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"We've been to quite a few socials. You will be fine. Don't wait to be approached, smile, make eye contact and introduce yourself to people even the ones you're not intetested in sexually. Expect some people to appear a little stand offish but remind yourself that they're probably shy too. What you can expect is a group of people chatting, nothing more, nothing less. I hope you have a great time." Thank you kindly 
I'm not shy as such however I feel pressure of the first experience.
Thanks again for the booster.
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"We've been to quite a few socials. You will be fine. Don't wait to be approached, smile, make eye contact and introduce yourself to people even the ones you're not intetested in sexually. Expect some people to appear a little stand offish but remind yourself that they're probably shy too. What you can expect is a group of people chatting, nothing more, nothing less. I hope you have a great time. Thank you kindly
I'm not shy as such however I feel pressure of the first experience.
Thanks again for the booster.
Chill chat smile,confidence... "I feel that pressure too and I'm going in as part of a couple. I always try and smile at everyone, greet anyone within earshot etc. I enjoy a good social. | |||
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"We've been to quite a few socials. You will be fine. Don't wait to be approached, smile, make eye contact and introduce yourself to people even the ones you're not intetested in sexually. Expect some people to appear a little stand offish but remind yourself that they're probably shy too. What you can expect is a group of people chatting, nothing more, nothing less. I hope you have a great time. Thank you kindly
I'm not shy as such however I feel pressure of the first experience.
Thanks again for the booster.
Chill chat smile,confidence...
I feel that pressure too and I'm going in as part of a couple. I always try and smile at everyone, greet anyone within earshot etc.
I enjoy a good social."I bet. Immediate company is massive support but still, the thrill. I'll try to chat to attending people prior to the event just to feel that I know someone. Will see how it works | |||
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"I went to my first organised social on Saturday night, had a great time! Just be yourself and mingle with everyone. Good luck and have fun. Xx" Sure thanks, I'll do my best, thank you for courage. Popular event surely will make it easier for me. | |||
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"Hi All, I'm about come out of shell and go out for social event. Never been so not sure what to expect. Should I worry if not good enough? Any feedback is welcome and important. Neither way, confidence booster or depression starter " Just take cake and everyone will flock to you!!  | |||
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"Hi All, I'm about come out of shell and go out for social event. Never been so not sure what to expect. Should I worry if not good enough? Any feedback is welcome and important. Neither way, confidence booster or depression starter Just take cake and everyone will flock to you!! "Lol, I cook so can do. That would be quite an entry... Hello gorgeous!!! Homemade cakes!!! Anyone?   | |||
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"Hi OP. Are you going to an organised group social event or have you arranged a social meet with a person/couple from fab? I've had plenty of socials with individuals from fab and they are great. It just a cuppa or a pint and a chat. Profiles, photos and messaging can only get you so far and meeting people for real can give you more sense of who they are. You know pretty much straight away if there is any attraction. Socials often don't lead to anything else but it's always good to meet new people. I've not yet attended and organised group social because they are always when I've already made plans or am working. From what I've seen on here they are just a group from fab who meet to mingle and chat. They are good for getting known amongst other swingers and you may make friends and/or find future playmate Whichever it is I hope you have a great time "Hi, thank you for all your support. I'm aiming to attend event at the club first. I've seen fabers confirming attendance over update chats. I've also tried direct approach with people appealing to me however not successfully. Just like cold sale call... Thank you again, I'll keep Voyeuristic, learn from experienced fabers and have fun as much as possible | |||
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"Hi OP. Are you going to an organised group social event or have you arranged a social meet with a person/couple from fab? I've had plenty of socials with individuals from fab and they are great. It just a cuppa or a pint and a chat. Profiles, photos and messaging can only get you so far and meeting people for real can give you more sense of who they are. You know pretty much straight away if there is any attraction. Socials often don't lead to anything else but it's always good to meet new people. I've not yet attended and organised group social because they are always when I've already made plans or am working. From what I've seen on here they are just a group from fab who meet to mingle and chat. They are good for getting known amongst other swingers and you may make friends and/or find future playmate Whichever it is I hope you have a great time
Hi, thank you for all your support.
I'm aiming to attend event at the club first. I've seen fabers confirming attendance over update chats.
I've also tried direct approach with people appealing to me however not successfully. Just like cold sale call...
Thank you again, I'll keep Voyeuristic, learn from experienced fabers and have fun as much as possible "Clubs are great OP, I go as often as I'm able. Purple mamba in Nottingham is a brilliant little club. One of the best things about it being small is everyone is friendly and chats to everyone else. You can lose this a bit in big clubs because there are just so many people. Another club I love is the attic in Derby. It's a massive club with lots of different play areas and they often get 300+ people there on party nights. It can be a bit more difficult to get conversations started because of the amount of people there but just keep saying hi and people will talk to you. It you go to a club and see me there feel free to come up for a natter | |||
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"Hi OP. Are you going to an organised group social event or have you arranged a social meet with a person/couple from fab? I've had plenty of socials with individuals from fab and they are great. It just a cuppa or a pint and a chat. Profiles, photos and messaging can only get you so far and meeting people for real can give you more sense of who they are. You know pretty much straight away if there is any attraction. Socials often don't lead to anything else but it's always good to meet new people. I've not yet attended and organised group social because they are always when I've already made plans or am working. From what I've seen on here they are just a group from fab who meet to mingle and chat. They are good for getting known amongst other swingers and you may make friends and/or find future playmate Whichever it is I hope you have a great time
Hi, thank you for all your support.
I'm aiming to attend event at the club first. I've seen fabers confirming attendance over update chats.
I've also tried direct approach with people appealing to me however not successfully. Just like cold sale call...
Thank you again, I'll keep Voyeuristic, learn from experienced fabers and have fun as much as possible
Clubs are great OP, I go as often as I'm able.
Purple mamba in Nottingham is a brilliant little club. One of the best things about it being small is everyone is friendly and chats to everyone else. You can lose this a bit in big clubs because there are just so many people.
Another club I love is the attic in Derby. It's a massive club with lots of different play areas and they often get 300+ people there on party nights. It can be a bit more difficult to get conversations started because of the amount of people there but just keep saying hi and people will talk to you.
It you go to a club and see me there feel free to come up for a natter "Hey sure I will! That's funny, I live 5min walk from PM. Need to become a member tho. I was thinking about Attic as entry at least is guaranteed. 300??! It's massive! I'll reconsider PM to star with I guess. Well I hope to see You out there soon XXX Thank You for all help again TeaBe | |||
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"Going to a organised social is just like going to a new pub. But good organisers will try to ensure that your not left standing in a corner on your own" That sounds lovely. Obviously people know each other for years, it's just nice to have courage and support while you feel random. Thank you | |||
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"Going to a organised social is just like going to a new pub. But good organisers will try to ensure that your not left standing in a corner on your own That sounds lovely. Obviously people know each other for years, it's just nice to have courage and support while you feel random. Thank you "Most socials have a mix ofor regulars and newbies | |||
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"Going to a organised social is just like going to a new pub. But good organisers will try to ensure that your not left standing in a corner on your own That sounds lovely. Obviously people know each other for years, it's just nice to have courage and support while you feel random. Thank you "Not necessarily in our experience. | |||
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"Going to a organised social is just like going to a new pub. But good organisers will try to ensure that your not left standing in a corner on your own" Yes the hosts are key. | |||
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"Going to a organised social is just like going to a new pub. But good organisers will try to ensure that your not left standing in a corner on your own That sounds lovely. Obviously people know each other for years, it's just nice to have courage and support while you feel random. Thank you
Not necessarily in our experience."We are going to York social soon and we know about 8 people there | |||
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"I always try to find the lost souls at socials I know what it's like to stand on your own like a spare part and none talks to you xx so if your ever atvs social I'm at i will seek you out and make sure your not alone x " Ooh, that's fab!XXX Thank You ever so much I would be delighted having Your company.
I can only hope I'll get spotted and approached by lovely soul magnet
I'll definitely will came and say Hi if we'll get to the same event.
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