FabSwingers.com forum: New guy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey all.

Have a read of my profile see what you think. I know it lacks photos. I can send them via message.

Ideally looking for solo females or couples.

Feel free to ask any questions.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Unfortunately if photos are lacking, you're not likely to get that far. This is a harsh environment for guys, and you need to do all you can to sell yourself, including having a variety of appealing pictures available publicly. (not just ones involving your penis)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will see what I can do. Thank you.

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Cannot accom. Zero public photos. You will struggle.

On the photos thing, it doesn’t need to be your face (equally not a truck load of willy pics from varying poorly lit, uninspiring angles). You can bring your personality and spirit out through pictures (yes this may seem hypocritical from a stealth profile, but I managed to do so on my previous, more accessible profile).

You need to give a little more to entice. Right now you’re sitting on the same shelf as hundreds. You know you have more about you, show a little pizazz.

Effort in = results out. Boring phrase, but accurate.

Best of British to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems like lots of people don’t accom. Plenty of places to use if you fancy being adventurous or plenty of hotels around.

I do send plenty of photos with my messages. Hopefully people won’t be shallow and go on photos alone. If you think my profile text makes me someone you want to find out more about..message me. You can see plenty of photos then.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think you misunderstand...no face pics and unable to accomodate is a common indicator of a cheating spouse which turns a lot of people off. Lemme go have a nosy at your profile and see what I think.

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By *hamrockingMan
over a year ago

Waterford

I'm in the same boat, it's ridiculously hard for a single guy on here to get a meet never mind verified.

I totally get the risk factor of unverified guys on here, sometimes justified from what I'm hearing during chats, but I'm an upfront non pushy guy who want everyone to enjoy themselves as safely as possible....

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

*blows out breath like a KwikFit mechanic about to tell someone that they might need a second mortgage to pay for the repairs needed*

Ok. Please take this in the spirit in which it is meant. Namely...helpful, and genuinely kind even though I’m going to sound like a total bitch.

Your profile is...erm...dull. Boring. Anodyne. Banal.

You say you like things rough but your status suggests a far more submissive bent.

There’s no personality in it. No humour. No sense of what it would be like to spend a few hours in your company. Would I have fun? Would it be intense? Would we get on?

It basically reads like you are a pleasant delivery guy...and just as forgettable.

Add that to the lack of photos and a random username and you have something that is passed over practically before you finish reading it.

Sit down and think about what your target market is and what key messages you want to get across to them and decide how you’re going to get it across in a way that will intrigue and excite from the get go. Simple marketing.

Most people will read your profile before deciding whether to read your message. I personally wouldn’t read your message even though you potentially could be my type.

I’m sorry for being so blunt but it’s better than giving you false platitudes. Good luck!

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By *urhamjayMan
over a year ago

Durham

"not just ones involving your penis "

Worse still, a collection of others.

We've seen that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very good feedback thank you. We all have different reasons for being private. I will have a rewrite when I get chance.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Very good feedback thank you. We all have different reasons for being private. I will have a rewrite when I get chance. "

I get the privacy thing - lots of people need to be discreet for a whole host of reasons. But a lot of them do very well on here while not giving anything personal away. Let us know when you’ve rewritten and taken some snaps and I’ll look again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 of sentences in your profile start with "I" ...

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It's not about you OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I keep my face covered because I’m cheating on my fiancé. I’m getting plenty of action. I think you just need to Bull shit loads on your profile. Most people are mugs and will swallow your shit as well as your cum

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By *iavoloCouple
over a year ago

Bexley/Buxton

Wow who told him to leave?

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