FabSwingers.com forum: New guy, no luck, need advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello, been on here a couple of weeks but no joy yet, any advice on my profile? Got a couple of private pics which include a face pic.

What does it take apart from the endless attempts to message women on here!?

Thanks

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

try reading these

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/868684

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

And remove the Sydney university stuff. It means nothing.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"And remove the Sydney university stuff. It means nothing. "

Seconded its pointless

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Hello, been on here a couple of weeks but no joy yet, any advice on my profile? Got a couple of private pics which include a face pic.

What does it take apart from the endless attempts to message women on here!?

Thanks"

1/It isn't guaranteedashag.com

2/It can take time

3/Your profile has to be interesting to people.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP,

You have two lines about yourself and nine lines of quasi legal nonsense that means nothing whatsoever and is totally unenforceable. Ask yourself seriously, are you really selling yourself to the best of your ability?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all, got a lot of reading to do from the links provided and then an overhaul of my profile. You are right, I need to expand more on me and remove the legal stuff which I saw on other profiles so thought oooh gdpr and all that....Will remove.

I think better pics will help but was uneasy about face pics straight away. Prefer those in private messages. That's not to say you can't have a few pics of eyes, mouth etc, as some women do, that are public so it gives an idea! Dick pics won't be a problem for me as I am not that large so have nothing to flaunt!

Truth be told I bet most men (including me) sign up in the hope that within minutes they will be in a room somewhere balls deep! Reality check accepted! X

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Thanks all, got a lot of reading to do from the links provided and then an overhaul of my profile. You are right, I need to expand more on me and remove the legal stuff which I saw on other profiles so thought oooh gdpr and all that....Will remove.

Truth be told I bet most men (including me) sign up in the hope that within minutes they will be in a room somewhere balls deep! Reality check accepted! X"

Yeah, swinging is about far more than shagging.

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By *aturedisgracefully!!Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

Truth be told I bet most men (including me) sign up in the hope that within minutes they will be in a room somewhere balls deep! Reality check accepted! X"

How on earth do you think that warning protects you against GDPR??

Without the warning your profile is two lines long.

A LOT more effort is need than that.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

lol my thoughts exactly!

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

You have almost no profile content (that Sydney uni stuff is laughable at best), and two bland pics. There is nothing there to catch a woman’s eye. How do you feel your profile sells you? What is in it to make you irresistible? Because that’s what it takes when you’re one of forty messages in one day.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Firstly thanks for responding to posters on the thread OP. A lot don't bother. You need some better pucs and a decent bio. There's advice on my profile should you wish to use it. Good luck. X

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By *sgigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

ask yourself what would grab your attention. Be sincere, be honest and dont talk bollocks. If your talking to a couple remember they are a couple. If your married dont lie about it. Above all keep it light and dont take yourself too seriously. Good luck

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I need to ... remove the legal stuff which I saw on other profiles so thought oooh gdpr and all that....Will remove.

18 hours later and you still haven't deleted it !

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

OP you might want to listen to the advice given loose the Sydney uni stuff add some more interesting and tantalising pictures also write a bio that really sells yourself. Lastly a couple of weeks on here is nothing some people don’t get a meet for a few months

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Have a look at the profiles you are drawn to send messages to,try and make yours just as enticing.

I think the smiling pic is great though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have a look at the profiles you are drawn to send messages to,try and make yours just as enticing.

I think the smiling pic is great though

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a look at the profiles you are drawn to send messages to,try and make yours just as enticing.

I think the smiling pic is great though

Thank you!"

I would say go to some local swinging clubs too, get to know ppl socially there. I joined fab to put my name on a guest list for cupids in Manchester.

Other than that just make sure your profile is interesting and the best advice I got given when I first started was put a face pic up. I wasnt getting many views till did that and pretty much overnight the amount of views I got doubled.

Good luck and just keep persevering

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Still got the warning message i see

You’re asking for advice and not taking any immediate steps to rectify your Profile.

Good luck op, you’ll need it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Still got the warning message i see

You’re asking for advice and not taking any immediate steps to rectify your Profile.

Good luck op, you’ll need it

I have deleted the Sydney uni paragraph as per the advice. Haven't had a chance to do other tweaks as been away but will do this weekend. Sorry hadnt realised there was a timer!

Thanks for the gee up...

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

No there’s no timer, but often you spend time giving advice to someone, who that day asks for help with their Profile and later when you check the basic stuff hasn’t been changed. Means you are less likely to help someone else.

If I started a thread asking for help and in the next hour I started to get advice and help, I’d start to do the basics. Removing the Sydney thing doesn’t take anytime.

It’s not you Op as I hardly helped your Profile but just recently I’ve started to say bollocks to those seeking advice, let them carry on, plenty out there if they’d just do a simple search.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have deleted the Sydney uni paragraph as per the advice.

Oh no you haven't !

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have deleted the Sydney uni paragraph as per the advice.

Oh no you haven't !"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have deleted the Sydney uni paragraph as per the advice.

Oh no you haven't !

I have. Specifically the paragraph about Sydney uni. Still got a general disclaimer on there as there are photos on my profile. So hold on, are you saying there's no need for any sort of disclaimer on there? I misunderstood, I thought it was just the whole Sydney uni stuff that was bollocks, which I removed...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No there’s no timer, but often you spend time giving advice to someone, who that day asks for help with their Profile and later when you check the basic stuff hasn’t been changed. Means you are less likely to help someone else.

If I started a thread asking for help and in the next hour I started to get advice and help, I’d start to do the basics. Removing the Sydney thing doesn’t take anytime.

It’s not you Op as I hardly helped your Profile but just recently I’ve started to say bollocks to those seeking advice, let them carry on, plenty out there if they’d just do a simple search. "

No worries, thank you for the help...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read faq

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