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By *ampantxxx OP   Man
over a year ago

redditch

Can anyone give good advice as to what to say in an initial message to make couples comeback and say yes!? When searching for couples I make sure I choose couples who accept single guys, bi guys etc, my message is certainly not a one liner and I just keep it to about 5 lines and to the point but I just cannot seem to get anywhere? Would welcome any feedback...

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

There is no way to make any couple message back. They will only do if want to.

And unfortunately any advice given may apply to one couple but not another.

It sounds like you using the right approach already. Personalizing messages to the profile etc and being polite and respectful.

Just stick with what you are doing and with patience and time sure you will find what you are looking for.

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By *oupleNeedPlus1Couple
over a year ago

Reading


"There is no way to make any couple message back. They will only do if want to.

And unfortunately any advice given may apply to one couple but not another.

It sounds like you using the right approach already. Personalizing messages to the profile etc and being polite and respectful.

Just stick with what you are doing and with patience and time sure you will find what you are looking for."

Agreed.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Can anyone give good advice as to what to say in an initial message to make couples comeback and say yes!? When searching for couples I make sure I choose couples who accept single guys, bi guys etc, my message is certainly not a one liner and I just keep it to about 5 lines and to the point but I just cannot seem to get anywhere? Would welcome any feedback..."

You may want to try clubs mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offer a fiver. But don't. It's against site rules I think. I'll stfu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of our biggest issues with single males is when they don’t address us both. We are here as a couple, we message as a couple and we definitely play as a couple,so don’t message either one of us without mention of our partner.

It sounds like your on the right track though. Going to clubs is a great suggestion

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By *ampantxxx OP   Man
over a year ago

redditch

I respect what you say and everytime I do send a message I always start with 'Hi to you both' or something like that and I am always polite and never try and come across as greedy or desperate.

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By *ampantxxx OP   Man
over a year ago

redditch

And yes I am thinking about going to a club very soon as I know a couple who would be happy to get me in as a guest.

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I just put... Wanna fuck??

It'll be a yes or no

Does work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Offer a fiver. But don't. It's against site rules I think. I'll stfu"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone give good advice as to what to say in an initial message to make couples comeback and say yes!? When searching for couples I make sure I choose couples who accept single guys, bi guys etc, my message is certainly not a one liner and I just keep it to about 5 lines and to the point but I just cannot seem to get anywhere? Would welcome any feedback..."

We think you probably do everything right, but you need to consider the fact that your message is just the start, if they like it the next step is going through your profile and if they don't feel attracted to you by your photo then you can't do much about it. Try to upload more photos to your public gallery and show many different faces of you, it might increases your chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep eye out in people near to me for couples who are looking for something you feel you can offer look out for status updates that's looking for single or bisexual men

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