FabSwingers.com forum: How to make me stand out from the crowd

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m sure women on this site must get 1000s of messages daily, I am new to this site would anyone be able to advise me on what I should do with my profile and how to stand out and actually get a response?

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"I’m sure women on this site must get 1000s of messages daily, I am new to this site would anyone be able to advise me on what I should do with my profile and how to stand out and actually get a response?"

Your photos are ok, but a bit samey, maybe get a bit more creative.

Age range . Would you really meet ladies aged in their 90s ?

Your profile talks about what you are looking for. It's great that this is clear. But you don't say what you can offer.

Think of it as ladies window shopping, and your profile is there to entice them to be interested and want to know more. So explain why they should want to chat to you and meet you .

There is something humorous and interesting at the end of your profile , but no personality prior to that.

Finally . When you message ladies, read their profile and send a personal message to them, maybe referring to something in their profile, do that they know you are interested in them and not just sending the same message to 50 girls a day .

Think about attending a social or a club. You get to meet people a lot quicker and get a verification or five yo show you are real.

Be patient and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this a rather unusual request, being asked to advise on how to stand out from the crowd.

I mean, think about it.

Only you know what is unique about yourself and so, really, I think it's something you need to figure out for yourself.

I'm not trying to be deliberately unhelpful, I just find the question somewhat ironic

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Ok first your pictures, you obviously think your chest is your best feature, but you only need one picture bare chested.

Some women like cock pictures some don’t, you’re taking a chance. Better to do some almost showing pictures of that area a bit of mystery rather than...here it is what do you think

Profile, break it up a bit. It’s one big chunk of message, exhausting to read. A few paragraphs wouldn’t go amiss.

Single ladies only, you’re narrowing down your matches but I do respect your morals

Finally but most importantly, a Profile is your calling card. Look at yours does it sell you ? has that wow factor, something that makes you stand out from the rest of the guys on here?

Not for me, it’s boring and generic no personality at all. Add a line at the beginning that ‘makes’ a woman want to carry on reading and getting to know you. Something funny, women always say that humour in a man is sexy, so make her laugh

Good luck Op, 30 minutes rewriting your profile may help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some links to forum threads with advice for single guys on my profile. Have a read. And good luck

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

4 almost identical pics, with a fifth one in the same pose but clothed. To be honest it's not showing a lot of variety and imagination.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

To stand out you inject your personality into your profile it has to be about you about your energy and dynamism so people think wow he's interesting.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Make your bio reflect your personality and also change some of your pictures as 3 of them look identical just with different filters or exposures

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