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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been here a while now and, initially, I had some success with meeting people or just having a conversation. But lately things have changed; I'm not getting responses from people or it's a flat out 'delete' on my messages.

So I'm looking for help on making a good first impression with people. What's worked or what's a complete turn off? Can you be too friendly or cheeky? Any ideas on what would be the best approach?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That depends on what the person your messaging is looking for.

When you see someone in a pub that you fancy. do you ask the person next to them what should you say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your only looking for BDSM fantasies your profile says to me

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

First of all do a forum search for this topic as there are already lots of answers out there.

Secondly be respectful and ONLY message people who you definitely might match what they are looking for.

There will be clues in their profiles

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By *mmacdheelsTV/TS
over a year ago

France, Not in

Unfortuneately there is no magic message. Just because you send a message doesn't mean people will or have to respond. Its not necessarily how much you say or how totally fabulous the message is it's basically down to if the recipient is in any way interested in you. Nevertheless, just keep on trying and just move on if the message is not responded to.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I've been here a while now and, initially, I had some success with meeting people or just having a conversation. But lately things have changed; I'm not getting responses from people or it's a flat out 'delete' on my messages.

So I'm looking for help on making a good first impression with people. What's worked or what's a complete turn off? Can you be too friendly or cheeky? Any ideas on what would be the best approach?

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Always offer cake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. Some very sound advice, especially about the cake. I shouldn't hit post when letting my feelings get the better of me.

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