FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Introductions

Feels like a trap lol

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So i just learned my wife is ok with me having meet on my own, she is genuine about it and apparently told me months ago it was ok, the one time i should have been listening i guess, do i go for it?????.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Surely not a trap, she looks like butter wouldn’t melt

Perhaps claim you’ve done it and see what the reaction is??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Thame

My advice would be to tell her you want to include her in any meets you have because its more fun when you play as a couple.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea for sure, but lets say i have a fantasy she would not really be into, that would make a good reason to meet solo rihht? it feels dis honest, im not sure

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Yea for sure, but lets say i have a fantasy she would not really be into, that would make a good reason to meet solo rihht? it feels dis honest, im not sure"

I think you would be better with full communication, so that you understand the consent that you have from her - if there are limitations upon what/who you could engage with etc. You could both be part of the arrangement making but just one of you at the meets.

If there's not 100% certainty and trust, then it's worth postponing, until there is, or to pursue alternative options.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

nope she said i can do anytging, as long safe and protected

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why does it feel like a trap, why would your wife be trying to trap you by telling you that its ok to do something? Will your wife be ok with you discussing this with us? As you can tell I'm confused by this

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call her bluff say you got a meet with a lady & see what her reaction is first if all is gd go for it but if not don’t it won’t be worth the headache x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would defo meet you. But i have kinks you wouldnt handle lol x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ew swingers wxmCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

My partner let's me meet with others on my own as he has a very low sex drive. I will always be open and honest about each meet both before and after they take place. He has the option to join or watch if he wishes but rarely takes up the offer.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"nope she said i can do anytging, as long safe and protected"

Use reply and quote, we'll know who you're talking to.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"So i just learned my wife is ok with me having meet on my own, she is genuine about it and apparently told me months ago it was ok, the one time i should have been listening i guess, do i go for it?????."

Noooooooooooo its a trap a sneaky one! Ok yes.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nope she said i can do anytging, as long safe and protected

Use reply and quote, we'll know who you're talking to. "

would defo meet u

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"nope she said i can do anytging, as long safe and protected

Use reply and quote, we'll know who you're talking to.

would defo meet u "

We're way over your maximum age

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nope she said i can do anytging, as long safe and protected

Use reply and quote, we'll know who you're talking to.

would defo meet u

We're way over your maximum age "

Tis but a number

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if you both have access to the profile, she'll see this.

I dont see how it can be a trap when you've openly discussed it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Surely if you both have access to the profile, she'll see this.

I dont see how it can be a trap when you've openly discussed it. "

Indeed #confused.com

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"So i just learned my wife is ok with me having meet on my own, she is genuine about it and apparently told me months ago it was ok, the one time i should have been listening i guess, do i go for it?????."

As your a couple it is a fair assumption that you have spoken about this. And as such, why would you not take her for her word?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top