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By *ust fun72 OP   Man
over a year ago

paisley

Have been on a week or so now and getting no where have very open and honest with people and tried to speak to women looking for the same thing as me it’s seems it’s a closed shop among the people I’m talking to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have been on a week or so now and getting no where have very open and honest with people and tried to speak to women looking for the same thing as me it’s seems it’s a closed shop among the people I’m talking to "

A week isn't very long in fab terms at all tbh

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

A week is nothing here i am afraid. Sometimes people go a long time withour a meet.

You can expand your profile and say more of what you have to offer. Increase your chances.

Look up threads by successful men on how to improve profile.

Although honest on your profile the married part may put people off.

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By *ust fun72 OP   Man
over a year ago

paisley

Ok thanks

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By *ust fun72 OP   Man
over a year ago

paisley

I know what you’re saying about the married bit but if I didn’t put that people will find out some where along the line and I don’t want to lead people on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what you’re saying about the married bit but if I didn’t put that people will find out some where along the line and I don’t want to lead people on "

I think it's best to be honest about that bit as it gives the other person a choice and you're being honest! But it will be swings and roundabouts

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I know what you’re saying about the married bit but if I didn’t put that people will find out some where along the line and I don’t want to lead people on "

Best to be honest.

Have heard of women who want to meet married men as less of a commitment.

Some do not want the hassle if spouse finds out.

Others judge,( happily admit we do ) and do not like to meet people who possibly cheating on partner.

Just remember to personalise messages to people you send based on their profile. Inject a bit of humour. Do not do the copy and paste thing and send to all. Some also consider it polite to send a face picture with your first message.

Just do all you can to stand out from the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week.

I'm unsure what you had been told about the site, or swinging as a "lifestyle" but it certainly isn't dial-a-clunge.

Don't mean to sound harsh I'm just straight talking, but on here you're like a minnow in the Pacific Ocean.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Yeah OP a week is nothing I don’t know what your expectations of this site are but just be patient and work on your profile

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Hahaha a week !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been here two weeks pal, kind of in the same boat but not sure what your after in relation to me. You’ve just got to plod on mate and put yourself out there. I came here just out of curiosity, with no expectation of anything and after some trial and error an a stroke of luck im now chatting with some good people and lovely women. Not trying to rush into anything or push my luck, just steadily floating along with the current

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what you’re saying about the married bit but if I didn’t put that people will find out some where along the line and I don’t want to lead people on "

a better profile pic may help your one seems very dark at the mo unless you wanted like that lol

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Have been on a week or so now and getting no where have very open and honest with people and tried to speak to women looking for the same thing as me it’s seems it’s a closed shop among the people I’m talking to "

I'd say that it's more closed legs than closed shop for you

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Lol you boys expect far to much

A week 2weeks this isn't sign up and fuck in ten mins out the effort in. Dear me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been here two weeks pal, kind of in the same boat but not sure what your after in relation to me. You’ve just got to plod on mate and put yourself out there. I came here just out of curiosity, with no expectation of anything and after some trial and error an a stroke of luck im now chatting with some good people and lovely women. Not trying to rush into anything or push my luck, just steadily floating along with the current "

i think i know why you are having a bit more success than the OP lol not that i am a size queen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could be on here months without even a reply to a message.

It's good your honest about being married as it does give people the option to be ok with it or not.

Being a guy you are lost in the sea of male profiles.

It's going to take alot of effort on your part to get a woman that wants to meet.

It maybe unfair but it's fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean, people viewing quite regularly, but not much contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose it just luck of the draw, most men have little chance of winning, but if you don’t by a ticket..

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't think putting threads lime this is going to help makes you sound a bit whinny like ppl on here should be picking you over the 1000s other blokes on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just give it time. A week isn’t long at all.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

If you're complaining after a week, and you're married, shows a very shallow side of you. I wouldn't go near you.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"If you're complaining after a week, and you're married, shows a very shallow side of you. I wouldn't go near you."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found this site with an ex . Within days we were inudated with single guys offers . We found clubs best as a couple and then arranged privately with people we met there . Im now on as single and so is she lol . We still bump into each other occasionally at a club . As a single guy i have had varied success . As well as fair share of timewasters and fakes . I dont ask for verifications either which is why i only have a few but just remember be polite and stick to it rudeness gets you nowhere amd it takes time to build up sexual chemistry over an instant message so make yourself stand out . Also be polite .

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