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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone got any advice for young guys ? I feel the catchment for women is so small as majority of women want older men. We are still here and ready and willing. So anyone fancies young then pop up

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Be patient, be polite, you will struggle due to your age.

Make sure your presence (profile, messages, forum posts, statuses) sells you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone got any advice for young guys ? I feel the catchment for women is so small as majority of women want older men. We are still here and ready and willing. So anyone fancies young then pop up "

Shame you're so far away x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you I look forward to meeting and chatting with more lovely women from this site x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Only in Crewe! Not too far from me a 45 min drive x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Anyone got any advice for young guys ? I feel the catchment for women is so small as majority of women want older men. We are still here and ready and willing. So anyone fancies young then pop up "

Why have you hidden your profile ? Will be hard to get meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh damn I left it on from over Xmas I'll turn it off now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only in Crewe! Not too far from me a 45 min drive x"

Says 220 miles away on here. What do you drive lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone got any advice for young guys ? I feel the catchment for women is so small as majority of women want older men. We are still here and ready and willing. So anyone fancies young then pop up "

Yer mate give time. Someone will message you soon. Took me a couple of months befor my first meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh haha it still has my work location I'm in Shropshire now !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh haha it still has my work location I'm in Shropshire now ! "

That would make more sense lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh haha it still has my work location I'm in Shropshire now !

That would make more sense lol x"

happy new year yu are so hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh haha it still has my work location I'm in Shropshire now !

That would make more sense lol x

happy new year yu are so hot"

Haha go on bro X

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By *ayyoMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Anyone got any advice for young guys ? I feel the catchment for women is so small as majority of women want older men. We are still here and ready and willing. So anyone fancies young then pop up "
dude. You're wrong. Speaking as a middle aged man. You get more action on here being young ripped and fit. The mature females like it. The young sexy couples like it. Just stick with it and broaden your network by going to clubs. I had great fun here in my 20s now not so much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just don't tend to get as much attention on here as older in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience boy. Only been here 3 weeks. Does take time

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I just don't tend to get as much attention on here as older in my opinion "

You've had a meet in three weeks. That's phenomenal for a guy here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didnt notice youve had a meet already. That is phenomenal lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Uhh thanks. I work my magic

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Best advice is to read profiles and put most of your energy into messaging people who are looking for your age range. No point even messaging people who are looking for 30 plus years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Uhh thanks. I work my magic "

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Read the profiles before messaging.

Age is irrelevant. It's just a number.

It's more about the person. I've had some great meets with guys my own age and I've also had great meets with guys in their twenties.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Anyone got any advice for young guys ? I feel the catchment for women is so small as majority of women want older men. We are still here and ready and willing. So anyone fancies young then pop up "

Attend socials and clubs, be patient and lower your expectations of fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Uhh thanks. I work my magic

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Well I'm trying to work it on you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice guys ! It's going well!

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By *ayyoMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"I just don't tend to get as much attention on here as older in my opinion

You've had a meet in three weeks. That's phenomenal for a guy here. "

Yes. Agreed. You're doing better than 95% of single men on here. Im a bit envious. Oh to be young again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers pal! That's helped my confidence on here ! But I'm sure you do well

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP,

Some people on here won't give you the time of day simply because of your age. Don't fret about it as there is nothing you can do to change it. Use the search engine to find people looking for guys your age, and only contact the people that are in a realistic travel distance.

The site itself won't do everything for you, so get yourself into the chatrooms, to clubs, across the forum etc and get to know people in your area. It takes a bit of effort to get that first meet, but usually it becomes a lot easier.

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