FabSwingers.com forum: Married Man

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Morning,

No doubt I'm going to get a lot of criticism for this but here goes...I'm a married man who's been looking for some discreet-wife-doesn't-know fun for a while now. There are lots of reasons for this, none of which excuse the deceit but do explain my position and the reasons behind why I'm looking to find extra-martial fun.

I'm not going to go in to them though. They are personal and if you are already dead against this kind of thing they aren't going to convince you. I'm not looking to leave my wife, or for any drama. I'm not looking for companionship but neither am I looking for a quick shag. I'd like to have someone to chat to with no strings as much as I'd like someone to play with.

I know that there are women on here that are in a similar situation, and that there are women that don't mind the attached-guy thing, because I've chatted to them in the past and things have got pretty far without anything happening. I'd like that again, life is short and sometimes shit and this little bit of extra excitement makes it a bit more fun.

Apologies to anyone that might be offended by this but please don't try to give me any advise. If you've read this and are interested in chatting I'd love to hear from you x

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

You want to include at least a couple of photos on your profile. The way it looks now isn’t going to generate any interest... they don’t have to be face ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You want to include at least a couple of photos on your profile. The way it looks now isn’t going to generate any interest... they don’t have to be face ones. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

Profile is barely average.

No pics.

From a female perspective, it’s a no from me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No public pictures is a non starter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You want to include at least a couple of photos on your profile. The way it looks now isn’t going to generate any interest... they don’t have to be face ones.

I have some that are private, I just have to be careful because if someone recognises me then it'll be a whole heap of trouble! My other problem is that although I've chatted to plenty of people no-one has verified me, so yeah, I agree, not the most attractive prospect... "
no one can verify you if they have only chatted u need to meet.. pics can be of ur chest or body surely no1s gonna recognise u from that?

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Good luck op I hope you find a like minded lady who can brighten up Ur experience here

Again some pics are a must and I don't personally engage with anyone unless I can see who I'm chatting with

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"You want to include at least a couple of photos on your profile. The way it looks now isn’t going to generate any interest... they don’t have to be face ones.

I have some that are private, I just have to be careful because if someone recognises me then it'll be a whole heap of trouble! My other problem is that although I've chatted to plenty of people no-one has verified me, so yeah, I agree, not the most attractive prospect... no one can verify you if they have only chatted u need to meet.. pics can be of ur chest or body surely no1s gonna recognise u from that?"

Yeah, I hate the whole, why has no one verified me, we've messaged! That's not what verification is. It's about this person being who they claim to be.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Ego need boosting? Is that why you're here?

Wouldn't touch a married man with a barge pole. Might be a swinger, but would never cheat on another woman. Had it done to me.

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