FabSwingers.com forum: Can anyone help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What’s wrong with my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s wrong with my profile "

Erm, the fact that no one can see it?

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

5 meets in 7months... seems your profile isnt too bad fella

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"What’s wrong with my profile

Erm, the fact that no one can see it?"

i can.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

The photos are of women and not of you. Seems almost like a gallery of conquests rather than a genuine portrayal of you and what you’re offering.

Text reads pretty well, maybe pack it out a bit with what you’re looking for and can offer.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your photos are basically all of women. Why are you not showing as much of your body as you are of the women you have met?

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"What’s wrong with my profile

Erm, the fact that no one can see it?"

and hes blocked single fellas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this one of look at me threads!?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

None of the pictures are of you...how the hell did admin even pass those?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s wrong with my profile

Erm, the fact that no one can see it?

i can."

Awww maybe its just me then.

Shame really

I was hoping to pick up some tips from OP's pics

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"What’s wrong with my profile

Erm, the fact that no one can see it?

i can.

Awww maybe its just me then.

Shame really

I was hoping to pick up some tips from OP's pics"

hes doing well with meets, im no expert but that says too me its ok

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"What’s wrong with my profile

Erm, the fact that no one can see it?

i can.

Awww maybe its just me then.

Shame really

I was hoping to pick up some tips from OP's pics"

Nope, I can’t see either

Maybe I blocked him for having a shit profile

(joking)

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"What’s wrong with my profile

Erm, the fact that no one can see it?

i can.

Awww maybe its just me then.

Shame really

I was hoping to pick up some tips from OP's pics

Nope, I can’t see either

Maybe I blocked him for having a shit profile

(joking)"

haha maybe hes blocked women by mistake

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is this any better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What’s wrong with my profile

Erm, the fact that no one can see it?

i can.

Awww maybe its just me then.

Shame really

I was hoping to pick up some tips from OP's pics

Haven’t blocked you seeing u next week

Nope, I can’t see either

Maybe I blocked him for having a shit profile

(joking)"

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

Blocked here too

Rabbit

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Is this any better "

try some plain/normal pictures of you. some of them may be considered extreme to some in here...

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Blocked here too

Rabbit "

single women it seems cant message or view you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You taken ladies and asking for ransom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 pictures of women

1 picture of yourself

Looks alright to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U have more pics of your partners than of you.. i dont want to see ur sexual history id want to see you

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"U have more pics of your partners than of you.. i dont want to see ur sexual history id want to see you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None of the pictures are of you...how the hell did admin even pass those?! "

That’s what I was thinking

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"U have more pics of your partners than of you.. i dont want to see ur sexual history id want to see you "

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

"What’s wrong with my profile

Erm, the fact that no one can see it?"

I can see it.

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By *axxonBlackMan
over a year ago

north

"What’s wrong with my profile "

You have a pic of your face, with other photos showing exactly what you into, i think it’s brilliant mate and verification is good.

If Anyone complains they should go look for the next.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I hate seeing action pictures, total turnoff, I suspect many women feel the same.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"Blocked here too

Rabbit

single women it seems cant message or view you??"

I think we all just pissed him off in a previous thread and he blocked us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at other single men’s profiles, you’ll get a good idea what women want to see. You’d not go wrong if you take a leaf out of polar bears profile pics x

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Looks good to me OP x

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

You should add a bit about kink, looks like that’s important to you

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

[Removed by poster at 23/03/19 08:57:02]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s wrong with my profile "

The photos - just 1 of you, the rest of women I assume you have had sex with. A complete turn off for most women, and I suspect admin will remove them rather sheepish

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Can see now!

Typos in your profile; first sentence the ‘to’ should be ‘too’, there shouldn’t be an ‘s’ on the end of ‘contacts’, you’ve missed and ‘I ‘ and a ‘you’ in the last sentence.

From what I know of you having chatted briefly is that you’ve said you’re experienced in BDSM which is also clear from your trophy style photos, yet, you don’t mention any of that in your profile.

You’re not really saying too much about who you’re looking for and what type of meets you’d prefer, but your photos hint that again your focus is on Domination.

I’d also include more photos of you rather than your conquests as although it’s good to see your skill set in BDSM, your profile should be more about you than them. Some clear photos of your body whether naked or clothed would be a good start.

Hope that helps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s wrong with my profile

The photos - just 1 of you, the rest of women I assume you have had sex with. A complete turn off for most women, and I suspect admin will remove them rather sheepish

Are they women he's had sex with?

Hmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s wrong with my profile

The photos - just 1 of you, the rest of women I assume you have had sex with. A complete turn off for most women, and I suspect admin will remove them rather sheepish

Are they women he's had sex with?

Hmmmm"

Exactly. But regardless, they shouldn't be on a single male profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the first pic : is that a fanny having a bash at karaoke ?

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By *axxonBlackMan
over a year ago

north

"What’s wrong with my profile

Are they women he's had sex with?

Hmmmm"

Another stupid response, just looking for attention...... how can you not tell they are all women???????, that’s body shaming you know or rather go to specsavers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s wrong with my profile

The photos - just 1 of you, the rest of women I assume you have had sex with. A complete turn off for most women, and I suspect admin will remove them rather sheepish

he is in all of them (well, at least parts of him are) ... so they pass submission guidelines afaik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s wrong with my profile

Are they women he's had sex with?

Hmmmm

Another stupid response, just looking for attention...... how can you not tell they are all women???????, that’s body shaming you know or rather go to specsavers "

Thats not what I meant, my lovely

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"What’s wrong with my profile

Are they women he's had sex with?

Hmmmm

Another stupid response, just looking for attention...... how can you not tell they are all women???????, that’s body shaming you know or rather go to specsavers "

Duh.... she's questioning whether he actually had sex with them not whether they are women!!

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By *axxonBlackMan
over a year ago

north

"What’s wrong with my profile

Are they women he's had sex with?

Hmmmm

Another stupid response, just looking for attention...... how can you not tell they are all women???????, that’s body shaming you know or rather go to specsavers

Thats not what I meant, my lovely"

That’s exactly what you meant and it’s wrong, he asked for advise you should give if you have one

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"What’s wrong with my profile

Are they women he's had sex with?

Hmmmm

Another stupid response, just looking for attention...... how can you not tell they are all women???????, that’s body shaming you know or rather go to specsavers

Thats not what I meant, my lovely

That’s exactly what you meant and it’s wrong, he asked for advise you should give if you have one"

your wrong im afraid.

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By *axxonBlackMan
over a year ago

north

"What’s wrong with my profile

Are they women he's had sex with?

Hmmmm

Another stupid response, just looking for attention...... how can you not tell they are all women???????, that’s body shaming you know or rather go to specsavers

Duh.... she's questioning whether he actually had sex with them not whether they are women!!

Eh? Dunno if it’s full moon in fab today or just me but I give up, good luck to youse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so I should take the women off now let’s ask this how many of you women would want to have a look at my profile

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"What’s wrong with my profile

Are they women he's had sex with?

Hmmmm

Another stupid response, just looking for attention...... how can you not tell they are all women???????, that’s body shaming you know or rather go to specsavers

Duh.... she's questioning whether he actually had sex with them not whether they are women!!

Eh? Dunno if it’s full moon in fab today or just me but I give up, good luck to youse "

Nope, it’s definitely you.

She’s simply asking if they are people he’s has sex with, or are you now thinking that I’m claiming they’re aliens :p

I think you need to take a chill pill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think admin should rule that the person in the profile must have at least 50% of them in their pic, if they have others with them.

How people get away with showing most of someone else's face I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s wrong with my profile "
nothing i want to bum all your bum holes

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By *axxonBlackMan
over a year ago

north

I’m def chill, you have no idea, he’s verified by verified pple, use common sense

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Can't see the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s wrong with my profile

The photos - just 1 of you, the rest of women I assume you have had sex with. A complete turn off for most women, and I suspect admin will remove them rather sheepish

he is in all of them (well, at least parts of him are) ... so they pass submission guidelines afaik"

A white sock and a knee in one? A hand in another, and a very blurred hand in a third? In every sexual pic the focus is fully on the woman with a small percentage of an unidentifiable male visible

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I think admin should rule that the person in the profile must have at least 50% of them in their pic, if they have others with them.

How people get away with showing most of someone else's face I don't know. "

That’ll remove a lot of guys taking pictures of their POV in pics which although I get can be something people would want to see it doesn’t actually add anything to their profile. A profile should be representative of them not their conquests

I’ve been deceived a lot by POV pics!

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Ok so I should take the women off now let’s ask this how many of you women would want to have a look at my profile "

Why don’t you make some changes and then we can go and have another look

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

The most attractive pics to me are good male body shots, I have no desire to see female arses and a face pic alone is not enough I disregard such profiles. The OP needs to get some good body pics of himself, alone, to make his profile worth looking at IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so I should take the women off now let’s ask this how many of you women would want to have a look at my profile "

For me personally OP I always look at a profile before opening a message & the photos you've got of others would put me off even reading your message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have a look now

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Ok so I should take the women off now let’s ask this how many of you women would want to have a look at my profile

For me personally OP I always look at a profile before opening a message & the photos you've got of others would put me off even reading your message. "

This, I would delete on seeing that first pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so I should take the women off now let’s ask this how many of you women would want to have a look at my profile "

Looks ok to me. I'm not your type though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you know I have a type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think admin should rule that the person in the profile must have at least 50% of them in their pic, if they have others with them.

How people get away with showing most of someone else's face I don't know. "

Same for all profile types, couples and women too.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Too much of a picture collectors album, women don't need to see an encyclopedia of every other woman you've met.

But at least the pics of you, are actually you this time

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Have a look now "

You still need to fix those typos, also the first paragraph is just one long ass sentence, although it’s better now with less trophy photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know I have a type "

It reads that you like gym fit people like yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No it doesn’t say that

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"No it doesn’t say that "

Playing devil’s advocate here, it kind of reads that way In the last paragraph

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I would get rid of the "please no men" bit as it makes you sound at best a bit paranoid. Why not delete the line, and block single men from messaging you instead?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Definitely break up your stuff into coherent sentences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too much of a picture collectors album, women don't need to see an encyclopedia of every other woman you've met.

But at least the pics of you, are actually you this time "

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"How do you know I have a type

It reads that you like gym fit people like yourself.

I guess better to write his preferences like that, in a positive way, rather than a list of people he doesn't want to meet.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

There are some things that even the best profile on fab can't fix...

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"What’s wrong with my profile "

I think I've worked it out. There's nothing wrong with your *profile*...

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By *atcake1973Man
over a year ago

stoke on Trent

So many look

But don't bother with a wink

Or like of my pictures

Why loon then ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know I have a type

It reads that you like gym fit people like yourself.

I guess better to write his preferences like that, in a positive way, rather than a list of people he doesn't want to meet. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many look

But don't bother with a wink

Or like of my pictures

Why loon then ???

Are you joking? How can they know if they want to meet you without looking at your profile?

They maybe look and realise you're not compatible so no point mailing or winking.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"So many look

But don't bother with a wink

Or like of my pictures

Why loon then ???

Are you joking? How can they know if they want to meet you without looking at your profile?

They maybe look and realise you're not compatible so no point mailing or winking. "

I do wonder how people survive life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your first pic, in uniform, isn't you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your first pic, in uniform, isn't you?!

Surely you must be mistaken?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your first pic, in uniform, isn't you?!

Surely you must be mistaken?

It's a shame... The guy it really is, is hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your first pic, in uniform, isn't you?!

Google image search is thee best invention.. really OP us women arent daft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a little thing i noticed you say no men but are looking for couples kind of a red flag for most and also stating your an alpha male gives off a cocky your better then every other guy here kinda vibe again red flags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've had 3 meets and your problem is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've had 3 meets and your problem is? "

Must be doing something right he's beating me

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"You've had 3 meets and your problem is? "

5 in total

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile seems good to me ( to who ever couples are info guys). So you shouldn't be worried about it. Sad thing is that 99% of people do NOT read profiles and then after a long conversation they get offended when u tell me to read it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s wrong with my profile "
not a lot ,pics a bit graphic maybe and not much write up but 3 veris you'll do fine here

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"Blocked here too

Rabbit "

Same.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"None of the pictures are of you...how the hell did admin even pass those?! "

I do wonder

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I think the consensus is there isn't enough of you available on pics to see anything about you.

I feel many women would delete a message based just on that alone,ie they don't want to see more of other women than you...

However if that's how you want to run your profile then your choice and the chance you take

Miss

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