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By *reambig29 OP   Man
over a year ago

Camberley

Can someone please explain to me why I only get men viewing my profile all the time. I get about 100-200 views a day, plenty of messages aswell...but every one is either a fucking bloke or a TS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women view profiles in secret mode so they wont show up in the whos looked section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they want to see what a monstercock looks like.

Have you considered changing your username and a different profile pic.

Most guys want a bigger dick,not all women want one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 24/01/19 16:16:11]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some usernames attract much more women and TVs mate. Most women would see any username with the words "monster" and "cock" in it together and find it offputting. Whereas for many more bottom males and a lot of TVs it would float their boat rather well..

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone please explain to me why I only get men viewing my profile all the time. I get about 100-200 views a day, plenty of messages aswell...but every one is either a fucking bloke or a TS. "

Why don’t you use the filters to block guys/tv’s/TS from messaging you?

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By *reambig29 OP   Man
over a year ago

Camberley

Yeah tbf I did that might be something to do with it. Was just a laugh when I first made the account, didn’t think it was gonna change the world. But I’ve changed it anyway...cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah tbf I did that might be something to do with it. Was just a laugh when I first made the account, didn’t think it was gonna change the world. But I’ve changed it anyway...cheers "

You have mm couple on profile your interested in thats why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You also have a male verification too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On your profile you have that it makes you want to vom the amount of cock pics you get.. yet you have more than 1 cock pic yourself in your profile..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On your profile you have that it makes you want to vom the amount of cock pics you get.. yet you have more than 1 cock pic yourself in your profile.. "

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By *ohnygodMan
over a year ago

TOKYO Japan

Ive got around 10-15 msg a day about suck my cock lol

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

Yeah I get a lot of unwanted male attention too, mostly from bi men in couples.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Can someone please explain to me why I only get men viewing my profile all the time. I get about 100-200 views a day, plenty of messages aswell...but every one is either a fucking bloke or a TS. "

You can't stop them viewing you but as you haven't blocked them but are complaining it does come across as you are secretly interested in men.

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By *tew2009Man
over a year ago

wakefield

I get messages from bi guys too and when you chat to a couple, quite often there is no female, just a bi guy masquerading......and while we're having a go, how is it, on a lot of couples' profiles it's "only the male half playing today"? And he turns out to be bi!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are people aware you can block people who don’t fit what you are after?

As in single males?

We have filters in place that stops certain people messaging us.

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By *tew2009Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Bi males are a crafty lot lol. They come in all shapes and sizes including so called "couples" It's unbelievable how many bisexual men there are around, you would think they would all get together and leave us straight ones alone, or maybe we're a challenge?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

All sorts of people look at and/or message people who clearly aren't interested in them. I'm afraid that's just life.

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By *reambig29 OP   Man
over a year ago

Camberley

[Removed by poster at 25/01/19 12:23:54]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile pic attracts them

Most agree..(plenty of threads about the subject) That a pic with cock or cock pic aviator is pretty much a no no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just accept it.

I'm in the middle of nowhere and get an average of 3 a day?

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I got 23 males and 1 woman viewing me yesterday. It's just life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may move my location to a more populous area to see if it makes a difference.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Most blokes just see a profile on Whose Near, or in the forums etc.

They don’t know your sexual orientation until they view your profile. You could be gagging for cock for all they know until they read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi males are a crafty lot lol. They come in all shapes and sizes including so called "couples" It's unbelievable how many bisexual men there are around, you would think they would all get together and leave us straight ones alone, or maybe we're a challenge?"

Yep, that's it - a real challenge, you dreamboat

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By *angerineMan
over a year ago

somewhere inbetween the right and wrong


"Just accept it.

I'm in the middle of nowhere and get an average of 3 a day?"

Still more than me sometimes. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some usernames attract much more women and TVs mate. Most women would see any username with the words "monster" and "cock" in it together and find it offputting. Whereas for many more bottom males and a lot of TVs it would float their boat rather well..

B"

*Steals an admiring glance of another thread. The Revolution will be Televised.

"I see yourvquite proficcient in Fab as well as Foreigner "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some usernames attract much more women and TVs mate. Most women would see any username with the words "monster" and "cock" in it together and find it offputting. Whereas for many more bottom males and a lot of TVs it would float their boat rather well..

B"

*Steals an admiring glance of another thread. The Revolution will be Televised.

"I see yourvquite proficcient in Fab as well as Foreigner "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*proficient I can't spell on Stella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op wtf have you done to your gonads last but one pic

Looks like your punishing them for being naughty

And yes obvs block

Unless your in the closet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you filter single men, you won't even be able to see they've looked...

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Oh my god. Men LOOKED at you?! Are you ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure the op will be ok mrs t once the initial shock is over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op wtf have you done to your gonads last but one pic

Looks like your punishing them for being naughty

And yes obvs block

Unless your in the closet "

Deffo i thought thought the same.. very off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sent you a message OP..well just because really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This couple just looked at you.

It was the man though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This couple just looked at you.

It was the man though."

Has the op deleted his balls strangulation masterpiece yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my god. Men LOOKED at you?! Are you ok?

"

#thestruggleisreal

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"This couple just looked at you.

It was the man though.

Has the op deleted his balls strangulation masterpiece yet "

Why does he have to? If that's his thing, leave him to it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry OP. Was intrigued and had to view your profile lol.

I get views and messages from guys too...im straight but I personally don't have a problem with it.

But i sometimes check out guys profiles too, not because I'm interested in them, just more out of curiosity about a person's profile etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha I think at least half my views aren't women or couples. It's an open world for all the fabbers to see haha

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By *reambig29 OP   Man
over a year ago

Camberley

Wow...so this went from me asking a simple bit of advice....to get slagged off and accused of being gay! Fml...how ridiculous and immature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it as a compliment Makes me wish I was gay, tbh. Seems more straightforward for those guys. Some of the ones who message me can barely fit their manhood in the pic.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Can someone please explain to me why I only get men viewing my profile all the time. I get about 100-200 views a day, plenty of messages aswell...but every one is either a fucking bloke or a TS.

Why don’t you use the filters to block guys/tv’s/TS from messaging you?"

This

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By *el111Man
over a year ago

Essex/London

how do you do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone please explain to me why I only get men viewing my profile all the time. I get about 100-200 views a day, plenty of messages aswell...but every one is either a fucking bloke or a TS. "

Possibly because your profile is a cock? Women, in my experidnce, prefer to see a face first or torso.

A lot of men also ignore profiles, preferences and sexuality, because they see you as a sex object and not a person.

Not all men are looking at you for Sexual reasons. A lot of men look to compare themselves against the "Competition". See how they stack up in comparison.

End of the day my you can use your filters to stop them messaging you. Or just ignore it. It's no big deal really.

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By *urhamjayMan
over a year ago

Durham

I look at men's profiles if they allow it. I like to pick up tips.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I cant explain why women are not looking at your profile but i can totally understand why men are looking..

Your pics could easily be out of a gay mag.

In my experience, guys that are comfortable with their masculinity are totally ok with other guys fancying them etc..

I notice your verifications are now hidden, does this suggest you are not secure with your maleness??

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Some usernames attract much more women and TVs mate. Most women would see any username with the words "monster" and "cock" in it together and find it offputting. Whereas for many more bottom males and a lot of TVs it would float their boat rather well..

B"

ok so what about my username as i get a higher amount of single males looking at my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really like it..be honest..you have changed you profile pic back again to a cock pic....

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Have you put a fun filter on your profile picture?

I'm sure cocks aren't meant to look strangulated purple

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Because no one knows what your after without looking at your profile. After all thats why its there. Or they have accidently tapped on thier screen on mobile app.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you put a fun filter on your profile picture?

I'm sure cocks aren't meant to look strangulated purple "

Hung jury on this case me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U have a dick as a profile pic work it out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Least you've got people viewing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posting in forums will get guys viewing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Purple cock, he been dipping it in beetroot juice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Purple cock, he been dipping it in beetroot juice "

Is that the same when Prince Charles got diagnosed with a multi coloured penis pal ........cause he'd been dipping it in di?

*coats on and leaving the building you sexy people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Purple cock, he been dipping it in beetroot juice

Is that the same when Prince Charles got diagnosed with a multi coloured penis pal ........cause he'd been dipping it in di?

*coats on and leaving the building you sexy people "

Aye

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By *Cocksucker84Man
over a year ago

salford

Like others have said, block men from your profile, problem solved. There's nothing like being a drama queen

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