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By *lickRickxxx OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I recently returned to this site but I’m struggling to get attention from females . Seems to only be men coming towards me . I’m a straight fit and healthy male and I want to have some NSA fun. Shouldn’t be this hard ? What do I do?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

There's advice on my profile OP, nice pics by the way x

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Welcome back.

Plenty of advice on improving profile if search forums. Look up how succesful men do. Profile is what people look at. Time and effort needed. Would lose the disclaimer on yours. It pointless and looks like it just there to pad out.

Personalise messages you send to people and engage with people based on theirs.

It only as hard as you make it. Just be polite and friendly and things will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First of all, I'd sort out the profile if I were you. Plenty of advice on forum, as well as there are links to great advice on my profile.

Your pics are good but your profile text lets you down big time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all, I'd sort out the profile if I were you. Plenty of advice on forum, as well as there are links to great advice on my profile.

Your pics are good but your profile text lets you down big time. "

See above, 2nd forum advice link is amazeballs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's advice on my profile OP, nice pics by the way x"

She's good. And....happy birthday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being black in Devon you would have a field day hahaha as alot like black and very few in devon in London u don't stand out as lots of coloured guys u look attractive though so I'm surprised u anit getting some action lol good luck

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Being black in Devon you would have a field day hahaha as alot like black and very few in devon in London u don't stand out as lots of coloured guys u look attractive though so I'm surprised u anit getting some action lol good luck"

Could be the most gorgeous man in the world that everyone one wants. Still would not give the time of day if boring as hell. If cannot spend a few minutes on a profile can you spend longer than that in bed?

What attracts people here is differant for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The basic ratio means that your profile needs to be perfect

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"There's advice on my profile OP, nice pics by the way x

She's good. And....happy birthday."

Thanks xx

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP,

There is some good advice on this thread already, you should use it.

In addition, over half of your profile in quasi legal nonsense that means absolutely nothing, so drop it.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Who said Devon? He is in Brentford.

OP, as someone with relevant experience , I would suggest either showing your face or having at least one photo in a suit and/or without a baseball hat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you have muscles and in good shape, and therefor expect fab to be easier?

God help us mere mortals..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see nothing wrong with your profile tbf mate, short but straight to the point, no messing, got some body there mate, looking like the hulk lol, surely these women must be blowing up ya inbox,! Perhaps they may even think your a bit out of there league, who knows. I suggest going to the club's, events, can make good connections there

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Losing the warning from profiles, ref EU etc, helps quite a few people here, as others say.

Selling yourself, what you have to offer, is key - as there are thousands of other single men. People want personality as well as the physical. A smiling face always helps draw people too.

Meet people socially - say that you will, if you would. Go to Fab socials and attend clubs.

Perhaps make it clearer what geographic area you're interested.

You've mentioned bi interest from others - you could be clearer on whether you'll meet bi couples, so people will have certainty.

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