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"Ive been on here for two months trying to find women within the west midlands but had no luck. Ive been writing unique messages making an effort. Any ideas to increase my chances peeps ?" You've only got the one photo to share, whilst it's a good, happy-smiley pic, people need more to go on. | |||
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"Not a year?" Sorry I should have put been active here for the last two months since I joined fab last year | |||
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"Ive been on here for two months trying to find women within the west midlands but had no luck. Ive been writing unique messages making an effort. Any ideas to increase my chances peeps ? You've only got the one photo to share, whilst it's a good, happy-smiley pic, people need more to go on." Hmmm good point | |||
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"In my opinion if your going to show the good old cock pic "yawn"put it in friends only pics, so if they want to see it then they'll ask....be different "Ill bear that in mind  | |||
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"In my opinion if your going to show the good old cock pic "yawn"put it in friends only pics, so if they want to see it then they'll ask....be different "I have a discreet cock pic in my friends gallery and a much more overt, private version that I can send to women who ask. | |||
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"In my opinion if your going to show the good old cock pic "yawn"put it in friends only pics, so if they want to see it then they'll ask....be different
I have a discreet cock pic in my friends gallery and a much more overt, private version that I can send to women who ask."Did I ask? I forgot... | |||
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"In my opinion if your going to show the good old cock pic "yawn"put it in friends only pics, so if they want to see it then they'll ask....be different
I have a discreet cock pic in my friends gallery and a much more overt, private version that I can send to women who ask."That makes sense. I dont want to let every tom, dick and harry see my cock pic lol | |||
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"Do a spell check on your profile, nice pic but could do with few more. Maybe showing body/chest you don’t have to be naked keep the willy pics for once you get chatting (if the lady wants them). Good luck. " Done and done | |||
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"In my opinion if your going to show the good old cock pic "yawn"put it in friends only pics, so if they want to see it then they'll ask....be different
I have a discreet cock pic in my friends gallery and a much more overt, private version that I can send to women who ask.
Did I ask? I forgot... "Feel free to ask nicely  | |||
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"Do a spell check on your profile, nice pic but could do with few more. Maybe showing body/chest you don’t have to be naked keep the willy pics for once you get chatting (if the lady wants them). Good luck. Done and done " Its much better now  Though you've still a minor typo in there, I'll let you find it though. | |||
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"In my opinion if your going to show the good old cock pic "yawn"put it in friends only pics, so if they want to see it then they'll ask....be different
I have a discreet cock pic in my friends gallery and a much more overt, private version that I can send to women who ask.
Did I ask? I forgot...
Feel free to ask nicely "Lol | |||
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"Do a spell check on your profile, nice pic but could do with few more. Maybe showing body/chest you don’t have to be naked keep the willy pics for once you get chatting (if the lady wants them). Good luck. Done and done Its much better now Though you've still a minor typo in there, I'll let you find it though."Found it lol | |||
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"Your age may go against you. " Ive thought that recently. I am as genuine as anyone here. Im guessing there is much interest in the younger age group for males | |||
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"I have read on here that a lot of women will not be interested if guys are looking for tv's or have verifications from other men.." Thats been changed now | |||
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"Doh...have i missed the cock pic? " Friends only lol | |||
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"Ive been on here for two months trying to find women within the west midlands but had no luck. Ive been writing unique messages making an effort. Any ideas to increase my chances peeps ?" Yes. If you are trying to meet people in the West Midlands, then increase your chances by using the search facility and reading profiles to confine your approaches to people in that area. There seems very little point in approaching people 200 miles away. | |||
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"Not a year?" Try using the advice on your other thread OP. There's advice on my profile should you wish to use it. | |||
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"Ive been on here for two months trying to find women within the west midlands but had no luck. Ive been writing unique messages making an effort. Any ideas to increase my chances peeps ? Yes. If you are trying to meet people in the West Midlands, then increase your chances by using the search facility and reading profiles to confine your approaches to people in that area. There seems very little point in approaching people 200 miles away. " I have but I would travel with trust for the right people | |||
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"You say you are straight trying to find women but according to your profile you are also looking to meet TV/TS. " I like to chat with TS. If I dont put them as a like it doesnt let me message | |||
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"You say you are straight trying to find women but according to your profile you are also looking to meet TV/TS. I like to chat with TS. If I dont put them as a like it doesnt let me message" That's not true. They're not in my interests and they message me regularly. | |||
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"The advice I specifically have for you is not to send unwanted pm's OP. " Likewise | |||
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"Your current status is also insulting those who have spent time to help you too. " Hoo boy. 
Dude, would you rather people lie? Sure, you're sex on legs, women will be flocking to you in no time! ... It might make you feel good, but it won't help you get what you want. | |||
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"The advice I specifically have for you is not to send unwanted pm's OP. " No worries | |||
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"You say you are straight trying to find women but according to your profile you are also looking to meet TV/TS. I like to chat with TS. If I dont put them as a like it doesnt let me message That's not true. They're not in my interests and they message me regularly. " I message them for chat from time to time to seek advice | |||
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"Your current status is also insulting those who have spent time to help you too. " Massive own goal! | |||
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"Your current status is also insulting those who have spent time to help you too. Hoo boy.
Dude, would you rather people lie? Sure, you're sex on legs, women will be flocking to you in no time! ... It might make you feel good, but it won't help you get what you want. "I havent been lieing I message for advice or to see what your interests are. Feel like im being attacked by the crows lol | |||
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"Your current status is also insulting those who have spent time to help you too. Massive own goal!" Current status is because someone messaged me not from my forum posts and was really rude and angered me. I say it how it is  | |||
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"Your current status is also insulting those who have spent time to help you too. Hoo boy.
Dude, would you rather people lie? Sure, you're sex on legs, women will be flocking to you in no time! ... It might make you feel good, but it won't help you get what you want. "I also misread your message. I had someone message outside the forum which annoyed me lol | |||
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"Your current status is also insulting those who have spent time to help you too. Hoo boy.
Dude, would you rather people lie? Sure, you're sex on legs, women will be flocking to you in no time! ... It might make you feel good, but it won't help you get what you want.
I also misread your message. I had someone message outside the forum which annoyed me lol"So block them and ignore them. | |||
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"The advice I specifically have for you is not to send unwanted pm's OP. " . "I had someone message outside the forum which annoyed me lol" Oh, the irony | |||
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"Your current status is also insulting those who have spent time to help you too. Hoo boy.
Dude, would you rather people lie? Sure, you're sex on legs, women will be flocking to you in no time! ... It might make you feel good, but it won't help you get what you want.
I also misread your message. I had someone message outside the forum which annoyed me lol
So block them and ignore them. "I have now lol | |||
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"Ive also took ts/tv off my list. Didnt realise it is an issue for some women and couples. Appreciate the feedback" Either you like tv/ts or you don't. Taking them off your preferences is to deny you have a preference for them. Once you start altering your profile to be what you think people want , you become something that isn't you. Anyone who meets you based on your profile is meeting a lie. Be yourself. You could just copy and paste the profile of the most successful male fabber here, but it doesn't make you behave like him. Eventually the gaping chasm between what you have written and what you actually want will reveal itself. Oh and don't ask for advice if you can't handle being told what is unappealing about you. | |||
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"Ive also took ts/tv off my list. Didnt realise it is an issue for some women and couples. Appreciate the feedback Either you like tv/ts or you don't. Taking them off your preferences is to deny you have a preference for them. Once you start altering your profile to be what you think people want , you become something that isn't you. Anyone who meets you based on your profile is meeting a lie. Be yourself. You could just copy and paste the profile of the most successful male fabber here, but it doesn't make you behave like him. Eventually the gaping chasm between what you have written and what you actually want will reveal itself. Oh and don't ask for advice if you can't handle being told what is unappealing about you." Thats pretty much nailed it. Personally, I would far rather fuck a man who owns his own stuff, than one who compromises who he really is for a shag | |||
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"Ive also took ts/tv off my list. Didnt realise it is an issue for some women and couples. Appreciate the feedback Either you like tv/ts or you don't. Taking them off your preferences is to deny you have a preference for them. Once you start altering your profile to be what you think people want , you become something that isn't you. Anyone who meets you based on your profile is meeting a lie. Be yourself. You could just copy and paste the profile of the most successful male fabber here, but it doesn't make you behave like him. Eventually the gaping chasm between what you have written and what you actually want will reveal itself. Oh and don't ask for advice if you can't handle being told what is unappealing about you." Thats not true ive been taking advice on board. Ive realised their are flaws on my profile. No one is perfect. If I need to amend my profile to increase my chances of getting my goals I dont see the issue. Im learning day by day how this site works | |||
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"Ive also took ts/tv off my list. Didnt realise it is an issue for some women and couples. Appreciate the feedback Either you like tv/ts or you don't. Taking them off your preferences is to deny you have a preference for them. Once you start altering your profile to be what you think people want , you become something that isn't you. Anyone who meets you based on your profile is meeting a lie. Be yourself. You could just copy and paste the profile of the most successful male fabber here, but it doesn't make you behave like him. Eventually the gaping chasm between what you have written and what you actually want will reveal itself. Oh and don't ask for advice if you can't handle being told what is unappealing about you. Thats pretty much nailed it. Personally, I would far rather fuck a man who owns his own stuff, than one who compromises who he really is for a shag " I definetely own but its looking at yourself in the mirror from time to time. Im not here for just shagging. Im open to long chats and socials getting to know people | |||
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"Ive also took ts/tv off my list. Didnt realise it is an issue for some women and couples. Appreciate the feedback Either you like tv/ts or you don't. Taking them off your preferences is to deny you have a preference for them. Once you start altering your profile to be what you think people want , you become something that isn't you. Anyone who meets you based on your profile is meeting a lie. Be yourself. You could just copy and paste the profile of the most successful male fabber here, but it doesn't make you behave like him. Eventually the gaping chasm between what you have written and what you actually want will reveal itself. Oh and don't ask for advice if you can't handle being told what is unappealing about you. Thats not true ive been taking advice on board. Ive realised their are flaws on my profile. No one is perfect. If I need to amend my profile to increase my chances of getting my goals I dont see the issue. Im learning day by day how this site works "And therein lies the problem. Are you amending your profile to attract the right people or just amending it to appeal to everyone? It seems to me you just want a meet, so are relying on identikit profilemaker 3000 to achieve that. Ultimately it is your profile and you can run it how you wish. If you are still here in 18 months time, you'll either be posting "why won't people meet me" with a generic profile that merges with 100's of profiles, or you'll have written a "here's me, I don't care what you think" profile. The second one will give you a smaller pond to fish in, but a better quality of catch. | |||
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"Ive also took ts/tv off my list. Didnt realise it is an issue for some women and couples. Appreciate the feedback Either you like tv/ts or you don't. Taking them off your preferences is to deny you have a preference for them. Once you start altering your profile to be what you think people want , you become something that isn't you. Anyone who meets you based on your profile is meeting a lie. Be yourself. You could just copy and paste the profile of the most successful male fabber here, but it doesn't make you behave like him. Eventually the gaping chasm between what you have written and what you actually want will reveal itself. Oh and don't ask for advice if you can't handle being told what is unappealing about you. Thats not true ive been taking advice on board. Ive realised their are flaws on my profile. No one is perfect. If I need to amend my profile to increase my chances of getting my goals I dont see the issue. Im learning day by day how this site works
And therein lies the problem.
Are you amending your profile to attract the right people or just amending it to appeal to everyone?
It seems to me you just want a meet, so are relying on identikit profilemaker 3000 to achieve that.
Ultimately it is your profile and you can run it how you wish. If you are still here in 18 months time, you'll either be posting "why won't people meet me" with a generic profile that merges with 100's of profiles, or you'll have written a "here's me, I don't care what you think" profile.
The second one will give you a smaller pond to fish in, but a better quality of catch."Nope I will not be amending for a while now. Its always good to have a refresh here and their. Good luck to you | |||
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"Ive also took ts/tv off my list. Didnt realise it is an issue for some women and couples. Appreciate the feedback Either you like tv/ts or you don't. Taking them off your preferences is to deny you have a preference for them. Once you start altering your profile to be what you think people want , you become something that isn't you. Anyone who meets you based on your profile is meeting a lie. Be yourself. You could just copy and paste the profile of the most successful male fabber here, but it doesn't make you behave like him. Eventually the gaping chasm between what you have written and what you actually want will reveal itself. Oh and don't ask for advice if you can't handle being told what is unappealing about you." | |||
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"12 hours later, it still says the same. "You ask for advice or enquire and then got shot down lmao" Your excuse for that was 11 hours ago, and you have been online since. So?" I wasnt actually logged on for that long and forgot to change it. Seems like someone has been stalking my profile | |||
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"Op -do you put in as much "effort" with your messages as you did with formulating your thread question?" Yh I think I have made an effort. Sure their was some slight misunderstanding on my half. I do genuinely appreciate everyone elses views | |||
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"Op -do you put in as much "effort" with your messages as you did with formulating your thread question? Yh I think I have made an effort. Sure their was some slight misunderstanding on my half. I do genuinely appreciate everyone elses views" Slight misunderstanding sounds like code for not bothering to read their profile properly | |||
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"Op -do you put in as much "effort" with your messages as you did with formulating your thread question? Yh I think I have made an effort. Sure their was some slight misunderstanding on my half. I do genuinely appreciate everyone elses views Slight misunderstanding sounds like code for not bothering to read their profile properly " When I say misunderstanding. I mean some of the messages posted on this forum have been misunderstood by myself. I can read profiles and understand lol | |||
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"Patience young man, I haven't had a, meet for 5 months and prefer to not push things the people I have met have been worth the wait and are friends now, stick with it and manners and patience " Thats good to hear. Genuinely glad you have made friends from here | |||
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"12 hours later, it still says the same. "You ask for advice or enquire and then got shot down lmao" Your excuse for that was 11 hours ago, and you have been online since. So? I wasnt actually logged on for that long and forgot to change it. Seems like someone has been stalking my profile "I would have removed it immediately. And it's not uncommon to go back and see if someone has taken your advice. | |||
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"12 hours later, it still says the same. "You ask for advice or enquire and then got shot down lmao" Your excuse for that was 11 hours ago, and you have been online since. So? I wasnt actually logged on for that long and forgot to change it. Seems like someone has been stalking my profile
I would have removed it immediately. And it's not uncommon to go back and see if someone has taken your advice. "Thats fair enough i didnt realise it was still on until this morning. For some reason I thought it expires after so long ? | |||
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