an amazing session last night...

Try reading these

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/868684

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on girls, he's a nice guy....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There's no problem with you.

You're one man among many and it's difficult for may guys on here. This leads a lot of you thinking there's something wrong with you when there's not.

Your chances will improve with a bit of a profile rewrite and attending organised socials and clubs. Sometimes connections are made by joining in forum discussions too.

Good luck

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Hey guys just wondering what’s the problem with me really struggling to organise meets with a woman I’m a professional guy have my own place and can travel just don’t seem to be getting anywhere????"

Where do you think it's not working for you?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Struggling to arrange meets yet had one in January, and have a status that suggests you may have had one yesterday

I guess it depends what your expectations are, but the above is better than a lot of guys do in a lot longer on the site.

Putting that aside however - I'd suggest your profile needs some work - it's pretty non-descript and very generic currently - doesn't really tell anyone anything about you, what you're looking for or think you can offer.

Likewise your pics don't do you many favours - kudos for feeling able to post your face, but frankly in two of them you look bored/miserable - maybe give some thought to posting pics that show off your body a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well the first thing I noticed is your age. You say you're 31 and 28. Simple mistakes like that give me the impression that no care or attention has been given when creating your profile, and if you can't be arsed to do that properly, then what else will you be flaky about?

yeah this is how i feel

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Meets are easy to get on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meets are easy to get on here "

Actually they arent for some singles and couples

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If you were to approach us the first red flag would be that you have two different ages on your profile. You haven't aged by three years in the six months you've been on Fab, so it means that either you don't know your own date of birth, or you have decided to change your age at some point, which is deceptive.

The pics are fine, but you only smile in one of them. The other two you look quite miserable and bored. Is this really setting a good impression of you?

Good luck

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

As others have said, you list 2 ages. I’d assume 28 is correct as your username has 1990 in it. Being caught out on a fib might make people doubt other things you say such as being single.

Is there any need to state that you stand on your own 2 feet? You’re a 28/31 yr old man, surely that’s a given at your age? How about adding a bit about what you’re into instead?

Good luck!

Lou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and OP. you can change your age once on here

fab will allow that

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Often people change their age once to get around a message filter... and then can't change it back. Which then results in them not being able to message people who are looking for guys of their correct age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often people change their age once to get around a message filter... and then can't change it back. Which then results in them not being able to message people who are looking for guys of their correct age

i was trying to be polite BUt YEP

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By *tokeguy1990 OP Man
over a year ago

stoke

Thank you everyone I’m 29 but set the wrong date as profile was set up on my phone and the screen is cracked that’s all and great I’ll start putting some happy pics on haha the meet I had last night was not through fab and the meet in jan was just a social appreciate the help everyone though thank you!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

OK, Take a deep breath and read your profile text out loud to yourself. If you find yourself needing to take a breath, then add a comma or full stop.

You'd be surprised how many profiles never get read just because of punctuation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You state that you are a straight guy OP but your profile says you are looking to meet TV’s.

To me that suggests you might want to rethink the straight bit.

Miss V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep jumping through spiked hoops, you'll get there... Maybe

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"You state that you are a straight guy OP but your profile says you are looking to meet TV’s.

To me that suggests you might want to rethink the straight bit.

Miss V"
so do a hell of a lot of straight men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try some punctuation and paragraphs in your profile. Will make it easier to read. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You state that you are a straight guy OP but your profile says you are looking to meet TV’s.

To me that suggests you might want to rethink the straight bit.

Miss Vso do a hell of a lot of straight men lol "

Tell me about it! The majority of fabs that Abby gets on her pics are from straight guys that stress they’re 100% straight on their profiles

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Try some punctuation and paragraphs in your profile. Will make it easier to read. Xx"

This, I almost stopped after the first two lines, exhausting.

Use the first picture for your avatar, looking miserable is never going to attract anyone. More bare body pictures will attract on this site rather than clothed pictures.

Contribute more on the forums, it gets you noticed and create more views. But rewriting your profile is the first thing you need to sort out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this website it's like any website you have got to show personality is harder said than done it took me a long time to meet certain women on here but I managed to do it I'm like you I've got my own place I'm single and I I'm mature you just gotta keep working at it send a nice message to them not a copy and paste message read their profile

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's difficult for all single men here and some will have better fortune than others. If this is borne in mind, so your expectations are realistic, you can then focus your efforts on how to make them likely to be most successful. There are lots of threads giving tips. Including photos where you are relaxed and smiling is very alluring, for example. Good luck!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

You had a meet 19th January, how is that 'not getting anywhere'? Your profile is obviously working for you, your patience may not be. Just keep doing what you are doing as it seems to be working for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being picky for no readon . Only i notice your age meet up to 99.. think about it. Make it more real.

Limiting that you prefer blondes..

Trying to say you switch from dom to sub without using terms show less of an understanding even though i get it.

Try re word a few parts.

But you had a meet.. so it ain't that bad. Good luck

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