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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I so want to surprise my boyfriend with another woman for us to both enjoy anyone else done this ?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I so want to surprise my boyfriend with another woman for us to both enjoy anyone else done this ?"

Lots of people have status updates and forum posts like this. Quite how successful they've been I don't know. Personally speaking I find this scenario reppelant. It's disrespectful to the female to be treated as a disposable couples fuck toy. Good luck.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I so want to surprise my boyfriend with another woman for us to both enjoy anyone else done this ?

Lots of people have status updates and forum posts like this. Quite how successful they've been I don't know. Personally speaking I find this scenario reppelant. It's disrespectful to the female to be treated as a disposable couples fuck toy. Good luck. "

This.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I so want to surprise my boyfriend with another woman for us to both enjoy anyone else done this ?

Lots of people have status updates and forum posts like this. Quite how successful they've been I don't know. Personally speaking I find this scenario reppelant. It's disrespectful to the female to be treated as a disposable couples fuck toy. Good luck. "

This

K x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I meant for me and her to enjoy my bf not the other way round...jesus

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"I meant for me and her to enjoy my bf not the other way round...jesus"

Not sure how you think that makes it any better, when it's pretty much exactly the same.

It's why I (and I suspect many other women) don't really meet couples. And why as a couple we only tend to meet other couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I organised a ffm. We didn't treat her like a sexy toy or disrespect her in anyway. We spoke several times before the meet and discussed fantasies, boundaries etc. We all had a wonderful time and we can't wait to experience it again x Lucy x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

There's a big tendency for couples to treat bi fems like a vibrator. A pretty thing to get out on their demands, at their convenience, for their pleasure. Your OP, rightly or wrongly, reads like that.

Bi fems are called unicorns for a reason. We're difficult to hunt down. Watch the way you're perceived or you'll make it even harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I so want to surprise my boyfriend with another woman for us to both enjoy anyone else done this ?"

Not much of a surprise if he see this...

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"There's a big tendency for couples to treat bi fems like a vibrator. A pretty thing to get out on their demands, at their convenience, for their pleasure. Your OP, rightly or wrongly, reads like that.

Bi fems are called unicorns for a reason. We're difficult to hunt down. Watch the way you're perceived or you'll make it even harder. "

Precisely why I have no desire to meet couples anymore. I always read profiles too. Most aren't female friendly.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"There's a big tendency for couples to treat bi fems like a vibrator. A pretty thing to get out on their demands, at their convenience, for their pleasure. Your OP, rightly or wrongly, reads like that.

Bi fems are called unicorns for a reason. We're difficult to hunt down. Watch the way you're perceived or you'll make it even harder.

Precisely why I have no desire to meet couples anymore. I always read profiles too. Most aren't female friendly. "

I'm open to couples, but my success rate is pretty much zero.

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"There's a big tendency for couples to treat bi fems like a vibrator. A pretty thing to get out on their demands, at their convenience, for their pleasure. Your OP, rightly or wrongly, reads like that.

Bi fems are called unicorns for a reason. We're difficult to hunt down. Watch the way you're perceived or you'll make it even harder.

Precisely why I have no desire to meet couples anymore. I always read profiles too. Most aren't female friendly.

I'm open to couples, but my success rate is pretty much zero. "

REALLY. Your profile and pics are very appealing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a big tendency for couples to treat bi fems like a vibrator. A pretty thing to get out on their demands, at their convenience, for their pleasure. Your OP, rightly or wrongly, reads like that.

Bi fems are called unicorns for a reason. We're difficult to hunt down. Watch the way you're perceived or you'll make it even harder.

Precisely why I have no desire to meet couples anymore. I always read profiles too. Most aren't female friendly.

I'm open to couples, but my success rate is pretty much zero.

REALLY. Your profile and pics are very appealing x"

I think she meant that she cant find a couple that interests HER

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"There's a big tendency for couples to treat bi fems like a vibrator. A pretty thing to get out on their demands, at their convenience, for their pleasure. Your OP, rightly or wrongly, reads like that.

Bi fems are called unicorns for a reason. We're difficult to hunt down. Watch the way you're perceived or you'll make it even harder.

Precisely why I have no desire to meet couples anymore. I always read profiles too. Most aren't female friendly.

I'm open to couples, but my success rate is pretty much zero.

REALLY. Your profile and pics are very appealing x

I think she meant that she cant find a couple that interests HER "

That's how I took it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a big tendency for couples to treat bi fems like a vibrator. A pretty thing to get out on their demands, at their convenience, for their pleasure. Your OP, rightly or wrongly, reads like that.

Bi fems are called unicorns for a reason. We're difficult to hunt down. Watch the way you're perceived or you'll make it even harder.

Precisely why I have no desire to meet couples anymore. I always read profiles too. Most aren't female friendly. "

This

We want this, we want that..treat a woman like a sex object.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"There's a big tendency for couples to treat bi fems like a vibrator. A pretty thing to get out on their demands, at their convenience, for their pleasure. Your OP, rightly or wrongly, reads like that.

Bi fems are called unicorns for a reason. We're difficult to hunt down. Watch the way you're perceived or you'll make it even harder.

Precisely why I have no desire to meet couples anymore. I always read profiles too. Most aren't female friendly.

I'm open to couples, but my success rate is pretty much zero.

REALLY. Your profile and pics are very appealing x"

Thank you. I get plenty of messages, but so far it's never panned out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often get asked to join couples for fun and the fact I'm gay didn't put them off asking. I'm not a toy. But here to play with females only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I so want to surprise my boyfriend with another woman for us to both enjoy anyone else done this ?"

A lot of women would rather chat on cam or the phone to you both before agreeing to meet as he may not like her or visa versa meeting a single woman is not like buying a rabbit from a petshop there is more to it than that.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"There's a big tendency for couples to treat bi fems like a vibrator. A pretty thing to get out on their demands, at their convenience, for their pleasure. Your OP, rightly or wrongly, reads like that.

Bi fems are called unicorns for a reason. We're difficult to hunt down. Watch the way you're perceived or you'll make it even harder.

Precisely why I have no desire to meet couples anymore. I always read profiles too. Most aren't female friendly.

I'm open to couples, but my success rate is pretty much zero.

REALLY. Your profile and pics are very appealing x

Thank you. I get plenty of messages, but so far it's never panned out. "

I still get messages as they've completely ignored my profile.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ignoring my profile is a whole other rant

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By *oldupsnheelsCouple
over a year ago

bideford

I have been on here as a unicorn before coming back with my partner, it's a hard thing to do as the build up and chatting to both (as in the couple) is what starts to break the ice and the nerves. We personally cam chat a couple times before and "work out the kinks" as in what each person wants and is happy with. You are hunting for the illustrious unicorn that has amazing confidence and I wish you luck, perhaps try talking to him about it and chatting to someone, then having what's going to happen as the surprise? Blindfold him etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I so want to surprise my boyfriend with another woman for us to both enjoy anyone else done this ?

Lots of people have status updates and forum posts like this. Quite how successful they've been I don't know. Personally speaking I find this scenario reppelant. It's disrespectful to the female to be treated as a disposable couples fuck toy. Good luck. "

Exactly this.

I had one this morning. My partner would like to explore her bi side and put on a show for me. Are you interested

About as interested as licking in between my own toes.

Fuck toy indeed. I do not think so.

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By *adgirl69badboyCouple
over a year ago

Hull

I would like to have a gangbang with a difference. Ie more ladies than boys. Anybody interested

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I would like to have a gangbang with a difference. Ie more ladies than boys. Anybody interested "

You're not going to find it on this thread.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"I so want to surprise my boyfriend with another woman for us to both enjoy anyone else done this ?"

You're an absolute angel for thinking such a thing. A man couldnt hope for more from his woman. Hope it comes to fruition for you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would do it long as partner could watch .... I'd do a social with you to make sure we got on first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow maybe our profile is all wrong. We are looking for a regular bi female friend. It’s not all about sexual meets and it’s not all about what we as a couple want.

Shame people think that every couple on here looking for a unicorn is only interested in finding a fuck toy.

The sexual side for us is the cherry on the cake

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Wow maybe our profile is all wrong. We are looking for a regular bi female friend. It’s not all about sexual meets and it’s not all about what we as a couple want.

Shame people think that every couple on here looking for a unicorn is only interested in finding a fuck toy.

The sexual side for us is the cherry on the cake"

Not all couples do this. Many do. I'm totally open to finding respectful friendly meets with nice couples. But unfortunately many of us react to our previous experiences.

I wish you luck, genuinely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow maybe our profile is all wrong. We are looking for a regular bi female friend. It’s not all about sexual meets and it’s not all about what we as a couple want.

Shame people think that every couple on here looking for a unicorn is only interested in finding a fuck toy.

The sexual side for us is the cherry on the cake

Not all couples do this. Many do. I'm totally open to finding respectful friendly meets with nice couples. But unfortunately many of us react to our previous experiences.

I wish you luck, genuinely. "

You points are fully understandable if they are based on previous experiences. But you shouldn’t let those experiences cloud your judgement of others.

I hope you understand my comment wasn’t meant to offend. But to point out that if you look hard enough, you will find exactly what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I so want to surprise my boyfriend with another woman for us to both enjoy anyone else done this ?"

I'm a bi lady but not there for your pleasure and actually found thus rather rude, sorry definitely not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey huni do what you like ffs people judge to much !!! Enjoy and have fun xxx and why not this is a swinging site after all ... none of us have the right to judge !! If you don't like it scroll past it ... guess too many people think they are perfect lol ??

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hey huni do what you like ffs people judge to much !!! Enjoy and have fun xxx and why not this is a swinging site after all ... none of us have the right to judge !! If you don't like it scroll past it ... guess too many people think they are perfect lol ?? "

And we all have the right to meet who we like. Nobody is perfect, just because we are single female swingers doesn't mean we have to fuck couples, women or men when they demand it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's not demanding she's asking there's a difference!!!! ....

people need to get over themselves... we all on here for a reason... !! It's a sex site !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey huni do what you like ffs people judge to much !!! Enjoy and have fun xxx and why not this is a swinging site after all ... none of us have the right to judge !! If you don't like it scroll past it ... guess too many people think they are perfect lol ??

And we all have the right to meet who we like. Nobody is perfect, just because we are single female swingers doesn't mean we have to fuck couples, women or men when they demand it. "

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"She's not demanding she's asking there's a difference!!!! ....

people need to get over themselves... we all on here for a reason... !! It's a sex site !! "

It's a swinging site. The clue is in the name. I was referring to your post, not the OP, which is why I used reply and quote.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Wow maybe our profile is all wrong. We are looking for a regular bi female friend. It’s not all about sexual meets and it’s not all about what we as a couple want.

Shame people think that every couple on here looking for a unicorn is only interested in finding a fuck toy.

The sexual side for us is the cherry on the cake"

You sound like a lovely couple, I wish you both the best of luck. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not demanding she's asking there's a difference!!!! ....

people need to get over themselves... we all on here for a reason... !! It's a sex site !! "

“It’s a sex site” this is the exact reason why there are so many morons on here.

It’s actually a swingers site and believe it or not there is more to swinging than just sex

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"She's not demanding she's asking there's a difference!!!! ....

people need to get over themselves... we all on here for a reason... !! It's a sex site !!

“It’s a sex site” this is the exact reason why there are so many morons on here.

It’s actually a swingers site and believe it or not there is more to swinging than just sex"

Thankyou. For the record, I have met with a few lovely couples who enjoy the social side of things like yourselves. If sex happens it's a bonus but never expected. And yes, I'm still happy to meet them now as well. It's the entitled "this is a sex site, who cares" attitude of a lot of newer couples that is off putting. Hence why I have no interest in meeting them. The morons ruin it for themselves, the genuinely nice couples do very well on here in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant for me and her to enjoy my bf not the other way round...jesus"

Just ignore the fake outrage. The forumites will find any excuse to jump on someone who isnt one of "their own".

Equally, none of them would have been outraged if it were a couple looking for a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not demanding she's asking there's a difference!!!! ....

people need to get over themselves... we all on here for a reason... !! It's a sex site !!

“It’s a sex site” this is the exact reason why there are so many morons on here.

It’s actually a swingers site and believe it or not there is more to swinging than just sex

Thankyou. For the record, I have met with a few lovely couples who enjoy the social side of things like yourselves. If sex happens it's a bonus but never expected. And yes, I'm still happy to meet them now as well. It's the entitled "this is a sex site, who cares" attitude of a lot of newer couples that is off putting. Hence why I have no interest in meeting them. The morons ruin it for themselves, the genuinely nice couples do very well on here in my experience. "

You are very right in what you say and hopefully you manage to restore your faith in couples one day. After all it’s about your choices. It’s a shame some people on this site think they are doing you a favour contacting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant for me and her to enjoy my bf not the other way round...jesus

Just ignore the fake outrage. The forumites will find any excuse to jump on someone who isnt one of "their own".

Equally, none of them would have been outraged if it were a couple looking for a man. "

Excuse me. Don’t tell me what I would or wouldn’t say and who I’d say it to.

It’s a discussion. People can have their own opinions and air them. But you don’t know me so therefore you can’t comment on what I would say in any situation

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I meant for me and her to enjoy my bf not the other way round...jesus

Just ignore the fake outrage. The forumites will find any excuse to jump on someone who isnt one of "their own".

Equally, none of them would have been outraged if it were a couple looking for a man. "

Rubbish. We can all express an opinion and experiences on here. My feelings are exactly the same with men being used by couples thanks. No one should be treated like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant for me and her to enjoy my bf not the other way round...jesus

Just ignore the fake outrage. The forumites will find any excuse to jump on someone who isnt one of "their own".

Equally, none of them would have been outraged if it were a couple looking for a man.

Excuse me. Don’t tell me what I would or wouldn’t say and who I’d say it to.

It’s a discussion. People can have their own opinions and air them. But you don’t know me so therefore you can’t comment on what I would say in any situation "

If your outrage isnt fake then you have no reason to respond to my comment, which I stand by.

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By *randMrsTeaseCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Not all couple's treat woman as toys, in fact I find that an insult to be honest.

We are happy to strike up a conversation, chat for a good while, have a social if it takes the woman's fancy because it's important to gain a connection in our opinion. However we can't even get to the chat stage 99% of the time, it's a shame when as a genuine couple people won't even strike up a conversation with us.

Or maybe we're just ugly.... Who knows!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant for me and her to enjoy my bf not the other way round...jesus

Just ignore the fake outrage. The forumites will find any excuse to jump on someone who isnt one of "their own".

Equally, none of them would have been outraged if it were a couple looking for a man.

Rubbish. We can all express an opinion and experiences on here. My feelings are exactly the same with men being used by couples thanks. No one should be treated like that. "

I stand by my comment. If youre genuine in your feelings then you have nothing to be outraged against as the comment was directed to the many forumites who, regardless of the discussion, just like to be contrary for the sake of it.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I meant for me and her to enjoy my bf not the other way round...jesus

Just ignore the fake outrage. The forumites will find any excuse to jump on someone who isnt one of "their own".

Equally, none of them would have been outraged if it were a couple looking for a man.

Rubbish. We can all express an opinion and experiences on here. My feelings are exactly the same with men being used by couples thanks. No one should be treated like that.

I stand by my comment. If youre genuine in your feelings then you have nothing to be outraged against as the comment was directed to the many forumites who, regardless of the discussion, just like to be contrary for the sake of it."

No. Its called sharing personal experience in my case, not being contrary at all. Perhaps read the whole thread. I stand by my comments too. This is also a great filter thread.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My comments here are in the spirit of, these are the pitfalls some people fall into when contacting their target demographic (which, in this instance, I happen to fall into and thus speak to from personal experience). It's not outrage or all couples are bad. The OP phrased her request in a way that made me cringe because of this pattern. My hope in addressing it was to say, here's how to appeal to your target audience. I'm sorry if it's read differently, but my advice stands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant for me and her to enjoy my bf not the other way round...jesus

Just ignore the fake outrage. The forumites will find any excuse to jump on someone who isnt one of "their own".

Equally, none of them would have been outraged if it were a couple looking for a man.

Rubbish. We can all express an opinion and experiences on here. My feelings are exactly the same with men being used by couples thanks. No one should be treated like that.

I stand by my comment. If youre genuine in your feelings then you have nothing to be outraged against as the comment was directed to the many forumites who, regardless of the discussion, just like to be contrary for the sake of it.

No. Its called sharing personal experience in my case, not being contrary at all. Perhaps read the whole thread. I stand by my comments too. This is also a great filter thread. "

It really is.

Thats another one ticked off of todays "forum cliche bingo"!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I meant for me and her to enjoy my bf not the other way round...jesus

Just ignore the fake outrage. The forumites will find any excuse to jump on someone who isnt one of "their own".

Equally, none of them would have been outraged if it were a couple looking for a man.

Rubbish. We can all express an opinion and experiences on here. My feelings are exactly the same with men being used by couples thanks. No one should be treated like that.

I stand by my comment. If youre genuine in your feelings then you have nothing to be outraged against as the comment was directed to the many forumites who, regardless of the discussion, just like to be contrary for the sake of it.

No. Its called sharing personal experience in my case, not being contrary at all. Perhaps read the whole thread. I stand by my comments too. This is also a great filter thread.

It really is.

Thats another one ticked off of todays "forum cliche bingo"!"

Excellent news.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant for me and her to enjoy my bf not the other way round...jesus

Just ignore the fake outrage. The forumites will find any excuse to jump on someone who isnt one of "their own".

Equally, none of them would have been outraged if it were a couple looking for a man.

Excuse me. Don’t tell me what I would or wouldn’t say and who I’d say it to.

It’s a discussion. People can have their own opinions and air them. But you don’t know me so therefore you can’t comment on what I would say in any situation

If your outrage isnt fake then you have no reason to respond to my comment, which I stand by. "

My outrage lays squarely with you. You have no right tell me what I would and wouldn’t say in any situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant for me and her to enjoy my bf not the other way round...jesus

Just ignore the fake outrage. The forumites will find any excuse to jump on someone who isnt one of "their own".

Equally, none of them would have been outraged if it were a couple looking for a man.

Excuse me. Don’t tell me what I would or wouldn’t say and who I’d say it to.

It’s a discussion. People can have their own opinions and air them. But you don’t know me so therefore you can’t comment on what I would say in any situation

If your outrage isnt fake then you have no reason to respond to my comment, which I stand by.

My outrage lays squarely with you. You have no right tell me what I would and wouldn’t say in any situation "

Thereby admitting you're a fake-outrage forumite. I suggest you re-read my original post if you disagree.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Getting back to the OP I think they could have phrased things better with their posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant for me and her to enjoy my bf not the other way round...jesus

Just ignore the fake outrage. The forumites will find any excuse to jump on someone who isnt one of "their own".

Equally, none of them would have been outraged if it were a couple looking for a man.

Excuse me. Don’t tell me what I would or wouldn’t say and who I’d say it to.

It’s a discussion. People can have their own opinions and air them. But you don’t know me so therefore you can’t comment on what I would say in any situation

If your outrage isnt fake then you have no reason to respond to my comment, which I stand by.

My outrage lays squarely with you. You have no right tell me what I would and wouldn’t say in any situation

Thereby admitting you're a fake-outrage forumite. I suggest you re-read my original post if you disagree. "

Again. Telling me who and what I am. You don’t know me and i am very thankful for that. It’s a shame you don’t heed your own words really isn’t it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant for me and her to enjoy my bf not the other way round...jesus

Just ignore the fake outrage. The forumites will find any excuse to jump on someone who isnt one of "their own".

Equally, none of them would have been outraged if it were a couple looking for a man.

Excuse me. Don’t tell me what I would or wouldn’t say and who I’d say it to.

It’s a discussion. People can have their own opinions and air them. But you don’t know me so therefore you can’t comment on what I would say in any situation

If your outrage isnt fake then you have no reason to respond to my comment, which I stand by.

My outrage lays squarely with you. You have no right tell me what I would and wouldn’t say in any situation

Thereby admitting you're a fake-outrage forumite. I suggest you re-read my original post if you disagree.

Again. Telling me who and what I am. You don’t know me and i am very thankful for that. It’s a shame you don’t heed your own words really isn’t it ?"

Well, that makes no sense but ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant for me and her to enjoy my bf not the other way round...jesus

Just ignore the fake outrage. The forumites will find any excuse to jump on someone who isnt one of "their own".

Equally, none of them would have been outraged if it were a couple looking for a man.

Excuse me. Don’t tell me what I would or wouldn’t say and who I’d say it to.

It’s a discussion. People can have their own opinions and air them. But you don’t know me so therefore you can’t comment on what I would say in any situation

If your outrage isnt fake then you have no reason to respond to my comment, which I stand by.

My outrage lays squarely with you. You have no right tell me what I would and wouldn’t say in any situation

Thereby admitting you're a fake-outrage forumite. I suggest you re-read my original post if you disagree.

Again. Telling me who and what I am. You don’t know me and i am very thankful for that. It’s a shame you don’t heed your own words really isn’t it ?

Well, that makes no sense but ok. "

Maybe I need to dumb it down for you.

“Just ignore the fake outrage. The forumites will find any excuse to jump on someone who isn’t one of their own”

Is that not what you are doing ? Are you not jumping on someone that doesn’t agree with your point of view ? Are you not, therefore one of the forumites you talk about ?

May I suggest you go back and read the thread from the beginning. I said nothing to the Op about what they had posted. But you took it upon yourself to tar all posters with the same brush.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Jaytee, the only one outraged here is you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I so want to surprise my boyfriend with another woman for us to both enjoy anyone else done this ?"

As a single woman who likes to meet couples, I understand what you are saying however I think you’ve worded this badly...

As others have stated, the other woman is not a plaything for you’re enjoyment!

I love meeting couples but it will always be on my terms which I think is fair as the single woman!

Make sure you discuss with the other woman beforehand boundaries, what you’d like and more importantly what she’d like too!

Good luck and have fun!!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Jaytee, the only one outraged here is you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jaytee, the only one outraged here is you. "

Well, not quite if you read the subsequent posts at the top of this thread after the OP's initial message, but feel free to jump on the bandwagon

Anyway, I'm bored of this now so wont be replying to anymore posts on this subject. Enjoy your day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give the OP a break - a VAST majority of MF couples on here list "only looking for women" on their profiles and a significant number of "straight" females list "only looking for women" - so why have a go at the OP for asking the question - it is a sex dating site after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I so want to surprise my boyfriend with another woman for us to both enjoy anyone else done this ?

I'm a bi lady but not there for your pleasure and actually found thus rather rude, sorry definitely not for me "

This was an interesting post. Think we get the point you are making, but the reality is any woman who meets a couple is in fact there for their pleasure - otherwise why would they want to meet her?

And in exactly the same way, any woman who meets a couple expects them to be there for her pleasure - otherwise why would she want to meet them?

Because when a woman and a couple (or indeed any combination of anyone) meet on here, the idea is that all of them are their for the mutual pleasure they will derive from being there for each other - otherwise why would any of us want to meet?

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"........otherwise why would any of us want to meet? "

We don't. We prefer to keep our juices to ourselves. Otherwise we'd be meeting others all the time. Single men just like it that way.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Well yes, the assumption is that people here are looking to meet other people for pleasure.

While it’s clearly not true of every single individual, it’s probably very safe to say it’s true of the majority.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm happy to give pleasure, and completely understand that that's what people are looking for here. But I try to sell myself on that basis. I think the point here is, so other people should do the same. Whether it's guys needing a massage or their balls drained with no drama, messing, or giving a fuck about others. Or couples who make it sound like they don't care too much about the women they're seeking.

I'm not anti couple, or man, or anyone else. Just, what any person says leads me to draw conclusions.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I'm happy to give pleasure, and completely understand that that's what people are looking for here. But I try to sell myself on that basis. I think the point here is, so other people should do the same. Whether it's guys needing a massage or their balls drained with no drama, messing, or giving a fuck about others. Or couples who make it sound like they don't care too much about the women they're seeking.

I'm not anti couple, or man, or anyone else. Just, what any person says leads me to draw conclusions. "

Totally agree, and to be honest that’s as it should be.

Essentially, if people don’t have sufficient emotional intelligence to communicate with potential sex partners on here successfully, it’s very unlikely they will mutually physically satisfy successfully either.

That’s a lot of ‘y’s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, people taking shit way too seriously. Go get offended elsewhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant for me and her to enjoy my bf not the other way round...jesus"
bet you didn't see that escalating so quick. I don't think ur selfish, or disrespectful or anything other than a horny couple looking to explore. Some people love to find criticism where none is needed. You can have a third person if you want to! Who gets the most out of it, well that's for the three in the room to decide. Either as a fucktoy or the focus of two people, the dynamic is never the same. Chill out people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I so want to surprise my boyfriend with another woman for us to both enjoy anyone else done this ?

Lots of people have status updates and forum posts like this. Quite how successful they've been I don't know. Personally speaking I find this scenario reppelant. It's disrespectful to the female to be treated as a disposable couples fuck toy. Good luck.

This. "

this

sorry but if u are a cpl, then meet as a cpl; not treat him to a "surprise".

My suggestion go to a nice club..speak to couples there and if it happens it happens...otherwise...soz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a big tendency for couples to treat bi fems like a vibrator. A pretty thing to get out on their demands, at their convenience, for their pleasure. Your OP, rightly or wrongly, reads like that.

Bi fems are called unicorns for a reason. We're difficult to hunt down. Watch the way you're perceived or you'll make it even harder.

Precisely why I have no desire to meet couples anymore. I always read profiles too. Most aren't female friendly.

I'm open to couples, but my success rate is pretty much zero.

REALLY. Your profile and pics are very appealing x

I think she meant that she cant find a couple that interests HER "

Again it's how one reads it, no different to the interpretation of the OP.

The interpretation of something can often be effected by our own perception/experiences whether good or bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately too often people assume and jump in and as such make a total bollox if something innocently said. Instead a wise one would simply ask if they might explain what they meant. But no we lock to lash out and kick as if we miss the playground ruckus of our youth.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Unfortunately too often people assume and jump in and as such make a total bollox if something innocently said. Instead a wise one would simply ask if they might explain what they meant. But no we lock to lash out and kick as if we miss the playground ruckus of our youth."

I don't think this interpretation does the OP service. Bi fems are the most sought after demographic on Fab. We get too much mail and are in too much demand. If I get a message that might look selfish, I'm not going to clarify. Ultimately it's one of dozens I get (on a quiet day).

It might be juvenile or rude to assume, but it's the only way we manage our inboxes. If the offer is unappealing, we reject.

I commented so that the OP (or others) can reflect on whether they appeal to the people they're seeking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm outraged, don't know why but it seems like that's why people come on here.

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By *lsieWoman
over a year ago

where ever


"She's not demanding she's asking there's a difference!!!! ....

people need to get over themselves... we all on here for a reason... !! It's a sex site !!

“It’s a sex site” this is the exact reason why there are so many morons on here.

It’s actually a swingers site and believe it or not there is more to swinging than just sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The backlash comments in this thread are laughable.

I wonder do they also apply to couples seeking a male to come and play?, or is that somehow different to a woman being invited around for fun?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The backlash comments in this thread are laughable.

I wonder do they also apply to couples seeking a male to come and play?, or is that somehow different to a woman being invited around for fun?"

That's up to the man to decide. We're saying how we'd react as the demographic being sought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This comment in particular

'It's disrespectful to the female to be treated as a disposable couples fuck toy. Good luck.'

The updates page is FULL of couples looking for 'hung' males. No other attributes requested, just objectified by their penis, yet no one seems as up in arms about that?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"This comment in particular

'It's disrespectful to the female to be treated as a disposable couples fuck toy. Good luck.'

The updates page is FULL of couples looking for 'hung' males. No other attributes requested, just objectified by their penis, yet no one seems as up in arms about that?"

I already said about that in one of my previous posts on this thread. Try reading the whole thread. ^^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you on this one. Too many people out there just looking to be offended or ready to protect the downtrodden!

Put the daily mail down and step away people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I so want to surprise my boyfriend with another woman for us to both enjoy anyone else done this ?

Lots of people have status updates and forum posts like this. Quite how successful they've been I don't know. Personally speaking I find this scenario reppelant. It's disrespectful to the female to be treated as a disposable couples fuck toy. Good luck.

This.

this

sorry but if u are a cpl, then meet as a cpl; not treat him to a "surprise".

My suggestion go to a nice club..speak to couples there and if it happens it happens...otherwise...soz"

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'm with you on this one. Too many people out there just looking to be offended or ready to protect the downtrodden!

Put the daily mail down and step away people! "

It's called personal experience actually, and the daily mail has nothing to do with this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with you on this one. Too many people out there just looking to be offended or ready to protect the downtrodden!

Put the daily mail down and step away people!

It's called personal experience actually, and the daily mail has nothing to do with this thread. "
No, it's called taking things too seriously and looking for offence. The op asked an innocent enough question, how it ended up with such outrage and disgust shows how prevalent the defenders of the persecuted are on here.

Sex site, swingers site, call it what you will, this site is used by adults for sexy fun of all varieties and flavours. Not everyone needs to be respected and valued, some like it downright dirty, take me, use me as you see fit types, it's a mixed bag of naughtiness out there.

Live and let live I say.

As a single man, it would vary from some women not even talking to you till they've seen yr tackle, to being blocked by others for daring to show ur bits. It's a minefield out there so once more I say live and let live.

If the op wants a human fucktoy for her and her bf, with no consideration of pleasure for the aforementioned fucktoy, then good luck, her search might be harder but I'm sure there's someone out there that craves that very scenario. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean you should piss on her fire. Good luck to her, I'm sure she knows her bf well enough and it could be fun for all involved.

Will the op ever make such an innocent post in here again? Probably not, so you get to take a perch for a while till the next poor unsuspecting victim swims by.

Thank you. I also do weddings and bar mitzvahs!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'm with you on this one. Too many people out there just looking to be offended or ready to protect the downtrodden!

Put the daily mail down and step away people!

It's called personal experience actually, and the daily mail has nothing to do with this thread. No, it's called taking things too seriously and looking for offence. The op asked an innocent enough question, how it ended up with such outrage and disgust shows how prevalent the defenders of the persecuted are on here.

Sex site, swingers site, call it what you will, this site is used by adults for sexy fun of all varieties and flavours. Not everyone needs to be respected and valued, some like it downright dirty, take me, use me as you see fit types, it's a mixed bag of naughtiness out there.

Live and let live I say.

As a single man, it would vary from some women not even talking to you till they've seen yr tackle, to being blocked by others for daring to show ur bits. It's a minefield out there so once more I say live and let live.

If the op wants a human fucktoy for her and her bf, with no consideration of pleasure for the aforementioned fucktoy, then good luck, her search might be harder but I'm sure there's someone out there that craves that very scenario. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean you should piss on her fire. Good luck to her, I'm sure she knows her bf well enough and it could be fun for all involved.

Will the op ever make such an innocent post in here again? Probably not, so you get to take a perch for a while till the next poor unsuspecting victim swims by.

Thank you. I also do weddings and bar mitzvahs! "

I'm expressing an opinion and personal experience. We are all allowed to do that. I personally found the original post offensive as did others. Others have supported them and haven't found their post offensive, that's also their choice. So yes, let's live and let live. Enjoy your weddings and bar mitzvahs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I so want to surprise my boyfriend with another woman for us to both enjoy anyone else done this ?"

Best girlfriend ever!! Good luck with it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with you on this one. Too many people out there just looking to be offended or ready to protect the downtrodden!

Put the daily mail down and step away people!

It's called personal experience actually, and the daily mail has nothing to do with this thread. No, it's called taking things too seriously and looking for offence. The op asked an innocent enough question, how it ended up with such outrage and disgust shows how prevalent the defenders of the persecuted are on here.

Sex site, swingers site, call it what you will, this site is used by adults for sexy fun of all varieties and flavours. Not everyone needs to be respected and valued, some like it downright dirty, take me, use me as you see fit types, it's a mixed bag of naughtiness out there.

Live and let live I say.

As a single man, it would vary from some women not even talking to you till they've seen yr tackle, to being blocked by others for daring to show ur bits. It's a minefield out there so once more I say live and let live.

If the op wants a human fucktoy for her and her bf, with no consideration of pleasure for the aforementioned fucktoy, then good luck, her search might be harder but I'm sure there's someone out there that craves that very scenario. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean you should piss on her fire. Good luck to her, I'm sure she knows her bf well enough and it could be fun for all involved.

Will the op ever make such an innocent post in here again? Probably not, so you get to take a perch for a while till the next poor unsuspecting victim swims by.

Thank you. I also do weddings and bar mitzvahs!

I'm expressing an opinion and personal experience. We are all allowed to do that. I personally found the original post offensive as did others. Others have supported them and haven't found their post offensive, that's also their choice. So yes, let's live and let live. Enjoy your weddings and bar mitzvahs! "
As am I, I am but me, alone in my ignorance, it's the word "offensive" being bandied around that I find highly laughable and shows more about the delicate nature of the offended than anything else. It's a goto state of readiness that is the downfall of conversation, discussion and debate. We have the right to offend, the right to be offended and we also have the right to tell forum vultures to wind their necks in!

To the op, good luck with ur surprise.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'm with you on this one. Too many people out there just looking to be offended or ready to protect the downtrodden!

Put the daily mail down and step away people!

It's called personal experience actually, and the daily mail has nothing to do with this thread. No, it's called taking things too seriously and looking for offence. The op asked an innocent enough question, how it ended up with such outrage and disgust shows how prevalent the defenders of the persecuted are on here.

Sex site, swingers site, call it what you will, this site is used by adults for sexy fun of all varieties and flavours. Not everyone needs to be respected and valued, some like it downright dirty, take me, use me as you see fit types, it's a mixed bag of naughtiness out there.

Live and let live I say.

As a single man, it would vary from some women not even talking to you till they've seen yr tackle, to being blocked by others for daring to show ur bits. It's a minefield out there so once more I say live and let live.

If the op wants a human fucktoy for her and her bf, with no consideration of pleasure for the aforementioned fucktoy, then good luck, her search might be harder but I'm sure there's someone out there that craves that very scenario. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean you should piss on her fire. Good luck to her, I'm sure she knows her bf well enough and it could be fun for all involved.

Will the op ever make such an innocent post in here again? Probably not, so you get to take a perch for a while till the next poor unsuspecting victim swims by.

Thank you. I also do weddings and bar mitzvahs!

I'm expressing an opinion and personal experience. We are all allowed to do that. I personally found the original post offensive as did others. Others have supported them and haven't found their post offensive, that's also their choice. So yes, let's live and let live. Enjoy your weddings and bar mitzvahs! As am I, I am but me, alone in my ignorance, it's the word "offensive" being bandied around that I find highly laughable and shows more about the delicate nature of the offended than anything else. It's a goto state of readiness that is the downfall of conversation, discussion and debate. We have the right to offend, the right to be offended and we also have the right to tell forum vultures to wind their necks in!

To the op, good luck with ur surprise. "

And I used the phrase I personally found it offensive. Nothing to do with the downfall of discussion or debate. I stated personal experience and an opinion. I don't understand which bit you don't get. Name calling is rude. As is telling people to wind their necks in. I'm done with our discussion, or lack of as you put it. And yes I wish tho OP the best of luck too. I'm sure there probably are women that are happy to be a couples fuck toy. Personally I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with you on this one. Too many people out there just looking to be offended or ready to protect the downtrodden!

Put the daily mail down and step away people!

It's called personal experience actually, and the daily mail has nothing to do with this thread. No, it's called taking things too seriously and looking for offence. The op asked an innocent enough question, how it ended up with such outrage and disgust shows how prevalent the defenders of the persecuted are on here.

Sex site, swingers site, call it what you will, this site is used by adults for sexy fun of all varieties and flavours. Not everyone needs to be respected and valued, some like it downright dirty, take me, use me as you see fit types, it's a mixed bag of naughtiness out there.

Live and let live I say.

As a single man, it would vary from some women not even talking to you till they've seen yr tackle, to being blocked by others for daring to show ur bits. It's a minefield out there so once more I say live and let live.

If the op wants a human fucktoy for her and her bf, with no consideration of pleasure for the aforementioned fucktoy, then good luck, her search might be harder but I'm sure there's someone out there that craves that very scenario. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean you should piss on her fire. Good luck to her, I'm sure she knows her bf well enough and it could be fun for all involved.

Will the op ever make such an innocent post in here again? Probably not, so you get to take a perch for a while till the next poor unsuspecting victim swims by.

Thank you. I also do weddings and bar mitzvahs!

I'm expressing an opinion and personal experience. We are all allowed to do that. I personally found the original post offensive as did others. Others have supported them and haven't found their post offensive, that's also their choice. So yes, let's live and let live. Enjoy your weddings and bar mitzvahs! As am I, I am but me, alone in my ignorance, it's the word "offensive" being bandied around that I find highly laughable and shows more about the delicate nature of the offended than anything else. It's a goto state of readiness that is the downfall of conversation, discussion and debate. We have the right to offend, the right to be offended and we also have the right to tell forum vultures to wind their necks in!

To the op, good luck with ur surprise.

And I used the phrase I personally found it offensive. Nothing to do with the downfall of discussion or debate. I stated personal experience and an opinion. I don't understand which bit you don't get. Name calling is rude. As is telling people to wind their necks in. I'm done with our discussion, or lack of as you put it. And yes I wish tho OP the best of luck too. I'm sure there probably are women that are happy to be a couples fuck toy. Personally I'm not. "
I'll keep that in mind when we're looking for our next slave/fucktoy to use as we are fit. We've both made our positions quite clear.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'm with you on this one. Too many people out there just looking to be offended or ready to protect the downtrodden!

Put the daily mail down and step away people!

It's called personal experience actually, and the daily mail has nothing to do with this thread. No, it's called taking things too seriously and looking for offence. The op asked an innocent enough question, how it ended up with such outrage and disgust shows how prevalent the defenders of the persecuted are on here.

Sex site, swingers site, call it what you will, this site is used by adults for sexy fun of all varieties and flavours. Not everyone needs to be respected and valued, some like it downright dirty, take me, use me as you see fit types, it's a mixed bag of naughtiness out there.

Live and let live I say.

As a single man, it would vary from some women not even talking to you till they've seen yr tackle, to being blocked by others for daring to show ur bits. It's a minefield out there so once more I say live and let live.

If the op wants a human fucktoy for her and her bf, with no consideration of pleasure for the aforementioned fucktoy, then good luck, her search might be harder but I'm sure there's someone out there that craves that very scenario. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean you should piss on her fire. Good luck to her, I'm sure she knows her bf well enough and it could be fun for all involved.

Will the op ever make such an innocent post in here again? Probably not, so you get to take a perch for a while till the next poor unsuspecting victim swims by.

Thank you. I also do weddings and bar mitzvahs!

I'm expressing an opinion and personal experience. We are all allowed to do that. I personally found the original post offensive as did others. Others have supported them and haven't found their post offensive, that's also their choice. So yes, let's live and let live. Enjoy your weddings and bar mitzvahs! As am I, I am but me, alone in my ignorance, it's the word "offensive" being bandied around that I find highly laughable and shows more about the delicate nature of the offended than anything else. It's a goto state of readiness that is the downfall of conversation, discussion and debate. We have the right to offend, the right to be offended and we also have the right to tell forum vultures to wind their necks in!

To the op, good luck with ur surprise.

And I used the phrase I personally found it offensive. Nothing to do with the downfall of discussion or debate. I stated personal experience and an opinion. I don't understand which bit you don't get. Name calling is rude. As is telling people to wind their necks in. I'm done with our discussion, or lack of as you put it. And yes I wish tho OP the best of luck too. I'm sure there probably are women that are happy to be a couples fuck toy. Personally I'm not. I'll keep that in mind when we're looking for our next slave/fucktoy to use as we are fit. We've both made our positions quite clear. "

Exactly. I wish you the best of luck. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've found it's best to use other websites or connections to hook up with other women for meets. Meets we've had with friends who are also into the kink community work out the best and have been the most fun, resulting in repeat meets because we all get along.

As for FAB, we've actually been messed around by women MORE than men on here, which was a surprise, we understand how dog piled they get but getting judged that we're just "unicorn hunters" or worse, arranging meets and then blocking us just makes us feel like this site tends to have a bit of a negative energy at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow maybe our profile is all wrong. We are looking for a regular bi female friend. It’s not all about sexual meets and it’s not all about what we as a couple want.

Shame people think that every couple on here looking for a unicorn is only interested in finding a fuck toy.

The sexual side for us is the cherry on the cake"

We can relate to this so much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to find single bi females that’s what we want

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow maybe our profile is all wrong. We are looking for a regular bi female friend. It’s not all about sexual meets and it’s not all about what we as a couple want.

Shame people think that every couple on here looking for a unicorn is only interested in finding a fuck toy.

The sexual side for us is the cherry on the cake

Not all couples do this. Many do. I'm totally open to finding respectful friendly meets with nice couples. But unfortunately many of us react to our previous experiences.

I wish you luck, genuinely.

You points are fully understandable if they are based on previous experiences. But you shouldn’t let those experiences cloud your judgement of others.

I hope you understand my comment wasn’t meant to offend. But to point out that if you look hard enough, you will find exactly what you are looking for."

I understand you had many bad experiences before, but you can't judge everyone based on them.

Maybe spending more time getting to know the potential partners let it be through video calls or social meets could help avoid having disappointing playmeets.

Mr P.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which sites are they please ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Fab don't generally allow you to name the competition.

I'm sorry many don't like what bi women are telling you. But our experiences cloud our judgement, that's inevitable and human. My filters remain open because I hope for positive experiences, but if you write things that already remind me of negative experiences, I'll tell you (on the forum) so you have a chance to correct the misconception in messages.

If you can't deal with the fact that you work within a common genre of experiences and need to differentiate yourself, finding someone you're looking for is going to be even harder. If you can't deal with constructive criticism meant to help you, Fab might be too harsh a place for you, particularly if you seek the most chased after group.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Wow maybe our profile is all wrong. We are looking for a regular bi female friend. It’s not all about sexual meets and it’s not all about what we as a couple want.

Shame people think that every couple on here looking for a unicorn is only interested in finding a fuck toy.

The sexual side for us is the cherry on the cake

Not all couples do this. Many do. I'm totally open to finding respectful friendly meets with nice couples. But unfortunately many of us react to our previous experiences.

I wish you luck, genuinely.

You points are fully understandable if they are based on previous experiences. But you shouldn’t let those experiences cloud your judgement of others.

I hope you understand my comment wasn’t meant to offend. But to point out that if you look hard enough, you will find exactly what you are looking for.

I understand you had many bad experiences before, but you can't judge everyone based on them.

Maybe spending more time getting to know the potential partners let it be through video calls or social meets could help avoid having disappointing playmeets.

Mr P. "

Unfortunately a lot don't want the social side at all. I always thought that was a big part of swinging generally.

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over a year ago


"Unfortunately a lot don't want the social side at all. I always thought that was a big part of swinging generally. "

Ironically that's where most women on here ditch us when we try and arrange a social? Damned if you do, Damned if you don't.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Unfortunately a lot don't want the social side at all. I always thought that was a big part of swinging generally.

Ironically that's where most women on here ditch us when we try and arrange a social? Damned if you do, Damned if you don't. "

I know.

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