FabSwingers.com forum: How do you get noticed?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m good looking, clean and tidy, funny , no hang ups , good size and A statically pleasing manhood.

Have a gorgeous Place . Able to wine and dine.

Yet I can’t get a word in edgeways..... unless I want a bloke.....

what am I doing wrong ?

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Who knows? I don't have a clue. Am sure you will get a number of thoughts though.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

You asking for profile advice mate or approaching people?

I live towards MK way and we are blessed to be surrounded by a large amount of gorgeous people.

Widen search. Taylor the message and be realistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People notice when they feel an attraction you can't make someone notice you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Probably nothing. 8 weeks is a relatively short time for a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m good looking, clean and tidy, funny , no hang ups , good size and A statically pleasing manhood.

Have a gorgeous Place . Able to wine and dine.

Yet I can’t get a word in edgeways..... unless I want a bloke.....

what am I doing wrong ? "

You should take a look a my thread its in here somewhere a lot of helpful people the only advice I could give is I suppose spruce up your profile a bit instead of 3 lines make it standout that's what a lot would advise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People notice when they feel an attraction you can't make someone notice you. "

I noticed you alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a man in the ocean of other men? Your profile doesn't stand out the slightest. Try making it more appealing?

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By *oupleNeedPlus1Couple
over a year ago

Reading

There's not much going on in your profile hon.

And everything you said is just your opinion not everyone will think the same.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have 1 varification from a well varified fabber.

I'm sure you will do well on here .. Be polite,respectful and never pushy with your messages. Patience is a virtue that we never seem to learn..

Good things come to he who waits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's not much going on in your profile hon.

And everything you said is just your opinion not everyone will think the same.

Good luck"

There is a lot going on your profile

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By *oupleNeedPlus1Couple
over a year ago

Reading

"There's not much going on in your profile hon.

And everything you said is just your opinion not everyone will think the same.

Good luck

There is a lot going on your profile

Are you just here to wink at every female reply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's not much going on in your profile hon.

And everything you said is just your opinion not everyone will think the same.

Good luck

There is a lot going on your profile

Are you just here to wink at every female reply lol "

Y don't you like being winked at I can do other things

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By *oupleNeedPlus1Couple
over a year ago

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"There's not much going on in your profile hon.

And everything you said is just your opinion not everyone will think the same.

Good luck

There is a lot going on your profile

Are you just here to wink at every female reply lol

Y don't you like being winked at I can do other things

I'm good thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's not much going on in your profile hon.

And everything you said is just your opinion not everyone will think the same.

Good luck

There is a lot going on your profile

Are you just here to wink at every female reply lol

Y don't you like being winked at I can do other things

I'm good thanks

Lol

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By *attoo.GentMan
over a year ago

Electric Avenue

When you find out, let me know!

I am struggling for a reply, let alone a meet haha.

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

You have said more about yourself here than on your profile

. Sure most like us would just skip by it.

Why not work on it a bit. You say can wine and dine use that for a starter. Say what you looking for and also what you can offer. Before even send a message most will read a profile. If nothing there you shooting yourself in the foot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m good looking, clean and tidy, funny , no hang ups , good size and A statically pleasing manhood.

Have a gorgeous Place . Able to wine and dine.

Yet I can’t get a word in edgeways..... unless I want a bloke.....

what am I doing wrong ? "

Good looking/attractiveness is subjective...to state that one is "good looking" on a profile is an instant turn off for me, which would result in me stopping perusing your profile...

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

You are under 6ft for a start.

You want a spark but are say you don't get noticed

Profile to short says nothing about you

And go to a club and socialize like actual people this is not click and fuck people can hide behind social media and block people interact face to face not on technology people get the feel of you face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said you were good looking?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Who said you were good looking?"

Ouch, I tried to skirt round that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who said you were good looking?

Ouch, I tried to skirt round that one."

I'm just asking as I disagree. That's all.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

"Who said you were good looking?"

Ooooof right in the feels.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"Who said you were good looking?"
His mum of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who said you were good looking?

Ooooof right in the feels. "

It would be different if he wrote "people say I'm good looking" or similar.. I wouldn't post anything like that about myself. It's for others to judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who said you were good looking? His mum of course

I suppose

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By *attoo.GentMan
over a year ago

Electric Avenue

"Who said you were good looking?

Ouch, I tried to skirt round that one.

I'm just asking as I disagree. That's all."

A home run straight back to reality!!

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

If a profile stands out and tells me about the user, then it catches my attention.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sell yourself on your profile. Why would someone want to talk to, potentially meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And so modest with it

You haven't asked for profile advice so can't give it, but would definitely start there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who said you were good looking?

Ooooof right in the feels.

It would be different if he wrote "people say I'm good looking" or similar.. I wouldn't post anything like that about myself. It's for others to judge."

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I’m good looking, clean and tidy, funny , no hang ups , good size and A statically pleasing manhood.

Have a gorgeous Place . Able to wine and dine.

Yet I can’t get a word in edgeways..... unless I want a bloke.....

what am I doing wrong ? "

Women might not be able to fit past your ego?

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"I’m good looking, clean and tidy, funny , no hang ups , good size and A statically pleasing manhood.

Have a gorgeous Place . Able to wine and dine.

Yet I can’t get a word in edgeways..... unless I want a bloke.....

what am I doing wrong ? "

Profile profile profile

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By *exeiraMan
over a year ago

London

From experience. Your 1 of many men on here. Women have a choice from 1000s. Unless your athletic, good looking or not MR average then I guess it works. I have had a tough time on here. But do very well face to face interactions. It shows how the internet is quite shallow as people base you on pics. They don't even know you and judge you. I once met a woman in person who is on here and she ignored my messages from here. We got chatting and hit of straight away while in a bar in London. We spent the night in after. So it goes to show that it's competitive.Keep your head high. If you get ignored don't take it to heart. You are you. Enjoy life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the messages!

Write a profile, make sure you sell yourself , but don’t make yourself sound like an egotistical prick. But remember you’re not good looking

Awesome I’ve got this!

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By *riggler90Couple
over a year ago

Essex and Dublin

"Who said you were good looking?

Ouch, I tried to skirt round that one."

Ha! Killing me!

All subjective. Someone telling me they are good looking instantly makes the opposite true in my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is the same just keep chatting and you never know doors may open

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Thanks for the messages!

Write a profile, make sure you sell yourself , but don’t make yourself sound like an egotistical prick. But remember you’re not good looking

Awesome I’ve got this! "

Lol glad you took it all in good spirits! That's exactly the attitude to take in regards to fab. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who said you were good looking?"

Ha ...I said that also but a little more subtle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m good looking, clean and tidy, funny , no hang ups , good size and A statically pleasing manhood.

Have a gorgeous Place . Able to wine and dine.

Yet I can’t get a word in edgeways..... unless I want a bloke.....

what am I doing wrong ?

Women might not be able to fit past your ego? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who said you were good looking?

Ha ...I said that also but a little more subtle "

Well I just wondered. That was all. I still didn't get the answer though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Who said you were good looking?

Ha ...I said that also but a little more subtle

Well I just wondered. That was all. I still didn't get the answer though

I thought I did in my blanket statement , I understood exactly what you said. I need to word things in my profile ( when I do it ) correctly.

If you don’t find me beautiful... I’m okay with that... please don’t lost sleep over it will you x

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By *rinthiaMan
over a year ago

dundee

stick a frog on your cock....works for me

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By *lattyukbiMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Just my opinion but get yourself to a club. Verifications are not required to attend and there is a wide variety of types (members only, pay on the door).

That way people see the detail of you, not the Fab facade. You can display your charm and elegance, with a bit of luck, have some fun and the verifications and friendships that result help you along the way.

If you want a longer blether, drop me a message, no agenda.

Good luck

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

Good looking ?

Says who?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Well if you're looking for verifications there is an organised social going on in Northampton in April. There's a thread for it on here, put your name down, but until then happy 'swonging'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m good looking, clean and tidy, funny , no hang ups , good size and A statically pleasing manhood.

Have a gorgeous Place . Able to wine and dine.

Yet I can’t get a word in edgeways..... unless I want a bloke.....

what am I doing wrong ? "

Maybe you should drop some of this in your profile. Your bio bit could include some of this rather than what you have on there. Thr bio is there to sell yourself (not literally) rather than just mentioning what you like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good looking ?

Says who?"

Yawn

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well if you're looking for verifications there is an organised social going on in Northampton in April. There's a thread for it on here, put your name down, but until then happy 'swonging'

Changed! And thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well if you're looking for verifications there is an organised social going on in Northampton in April. There's a thread for it on here, put your name down, but until then happy 'swonging'

On the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who said you were good looking?"

Beat me to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Who said you were good looking?

Beat me to it.

#nooneeverokay

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

Why do you think you need verifications to go to a club? Plenty of people aren't members of this or any other site and go to clubs.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I've removed posts and will close this now to stop further unkindness.

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