FabSwingers.com forum: Why is no one interested?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

e been on here a while and not had much success, has anyone got any advice to help me here, I'm not particularly fussy. How do you usually open a conversation and how could I improve my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you have asked for advice hope this helps.

The first thing is your profile tells very little about who you are and what you like

It is very minimal and also references to drugs will put the vast majority off meeting you.

Maybe more information as to what your looking for what you like etc will help

Also you have no veris and I know this is very hard to get as a single man but there are a few swingers clubs in your area try visiting one and just chatting and socialising with people.

Make sure you get their fab names if you are getting on well and Veri them etc.

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By *tuOnePlumMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Welcome to fab....unfortunately....girls get hundreds of messages and some think they are movie stars as a result....keep plugging away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have only been on here 4 weeks. In fab time that's nothing at all.

Because you asked how to improve your profile a couple of things he I would say is get rid of the last line.

That won't do you any favours on here

Try to put something on to entice people in.

Most people look at profiles before reading a message.

And try to start only 1 thread for the same question

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've updated my profile that any better?

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Not really. Change the photos, they are unimaginative and boring, let alone will attract more gay men than straight women. Set age limits. Delete that status.

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Better photos (not of your knob) would be a help I’m sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The results are correlated to the efforts you put in.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"The results are correlated to the efforts you put in."

This.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Are you considering meets with the over 70s?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"I've updated my profile that any better? "

Two poor quality photos, very limited text, quite young (although some will be ok with this) and you've been on here 5 minutes....as others have said, get to socials or clubs...life happens in the real world.

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

Why do you think you're a swinger? Why not just use tinder or similar?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If your profile truly reflects you then leave it. There's advice on mine, should you wish to use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8" really? Not going by your pic

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

hot wife

Some more info and more natural pictures every girl on here knows what a cock looks like show us the type of man we might be meeting and not just the same boring dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by your pictures and profile I wouldn't be interested either.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

would never let a 24yo dom me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You state your a Dom but give no details around that about what experience you have. Type of plays you have trained in and have experience in.

When you are say your a Dom your telling people that

"i can keep you safe"

" Ican deal with the emotional bonding that takes place"

" I can play without causing lasting damage"

" I can deal with the aftercare needs physically and emotionally"

" I can walk in your mind without damaging it'

To name a few.

Those that are interested in the kink lifestyle will be expecting a level of knowledge and skill and need to know you have this.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

More knob than knob hill....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More knob than knob hill....

Lol

Morning beautiful xx

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I'm not particularly fussy" will have fannys fluttering all over fab

Priceless

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By *.A.MGUY55Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

"As you have asked for advice hope this helps.

The first thing is your profile tells very little about who you are and what you like

It is very minimal and also references to drugs will put the vast majority off meeting you.

Maybe more information as to what your looking for what you like etc will help

Also you have no veris and I know this is very hard to get as a single man but there are a few swingers clubs in your area try visiting one and just chatting and socialising with people.

Make sure you get their fab names if you are getting on well and Veri them etc.

Perfect

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

The Dom line put me off too.

You are 24. There is a good chance you do not have the emotional maturity, let alone the experience to Dom someone effectively. That one line says so much to a person, if you can't back it up you find yourself in very dangerous territory.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Hide the cock pics, show them to those who ask

Try to tease by only showing a little

Say you’re ‘well endowed’ rather than quote a number, it affirms you are indeed, intelligent (as you state), rather than proud of a number.

Lose the last two lines of text, they are superfluous as you already state what you’re interested in, with your interests list. Also, anyone who is keen to know more about you, will get in touch

Patience is a virtue my young friend, and you have oodles of time in your favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately no better in my opinion OP

Both threads your asking on people are telling you the same thing.

You need to put effort into your text and photos.

Good luck

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"You state your a Dom but give no details around that about what experience you have. Type of plays you have trained in and have experience in.

When you are say your a Dom your telling people that

"i can keep you safe"

" Ican deal with the emotional bonding that takes place"

" I can play without causing lasting damage"

" I can deal with the aftercare needs physically and emotionally"

" I can walk in your mind without damaging it'

To name a few.

Those that are interested in the kink lifestyle will be expecting a level of knowledge and skill and need to know you have this.

This... sooooo much this. A lot of profiles I've seen say "I'm Dom" without knowing what that actually means. You get conversing with these "men" and ask about aftercare and their minds draw a blank. The 50 shades has buggered them to think " yeah I can do that, where's my suit?"

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"More knob than knob hill....

Lol

Morning beautiful xx"

Ooooooooooooo my fav couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You state your a Dom but give no details around that about what experience you have. Type of plays you have trained in and have experience in.

When you are say your a Dom your telling people that

"i can keep you safe"

" Ican deal with the emotional bonding that takes place"

" I can play without causing lasting damage"

" I can deal with the aftercare needs physically and emotionally"

" I can walk in your mind without damaging it'

To name a few.

Those that are interested in the kink lifestyle will be expecting a level of knowledge and skill and need to know you have this.

Totally agree. We came into swinging after being in the local kink scene for 10 years xx it frightens us some of the messages we get from people who don't understand anything about the lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More knob than knob hill....

Lol

Morning beautiful xx

Ooooooooooooo my fav couple!

How are you this wonderful day sweetie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've updated my profile that any better? "

Nope.

Unless you’re after meeting gay men.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I do wonder if some of these posts are less "help me sell myself" and more "look at me, aren't I amazing, fall at my feet damn it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do wonder if some of these posts are less "help me sell myself" and more "look at me, aren't I amazing, fall at my feet damn it" "

I’ve been thinking the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do wonder if some of these posts are less "help me sell myself" and more "look at me, aren't I amazing, fall at my feet damn it" "

There’s so many of these posts and 9 times out of 10, the person pays no attention to the advice given. For the common observer like me, it just tells me who best to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"8" really? Not going by your pic"

I'd say about 6 tops

Perhaps 6 and a half on his birthday

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"e been on here a while and not had much success, has anyone got any advice to help me here, I'm not particularly fussy. How do you usually open a conversation and how could I improve my profile.

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My gran said if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all...So I am struggling right now.

Read your profile...why should a woman, especially a sub woman, meet you over the 100s of other MacDoms out there?

Ms Icebreaker

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"You state your a Dom but give no details around that about what experience you have. Type of plays you have trained in and have experience in.

When you are say your a Dom your telling people that

"i can keep you safe"

" Ican deal with the emotional bonding that takes place"

" I can play without causing lasting damage"

" I can deal with the aftercare needs physically and emotionally"

" I can walk in your mind without damaging it'

To name a few.

Those that are interested in the kink lifestyle will be expecting a level of knowledge and skill and need to know you have this.

Totally agree. We came into swinging after being in the local kink scene for 10 years xx it frightens us some of the messages we get from people who don't understand anything about the lifestyle "

This is the post I couldn't be arsed to write

Ms Icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"e been on here a while and not had much success, has anyone got any advice to help me here, I'm not particularly fussy. How do you usually open a conversation and how could I improve my profile.

Thanks

My gran said if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all...So I am struggling right now.

Read your profile...why should a woman, especially a sub woman, meet you over the 100s of other MacDoms out there?

Ms Icebreaker "

Is that a new burger mrs i

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Try tinder mate . This site is full of time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You state your a Dom but give no details around that about what experience you have. Type of plays you have trained in and have experience in.

When you are say your a Dom your telling people that

"i can keep you safe"

" Ican deal with the emotional bonding that takes place"

" I can play without causing lasting damage"

" I can deal with the aftercare needs physically and emotionally"

" I can walk in your mind without damaging it'

To name a few.

Those that are interested in the kink lifestyle will be expecting a level of knowledge and skill and need to know you have this.

Totally agree. We came into swinging after being in the local kink scene for 10 years xx it frightens us some of the messages we get from people who don't understand anything about the lifestyle

This is the post I couldn't be arsed to write

Ms Icebreaker "

Lol glad I could help grin xx

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I do wonder if some of these posts are less "help me sell myself" and more "look at me, aren't I amazing, fall at my feet damn it" "

I wonder why folk tell people to change their profile to hide what they're really like.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"e been on here a while and not had much success, has anyone got any advice to help me here, I'm not particularly fussy. How do you usually open a conversation and how could I improve my profile.

Thanks

My gran said if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all...So I am struggling right now.

Read your profile...why should a woman, especially a sub woman, meet you over the 100s of other MacDoms out there?

Ms Icebreaker

Is that a new burger mrs i"

I hope they won't sue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"e been on here a while and not had much success, has anyone got any advice to help me here, I'm not particularly fussy. How do you usually open a conversation and how could I improve my profile.

Thanks

My gran said if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all...So I am struggling right now.

Read your profile...why should a woman, especially a sub woman, meet you over the 100s of other MacDoms out there?

Ms Icebreaker

Is that a new burger mrs i

I hope they won't sue! "

bet it takes control of your taste buds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You state your a Dom but give no details around that about what experience you have. Type of plays you have trained in and have experience in.

When you are say your a Dom your telling people that

"i can keep you safe"

" Ican deal with the emotional bonding that takes place"

" I can play without causing lasting damage"

" I can deal with the aftercare needs physically and emotionally"

" I can walk in your mind without damaging it'

To name a few.

Those that are interested in the kink lifestyle will be expecting a level of knowledge and skill and need to know you have this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Dom line put me off too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love licking Pussy? Enough said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You state your a Dom but give no details around that about what experience you have. Type of plays you have trained in and have experience in.

When you are say your a Dom your telling people that

"i can keep you safe"

" Ican deal with the emotional bonding that takes place"

" I can play without causing lasting damage"

" I can deal with the aftercare needs physically and emotionally"

" I can walk in your mind without damaging it'

To name a few.

Those that are interested in the kink lifestyle will be expecting a level of knowledge and skill and need to know you have this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you change your profile to be what people want, you lose your real self in the process.

Elaborate more on what you can offer (beyond the length of your cock) and try and stand out as someone different and worth meeting.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I do wonder if some of these posts are less "help me sell myself" and more "look at me, aren't I amazing, fall at my feet damn it"

I wonder why folk tell people to change their profile to hide what they're really like."

Some people are fine but genuinely have no clue. The others come out in the wash anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My standard advice is,

Who do you think you are? What do you have to offer? What are you looking for? What makes you different?

(when these questions are answered they do tell you a lot about the person, whether it's flattering or not)

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I see you removed the reference to the 420 thing. Put it back.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

There are many posts on improving your profile, I would do a forum search and then actually take on board some of the advice given. Your profile is a chance for people to have an insight into you and to generate some interest, you have to make it as enticing, as interesting , and full of fun as you are in order for people to want more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a sub to my partner, I would never consider anyone who states they are a dom but has no proof. I would want someone experienced.

You are 24, how are you experienced, what is your understanding? Your profile is very short for someone claiming so much.

You only want to meet women on your profile text, but you say you want to meet couples- what would you want the man to do? Watch? Let you take his partner and dom her? No one, with respect for their partner, would be ok with someone wanting to dom them, with nothing to back up an understanding of the scene and can guarantee the safety of their partner.

This isn’t a “I’m a sub and know everything” response btw, just someone in a relationship that includes that aspect, and as such wouldn’t feel comfortable meeting someone with a profile such as yours.

Lose the dom bit. You can’t prove it. What’s wrong with guys being assertive, why do they always want to claim they’re dominant- it’s off putting.

Lose at least ones of the cock pics- crop it if you must to show your abs, or put something completely different up. Not every woman is interested in the size of you cock- so what! If you can’t offer anything more than that they may as well use a vibrator.

And you’ve pretty much insulted any woman on here- not fussy!! Women have standards, you’ve just stated that you don’t have any and that any woman would do. Way to make them feel attractive and desired.

You should really rethink how you put yourself across, be honest, make yourself appealing- what makes you intelligent, what are your interests, what makes you fun- your sense of humour etc.

Good luck, when you do take on board what is being advised xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not knocking you btw, just the wording you use xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"8" really? Not going by your pic

I'd say about 6 tops

Perhaps 6 and a half on his birthday "

I thought 6 too lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Try tinder mate . This site is full of time wasters."

I see what you’re doing here; trying to increase the odds of you getting a meet, by reducing the competition eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"8" really? Not going by your pic

I'd say about 6 tops

Perhaps 6 and a half on his birthday

I thought 6 too lol"

And that's if the winds right

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

'Message me to find out more,...why? Why would you expect us to message you to chase more information when there are hundreds of other single guys that will be messaging us, some with similar profiles to you but some sending a he gone message and with profiles telling us about them and showing some useful full body dressed shots or maybe naked torso shots. Dick pics really don't do anything for my wife and I'm certainly not interested. Why do you think a dick pic is the definition of your profile?

Have a look round fab and think about what you want. If you just think women or couples will flock to you as a young single guy then you are mistaken. There is way more choice for ladies and couples and you need to do something to stand out. Write your profile as if you were writing a short biography, albeit more open about your sexual preferences. Treat your photos as you would if you were trying to get a modelling job.

And don't be afraid to message people but make sure your message is thought out and genuine and, if you don't send a clear face pic straight off, offer it on a reply to your initial message. Read the target profile and maje reference to the ckntebt ao you can show the recioient you have taken the time to read about them and what they like.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"You state your a Dom but give no details around that about what experience you have. Type of plays you have trained in and have experience in.

When you are say your a Dom your telling people that

"i can keep you safe"

" Ican deal with the emotional bonding that takes place"

" I can play without causing lasting damage"

" I can deal with the aftercare needs physically and emotionally"

" I can walk in your mind without damaging it'

To name a few.

Those that are interested in the kink lifestyle will be expecting a level of knowledge and skill and need to know you have this.

Yup I've had personal experience of emotional damage a dim dom can do. Never again will I give that level of trust to anyone.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Get yourself to socials mate. Mingle, be friendly and non pushy. Every chance of doing well then as long as you let your personality come to the fore. If you rely on here alone there's every chance things will be pretty barren long-term. The girls call the shots, along with the couples and youve every chance of getting swallowed up in the numbers game, or be looked at like you're something that's been stepped in by some, simply for being a single male, no matter how good your profile gets. Get out and meet people - it's paid off handsomely for me. You'll also meet great people you'd never have had an opportunity with otherwise. Good luck.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I'm not particularly fussy" hahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You state your a Dom but give no details around that about what experience you have. Type of plays you have trained in and have experience in.

When you are say your a Dom your telling people that

"i can keep you safe"

" Ican deal with the emotional bonding that takes place"

" I can play without causing lasting damage"

" I can deal with the aftercare needs physically and emotionally"

" I can walk in your mind without damaging it'

To name a few.

Those that are interested in the kink lifestyle will be expecting a level of knowledge and skill and need to know you have this.

Yup I've had personal experience of emotional damage a dim dom can do. Never again will I give that level of trust to anyone. "

That's a real shame as done right it's an amazing dynamic xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I'm not particularly fussy" hahahahaha

I must admit i did like that line XX

Makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside xx

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

I'd head down to wherever in The Wirral 24 year olds congregate and chat up women rather than hang around here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The results are correlated to the efforts you put in."

Couldn’t of out it better myself zero effort zero results maximum effort gets results re do your profile from the ground up its taken me a year to get to my profile its still not perfect but like everything in life ya gotta work on it all year round its like a cv needs to be updated regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You state your a Dom but give no details around that about what experience you have. Type of plays you have trained in and have experience in.

When you are say your a Dom your telling people that

"i can keep you safe"

" Ican deal with the emotional bonding that takes place"

" I can play without causing lasting damage"

" I can deal with the aftercare needs physically and emotionally"

" I can walk in your mind without damaging it'

To name a few.

Those that are interested in the kink lifestyle will be expecting a level of knowledge and skill and need to know you have this.

Yup I've had personal experience of emotional damage a dim dom can do. Never again will I give that level of trust to anyone.

That's a real shame as done right it's an amazing dynamic xxx"

Mt don't get done get dom

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"e been on here a while and not had much success, has anyone got any advice to help me here, I'm not particularly fussy. How do you usually open a conversation and how could I improve my profile.

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Your profile is less than average.

And you're 'not particularly fussy'??

Thanks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Said exactly what i was thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You state your a Dom but give no details around that about what experience you have. Type of plays you have trained in and have experience in.

When you are say your a Dom your telling people that

"i can keep you safe"

" Ican deal with the emotional bonding that takes place"

" I can play without causing lasting damage"

" I can deal with the aftercare needs physically and emotionally"

" I can walk in your mind without damaging it'

To name a few.

Those that are interested in the kink lifestyle will be expecting a level of knowledge and skill and need to know you have this.

Yup I've had personal experience of emotional damage a dim dom can do. Never again will I give that level of trust to anyone.

That's a real shame as done right it's an amazing dynamic xxx

Mt don't get done get dom"

Indeed lol

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

When I looked yesterday there were only two blurry cock pics, and today the profile is hidden. Here's hoping the OP is frantically rewriting and posing for selfies based on all the good advice he has been given.

Looking forward to the big reveal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I looked yesterday there were only two blurry cock pics, and today the profile is hidden. Here's hoping the OP is frantically rewriting and posing for selfies based on all the good advice he has been given.

Looking forward to the big reveal

"Hidden phallus" profile now

Now there's a novel n quirky new u/name op

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Yep -saying you're not fussy is really gonna seal the deal alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've updated my profile that any better? "

11 word profile....

Some are beyond help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For gods sake after all the advice he got he's gone ten steps backwards should of stuck to ur last write up because this new one is a huge red flag

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over a year ago

"For gods sake after all the advice he got he's gone ten steps backwards should of stuck to ur last write up because this new one is a huge red flag "

Some people can’t be helped. It’s even worse than it was! He’s not a dom, just a kid! Probably used to meeting girls from regular clubs etc, bosses them about and thinks that make makes him a dom xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Picture better but not great, you need more pictures (and more flattering/ sexy than a hoodie).

Text terrible and a hard pass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For gods sake after all the advice he got he's gone ten steps backwards should of stuck to ur last write up because this new one is a huge red flag

I remember being in his situation asking for advice on mine i got given some awesome advice and well alot of people think ive made a huge improvement excluding the pics i need better pics but my write up is in my opinion sound definitely noticed im getting alot more attention then before alas some people like the op just cant be saved he probably would be better off on tinder then fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear lord. Please spare me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you put as much effort in the messages as there is in your profile, you're not going to get much luck on here. I'd say other places should be more suitable for you, when you only need to use the arrows, at least at first.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"e been on here a while and not had much success, has anyone got any advice to help me here, I'm not particularly fussy. How do you usually open a conversation and how could I improve my profile.

Thanks

Hiding your profile won't help

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"e been on here a while and not had much success, has anyone got any advice to help me here, I'm not particularly fussy. How do you usually open a conversation and how could I improve my profile.

Thanks

Hiding your profile won't help"

Hiding never helps

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