FabSwingers.com forum: Not our cup of tea....

By *ice n Naughty OP Couple
over a year ago

Surrey

How does anyone send a message to let that couple down but in a polite way, not to affend anyone lol.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Have you previously been talking to them or haven't responded yet?

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By *ndtheswingersMan
over a year ago

colchester

Honesty is definitely the right way forward.

Or tell them you are washing your hair that night

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Honesty is definitely the right way forward.

Or tell them you are washing your hair that night"

I would go with honesty, we aren't all everyone's cup of tea. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be honest. We're all supposed to be adults, and can reasonably expect the rejected to take it respectfully and wth dignity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block them and don’t waste your time....

You’re here for fun and your pleasure...

You don’t need to waste your time on a unnecessary conversation....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We aren't compatible I'm sorry but thankyou for taking an interest.

They have an answer and it's nice and polite.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Honesty is definitely the right way forward.

Or tell them you are washing your hair that night

I would go with honesty, we aren't all everyone's cup of tea. X"

If we we're we'd all be mugs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does anyone send a message to let that couple down but in a polite way, not to affend anyone lol.

How ever you do it you will get abuse from some people so a no thanks is probably best if you have to reply.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Yeah even if you say no thanks you might still get abuse so maybe just say “sorry your not our type but happy fabbing” but like was said before it doesn’t matter how you say it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sorry, but I don't think we're a match".

If they press me on it, they get ignored.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sorry, I don't think you're for us. Hope you find what you're looking for, happy Fabbing.

If they reply rudely or with anything other than obligation free well wishes, block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks but no thanks x

Normally works but some do chuck there teddy out pram like

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Looks like where after different things but keep having fun guys xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same way you're supposed to reply to single men. Read and block, with no reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is the best policy. Just say sorry not for us but if you arranged something and then have decided not to go just say x we are sorry but we have thought about this and decided your not for us, have fun x

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By *ish you were here!Couple
over a year ago

Kidderminster ...ish

"How does anyone send a message to let that couple down but in a polite way, not to affend anyone lol.

Not meeting at the moment....

One of us has syphilis

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"How does anyone send a message to let that couple down but in a polite way, not to affend anyone lol.

Not meeting at the moment....

One of us has syphilis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just tell them in a very polite way. I.e I'm very sorry but you are not for us. 90% of the time we receive a nice message back and 10% is abuse x

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

somewhere in the rules :no reply...usually means a no thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a sole male i can safely say either don't bother telling them at all or just tell them to f@#k off, that's my experience anyway!

The one's i hate most are when you reply to someone who has an obvious sarcastic sense of humour with a comment they've used in their own profile and they reply back calling you a sarcastic w@nker! That takes the biscuit in my book!

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

I say thank yoh for msg but sorry your not for us. I then wish them luck and am very polite. Never any reason to be rude... Unless I have an idea it a single guy and doesn't take the hint.. K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does anyone send a message to let that couple down but in a polite way, not to affend anyone lol.

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As said before, an honest and polite "no thanks, but good luck" shouldn't leave any room for criticism. That's not always the case. Rejection can always be tricky.

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