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Do people on this site still meet, or is it just me??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv put up requests for meets and sent hundreds of genuine messages - no cut and paste and seem to be having very little joy..

A bit of advice and guidence wouldn't go a miss!!

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

You've been on here before (according to your profile) so you must know the score. And seven weeks this time around without a meet is nothing.. - assuming your verifications are from previous times on here? - otherwise you appear to have met already..

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

negativity breeds negativity... plus as you say you have been before... so you should know the score....

sometimes these threads come across as "desperate"..... and desperation isn't really the sexiest of traits.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet socially first so I wouldn't bother with meets today things, even worse when they have a mobile number attached!

Each to his/her own though

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By *riendlymasseurMan
over a year ago

birmingham Warwickshire &Worcestershire


"Iv put up requests for meets and sent hundreds of genuine messages - no cut and paste and seem to be having very little joy..

A bit of advice and guidence wouldn't go a miss!!"

No mate its not just you, see how some people respond! Thats the problem not you. im sure it will work out in th =e end. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know what u mean, my meet is from previous but I'm not doing anything different this time round but struggling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what u mean, my meet is from previous but I'm not doing anything different this time round but struggling"

Perhaps there are a lot more this time around that prefer their own age group? Nice tattoo though

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

personally wouldnt meet a guy who thought this was what he did between relationships, screams of those single men who look down on swinging but hey,thats just me

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I meet, I met last night and hopefully meeting tonight to

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By *isa2hartWoman
over a year ago

twickenham

using this swinging lark as a fill in job between relationships isnt really swinging its called the leg over club,thats how yr prof comes across many woman like to have loose friendships and liasons ,still nsa but keeps things safer,when u get locked in a flat u become a little wary of the lets meet now notices.......

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I don't really care if they are only on here between relationships, I didn't notice any 'are you truely a swinger' exams when i registered for my account

Let's face it, couples can choose to come and go as their desire takes them, why is it so unacceptable for singles to be on here, enter into a relationship where they feel they are not ready to swing together and so leave?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I don't really care if they are only on here between relationships, I didn't notice any 'are you truely a swinger' exams when i registered for my account

Let's face it, couples can choose to come and go as their desire takes them, why is it so unacceptable for singles to be on here, enter into a relationship where they feel they are not ready to swing together and so leave?

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By *laphe1Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I think there are forms of singlism on here and couples who are singlist,maybe the F.A should get involved

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I know what u mean, my meet is from previous but I'm not doing anything different this time round but struggling"

I can't give you a magic pill, no guarantees , however as what you're doing now isn't / hasn't worked .. you either need to change something about your messages profile etc, or hope everyone else changes to you...

I can say now that you changing something is within your control, the other isn't, try different things, see what works. Best of luck..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I think there are forms of singlism on here and couples who are singlist,maybe the F.A should get involved"

What's the football association got to do with it

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I think there are forms of singlism on here and couples who are singlist,maybe the F.A should get involved

What's the football association got to do with it "

I thought it was the forum association,.. do they have a secret greeting..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do meet,I've had a few got one on wednesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some may not like tattoos, those that meet single men can pick and choose, so maybe you just havent floated anyones boat just yet.

all you can do is keep plugging away.

lots think that men that make contact are desperate, yet if you dont mae contact you can get overlooked, catch 22 and the whole reason i would never do this as a single guy, would rather move back to china (wan king)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I think there are forms of singlism on here and couples who are singlist,maybe the F.A should get involved"

LOL singlism, thats a new one. I assume that you mean regarding blokes, as apparently as a single woman I am getting laid non-stop!

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"Iv put up requests for meets and sent hundreds of genuine messages - no cut and paste and seem to be having very little joy..

A bit of advice and guidence wouldn't go a miss!!"
No,most have turned this site into facebook.*hides*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me. I think bin the the in between relationship bit out of text. Swingers want to meet swingers.

Not vanillas on a week off.

Get rid of the likes and dislikes.

Make your profile shorter.

Likes ......... Fucking you amazingly

Dislikes ..... You not coming more than once and loving every second.

Plus you look like you go to the gym. Better pics.

It's your advert to the world. Look at other peoples. I did. Mines not perfect.

But because I push boundaries and am a grade 'A' naughty fooker. People mail me. I never really mail anyone. But this is version 3 of my ad already.

But just shake it up a bit. Keep on plugging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people meet here but you do need patience.sometimes their nothing for a biy and then you can get lots in one go.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Iv put up requests for meets and sent hundreds of genuine messages - no cut and paste and seem to be having very little joy..

A bit of advice and guidence wouldn't go a miss!!"

I liked your profile, straight and to the point with nice pics.

i would keep joining in on the forums, maybe the chat room, and if you are into socials go along to one of them, I think there is normally one in Wigan running which obviously isn't far from you.

Most of all, as you will probably know as you have been on before, patience is the key...maybe a lot more single men are about at the moment.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what I'd do is go to a club - you re near enough manchester - why not pop down to adamd and eves in eccles on wednesday - there's a party - there you will find plenty of entertainment !

And you can get fellow party goers or the staff to verify you

good idea?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"negativity breeds negativity... plus as you say you have been before... so you should know the score....

sometimes these threads come across as "desperate"..... and desperation isn't really the sexiest of traits....."

The man asked for advice....it isn't negative to do this, it means a person doesn't think they know everything and are willing for other people to give a different slant on it.....and it certainly doesn't make people desperate.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"negativity breeds negativity... plus as you say you have been before... so you should know the score....

sometimes these threads come across as "desperate"..... and desperation isn't really the sexiest of traits.....

The man asked for advice....it isn't negative to do this, it means a person doesn't think they know everything and are willing for other people to give a different slant on it.....and it certainly doesn't make people desperate. "

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By *laphe1Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

yea singlist towards blokes of course.As a friend of mine put it a woman have a cock whenever they want but a bloke cant have a pussy likewise

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"yea singlist towards blokes of course.As a friend of mine put it a woman have a cock whenever they want but a bloke cant have a pussy likewise"

Your friend is wrong. Just saying.

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By *asyryder420Man
over a year ago

Arborfield

Been active for the last few months and have met 4 times in the last 3 months. Just keep your chin up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also meet but am unfortunately too far away

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

no one else does.... so who do you meet them?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I haven't met since last night.

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