FabSwingers.com forum: Help me out

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I’m sure you’re all going to say I need pics and verifications. But can you give me advice on getting started. I’m a young professional, tall and not a bad looking lad. When I message people I attach an image but due to my job I have to keep photos on profile private. Any tips on actually getting somewhere on this site? I want to start having some fun! I’m easy going, well dressed and can hold a good conversation.

By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

When you send images, how do you know you're not sending them to people you work with ?

By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Everyone thinks their particular job precludes them from posting any pictures. However, to get a base hit you really need pictures. If you decide just to go to a club, you might well run into someone you know. If you can truly never ever have anyone find out about this side of your life as the risk is so very high, then this isn’t the lifestyle for you.

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Put pictures on your profile. Headless pictures. Cover any tattoos/ scars/ birthmarks. There, discreet.

By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You said it! No pics and also not being able to accommodate isn't going to get you very far on here tbh.

By *exyFusionCouple
over a year ago

Near to you

"Put pictures on your profile. Headless pictures. Cover any tattoos/ scars/ birthmarks. There, discreet. "

This. I'll assume your coworkers don't know what you look like naked? Would they recognise your photo out of 30 million other men in a photo of you wearing a pair of jeans, a white t-shirt and no head? Of course not. There are many people on here with very important jobs - but in this day and age of photo editing, a profile with discreet photos is easily done. A profile with photos will not likely get ANY interest whatsoever.

By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

You answered your own questions OP. If your profile truly reflects you then leave it. There's advice on mine, should you wish to use it.