FabSwingers.com forum: You've heard it all before, but...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all

I'm a typical cliché and I guarantee you've heard it all before; bloke having been married and monogamous for years, suddenly single, and realising that he want's to explore a more carnal route with no strings attached.

I stumbled across this site from a profile picture on a dating app and thought I'd take a look, but as with a lot of the other men on here, I'm not sure what to do, what to say, and how to initiate a meeting, either verbal or physical. I've briefly chatted to a couple of women but I'm obviously not in the right place to go any further.

I'm not comfortable in taking pictures of my body so I'm not going to go down that route in my profile, and I'm no oil painting or adonis, so if someone would be so kind as to give me some pointers on how to start, or indeed where I'm going wrong, that would be great.

Thank you all

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Your profile pics aren't bad. The drumming one is different and will set yout apart.

As far as your profile text goes, I've seen a hell of a lot worse.

If you like the idea of the swinging scene but there are aspects of the site that you're not comfortable with, you might have better luck in a club, where your Fab profile becomes irrelevant.

Find a club you're comfortable in, be a regular and grow your relationships from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you want to do with your profile its your choice after all and good luck on fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have to put up pics OP but they do help to get an actual meet! Good luck though mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile pics aren't bad. The drumming one is different and will set yout apart.

As far as your profile text goes, I've seen a hell of a lot worse.

If you like the idea of the swinging scene but there are aspects of the site that you're not comfortable with, you might have better luck in a club, where your Fab profile becomes irrelevant.

Find a club you're comfortable in, be a regular and grow your relationships from there."

I was also going to suggest the clubs. May be a good fit for you

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Your profile pics aren't bad. The drumming one is different and will set yout apart.

As far as your profile text goes, I've seen a hell of a lot worse.

If you like the idea of the swinging scene but there are aspects of the site that you're not comfortable with, you might have better luck in a club, where your Fab profile becomes irrelevant.

Find a club you're comfortable in, be a regular and grow your relationships from there.

I was also going to suggest the clubs. May be a good fit for you "

Great minds.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you to all for your replies. Excuse me for being really green but when you say clubs, what do you mean?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Thank you to all for your replies. Excuse me for being really green but when you say clubs, what do you mean?

Swingers clubs.

https://m.fabswingers.com/clubs

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