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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So any starting tips for younger guys? I feel there isnt much of an audience for us

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

You would actually be surprised the best advice I can give is be patient, participate in threads on here, go to clubs and go into chat

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Try reading these

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/868684

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah been trying and isnt going too bad mate

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Ok so why the generalised statement that it feels like not much for young guys then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just seeing if anyone agrees or has more advice

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Well I’m guessing that since you also put this topic in swingers club discussions no one else commented on it yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That was an accident and I cant delete it

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"So any starting tips for younger guys? I feel there isnt much of an audience for us"

Firstly your wrong, there is an audience for you, but you have to find it. Just like everyone else.

Secondly, your meet verifications prove that you have some idea what your doing, so good on you.

You will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.

Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.

Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.

Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great. You appear to have a nice body, so get creative and show it off.

However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you! That's been a great help! Thanks for taking the time to reply and help

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

OP I was in your shoes once and try clubs there are quite a few people who go to clubs that enjoy younger guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok mate will do thanks

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I think it shows the difference between men and women.

Older guys hardly bat an eye lid if a young woman started coming on to them, whereas women take a more moral view, but also much more mental stimulation, which doesn't really happen across a large age gap. for me, anyone young enough to be my son is out.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

You've only been here a week and thinking of leaving already? Just what were your expectations on joing fab OP? Were you seriously thinking you would be knee deep in clunge and having women at your beck and call 24/7?!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"So any starting tips for younger guys? I feel there isnt much of an audience for us"

Come back when you're a couple.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"So any starting tips for younger guys? I feel there isnt much of an audience for us

Firstly your wrong, there is an audience for you, but you have to find it. Just like everyone else.

Secondly, your meet verifications prove that you have some idea what your doing, so good on you.

You will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.

Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.

Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.

Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great. You appear to have a nice body, so get creative and show it off.

However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.

Good luck."

This is the best advice.

It's all about networking.

Get to socials and clubs.

You'll never please everyone.

Each to their own.

Personally.... I meet guys your age. It's the distance that's a problem for me.

Good luck op xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So any starting tips for younger guys? I feel there isnt much of an audience for us

Firstly your wrong, there is an audience for you, but you have to find it. Just like everyone else.

Secondly, your meet verifications prove that you have some idea what your doing, so good on you.

You will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.

Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.

Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.

Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great. You appear to have a nice body, so get creative and show it off.

However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.

Good luck.

This is the best advice.

It's all about networking.

Get to socials and clubs.

You'll never please everyone.

Each to their own.

Personally.... I meet guys your age. It's the distance that's a problem for me.

Good luck op xx"

Thank you! Haha funnily enough I'm in gosport

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've only been here a week and thinking of leaving already? Just what were your expectations on joing fab OP? Were you seriously thinking you would be knee deep in clunge and having women at your beck and call 24/7?! "

No course I wasnt expecting that

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"You've only been here a week and thinking of leaving already? Just what were your expectations on joing fab OP? Were you seriously thinking you would be knee deep in clunge and having women at your beck and call 24/7?!

No course I wasnt expecting that "

Then try having some patience. Read the threads giving profile advice, try and get networking at socials and clubs. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've only been here a week and thinking of leaving already? Just what were your expectations on joing fab OP? Were you seriously thinking you would be knee deep in clunge and having women at your beck and call 24/7?!

Thank you. I've had some luck on here already so I'll stick with it

No course I wasnt expecting that

Then try having some patience. Read the threads giving profile advice, try and get networking at socials and clubs. Good luck. "

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"So any starting tips for younger guys? I feel there isnt much of an audience for us

Firstly your wrong, there is an audience for you, but you have to find it. Just like everyone else.

Secondly, your meet verifications prove that you have some idea what your doing, so good on you.

You will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.

Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.

Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.

Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great. You appear to have a nice body, so get creative and show it off.

However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.

Good luck.

This is the best advice.

It's all about networking.

Get to socials and clubs.

You'll never please everyone.

Each to their own.

Personally.... I meet guys your age. It's the distance that's a problem for me.

Good luck op xx

Thank you! Haha funnily enough I'm in gosport "

Music to my ears....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So any starting tips for younger guys? I feel there isnt much of an audience for us

Firstly your wrong, there is an audience for you, but you have to find it. Just like everyone else.

Secondly, your meet verifications prove that you have some idea what your doing, so good on you.

You will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.

Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.

Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.

Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great. You appear to have a nice body, so get creative and show it off.

However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.

Good luck.

This is the best advice.

It's all about networking.

Get to socials and clubs.

You'll never please everyone.

Each to their own.

Personally.... I meet guys your age. It's the distance that's a problem for me.

Good luck op xx

Thank you! Haha funnily enough I'm in gosport

Music to my ears.... "

Maybe drop me a message as I cant message you because of age limit you have set

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"You would actually be surprised the best advice I can give is be patient, participate in threads on here, go to clubs and go into chat "

And in about 28 years time you'll come to realise like the rest of us that this place is a feckin waste of your time

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By *wansfeetCouple
over a year ago

Guisborough


"You would actually be surprised the best advice I can give is be patient, participate in threads on here, go to clubs and go into chat

And in about 28 years time you'll come to realise like the rest of us that this place is a feckin waste of your time "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So any starting tips for younger guys? I feel there isnt much of an audience for us

Firstly your wrong, there is an audience for you, but you have to find it. Just like everyone else.

Secondly, your meet verifications prove that you have some idea what your doing, so good on you.

You will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.

Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.

Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.

Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great. You appear to have a nice body, so get creative and show it off.

However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.

Good luck."

Do not use face pics! You might want a career that may leave you vulnerable to scams. Be smart limit the amount of face pics you send out its not worth loosing your privacy for a shag. Think do you want your future kids to stumble on them? Think longterm.

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