FabSwingers.com forum: Greetings folks!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi!

So this is my first foray into this kinda thing. Been thinking about it for a while. For various reasons. Been single a little while now. Awkward work patterns make traditional types of dating tough. And as I suppose anyone reading this will also be, am a bit of a horny fucker who always had a bit of curiosity about it. So yeah. Fun times ahead I hope!

Actually I already met with one person from here earlier this week and we had a really good time and hopefully again next week for round 2!

I do have a question though. For the women here. Other than the obvious ones of not leading with dick pics and trying to show I have read your profile, what do you want to read in a first message? Do you prefer it flirty, referencing your pics? Or a more formal message first?

And oh yeah I guess it's a bit of a ritual to say cast your eye on my profile and tell me what you think?

Cheers!

By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Great profile and pics! An ass pic usually goes down well, and a smart suit pic seems popular if you want additional pics.

I think you’ve nailed it to be honest. And you’ll do well here as you have a good approach.

Opening messages are a personal preference. I like silly and funny, but you have to guess from a profile what a woman might prefer. Keeping it charming and polite will get you a positive response is all I can say.

Good luck

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

@mimzy cheers! That's good to hear.

I'll try to get a decent ass photo at some point (heh my scrawny ass might be someone's cup of tea)

By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"I do have a question though. For the women here. Other than the obvious ones of not leading with dick pics and trying to show I have read your profile, what do you want to read in a first message? Do you prefer it flirty, referencing your pics? Or a more formal message first?"

Hello OP.

Unfortunately there is no easy answer or magic formula to what to put into a message. Tailor it towards the person you are approaching, and to save your time and theirs ensure you meet their profile in the first place.

Good luck